Ability 1: Time arrangement ability
A successful person's schedule is arranged in seconds. College students should pay enough attention to the value of "time" from their college days. Many college students have wasted their college time, which I can say unequivocally. Activities that waste college students' time, such as playing online games, can be seen everywhere in colleges and universities, which is not exactly what college students should do. To say the least, I might as well do a part-time job and earn a little money if I have this time.
When we are in college, we should correctly understand the profound connotation of the sentence "Time is money". When there are many things, how to allocate time reasonably, properly and smoothly, and even complete each task well is a skill, and it is also a quality that only excellent people have. In fact, in universities, only a few times will make a student busy, such as before the final exam. At this time, it is necessary to allocate the review time of each subject skillfully and prioritize each exam. The allocation time with high priority is more, and the allocation time with low priority is less. To promote it, we should prioritize all kinds of work every day. Priorities are updated at any time and what everyone should do changes every day. Make plans in your mind in time to be orderly and busy.
Imagine that the study in the university is relatively easy. As a college student, if you can't even do this, you will be stretched to the limit after you step into the society and face the pressure from all sides every day.
Ability 2: oral and written expression ability
Many people envy those who speak on the stage. They are often elites in a certain industry. Carnegie wrote a famous book "Carnegie Encyclopedia of Eloquence", which elaborated on the benefits of good eloquence and how to train your eloquence. The ability of oral expression determines whether your position in the social process is active or passive. A glib mouth can help you win the first place in business debates and negotiations, make you the focus of friends' gatherings, make your work appreciated by your superiors, and thus make you step by step promoted. Many college students communicate with machines almost every day, and there are fewer and fewer opportunities to speak. It is almost extravagant to communicate with them. They can even avoid coherent and purposeful "speeches". It can be considered that they are afraid and tired of speaking, which is a remarkable feature of contemporary college students and directly leads to the serious degradation of their oral expression ability. We must have a sense of crisis in concept, pay attention to cultivating our eloquence in college, give ourselves more opportunities to speak on stage, and express more original opinions when friends get together or chat, all of which will help improve our oral expression ability.
Others are talkative, but once they are on paper, they seem to have no confidence. When you finish writing an article or diary, do you know how many typos, sick sentences and punctuation errors are contained in it? If you compare your article with that of a middle school student, is there any difference except that your material is more mature than theirs? This phenomenon is very common among college students. The rapid deterioration of calligraphy and the decline of writing ability can not but attract enough attention of college students, because the level of written expression will greatly affect your future status. Almost any article written by a leader or CEO is a masterpiece. Good writing can help you get promoted. Writing something in your spare time, such as blogging, can also exercise your thinking and analytical skills, which complement each other. Imagine, a person who can't even write self-planning and self-summary, can we ask more of him?
Ability 3: interpersonal skills
As we all know, people who can only do things but not be human are not excellent people. Many college students, like middle schools, still turn a deaf ear to things outside the window and concentrate on reading sage books. They never take the time to understand the mystery of interpersonal relationships, that is, people who can only do things but not be human; There are also many people in the university. They learn to study hard for the college entrance examination in school, but after they go to college, they will consciously cultivate their interpersonal skills, or join clubs or run for cadres. There will always be the right opportunity. The latter are smart people because they know what is playing in today's society; The former is unwise. On the surface, they just need to do their own thing, but they don't know how to be flexible and how to be hard with both hands. This is predestined. No matter how hard they try, they can only be Qiang Bing, and they will never be generals.
Knowledge, but not interpersonal relationship, knowledge is only knowledge; I know people, but I don't know much Now it seems that I am doing well, but you should know that there are bottlenecks in the development of such people. College students must remember: grasp with both hands and be hard with both hands!
Ability 4: Psychological adjustment ability
University life is colorful. Studying, working, falling in love and playing games are the key words of college students' life. Faced with all kinds of results of all kinds of things, all kinds of people have all kinds of mentality. Good psychological adjustment ability is an essential quality for every successful person.
Don't be complacent when you meet a happy event; Don't be at a loss when you encounter difficulties. It is an excellent character since ancient times not to be happy with things or sad for yourself. This society is too complicated. After work, you will know that things that make your mood ups and downs are almost more frequent than three meals a day. Do we have to savor everything and every result? Time doesn't allow you to do this, and neither does your position. Therefore, before entering the society, college students should make good use of this precious period of time in college, cultivate their own calm attitude towards problems, develop good psychological adjustment ability, and always maintain a peaceful attitude towards people and things. Problems should be solved in time. If you have troubles, you can talk to someone. If you fail, you will learn a lot. If you succeed, you will feel more confident. That's all. Now think about it, why do those people in the university choose to commit suicide because they can't adjust their psychological pressure? There are no obstacles that can't be crossed, only obstacles that don't want to be crossed and can't be crossed.
Ability 5: the ability to live independently
Self-reliance is the first lesson for all college students, and every college student should also have good self-reliance ability. However, we can't judge that this student must have this ability just by that simple diploma.
There are many kinds of dormitories in universities, some are spotless and some are in a mess; Everyone's small site in university dormitory is also very different, some are neat and clean, and some are disgusting. Good independent living ability not only requires you to "live", but also requires you to live neatly and decently. The cultivation of self-reliance depends on the cultivation of living habits. Therefore, we must first cultivate good living habits, and all aspects of daily life, from three meals a day to dormitory hygiene to dressing, need enough attention. These details reflect a person's quality and attitude towards life. What are we going to college for? For a better life, for a better life, don't let this goal become an empty slogan. From now on, start from scratch.
In ancient times, there was a saying, "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" This statement is also true.
Ability 6: Innovation ability
Innovation is the soul of a nation. Keeping pace with the times is the mission entrusted to college students by the times. Sticking to the rules in dealing with life and career, the best result is stagnation, which is more suitable for college students who lack great ambitions and are content with the status quo.
If you want to be lucky among millions of job seekers, you must have first-class innovation ability. The development of enterprises depends on employees, and the innovative ability of employees directly determines the level of enterprise development. Therefore, college students must try to see, listen and think more, and the most important thing is to think more. Faced with a problem, if there is no reasonable solution, can you propose one? If there is a solution, can you think of a better one?
In universities, interested students can actively participate in various innovation competitions held in some countries, such as robot design competition and software innovation competition. Winning a prize is not an end. What's important is that these activities can really exercise a person's thinking level, innovation ability and practical ability, and these experiences will help your resume to be favored by more enterprises in the future.
Those who don't know innovation will never know what is better, and those who don't know innovation can only covet their desired position.
Ability 7: Practical ability
Dead reading, reading dead books, now such college students catch a lot. As we all know, enterprises attach importance to diplomas, which can prove a person's reading ability to a certain extent, but enterprises should pay more attention to college students' practical ability in order to improve productivity and create more economic benefits. Based on this, more and more universities began to arrange students to participate in internships, some in university laboratories, and some in joint training enterprises in various forms, which largely "forced" the improvement of students' practical ability. However, these seemingly glamorous training courses can't achieve ideal results for every student, and the word "honesty" in these training courses is still questionable. Many students just regard it as a course and try their best to achieve the goal of "passing", which simply distorts the original intention of the school to arrange students for practical training.
College students should shout out "I want to practice" from the heart and strive for various opportunities to exercise their practical ability, not for credit, not for the school, but for themselves, so as to make themselves truly useful talents to society, otherwise, they will become the denominator of almost astronomical figures in the job search army.
Ability 8: Ability to think and solve problems independently.
What modern enterprise recruitment cares about is not what you can do now, but what you can learn to do, that is, your learning ability. The learning ability mainly depends on the ability of independent thinking, analysis and problem solving. College students should pay attention to cultivating their own ability in this field during their college years, which is one of the most important indicators to measure talents.
In daily study and practical work, when you encounter problems, don't rush to ask for help or consult information. Calm down first, learn to decompose problems, and finally solve the whole big problem by solving each small problem. You should believe that you have the ability to solve, can solve, have the courage to try, and are not afraid of failure. You can try to come up with various solutions yourself, and then choose the best one. This is what we usually call "the process is more important than the result". Even if the optimal solution is not reached in the end, it is more valuable to train your own thinking independently in this process.
Again, on any issue, subjective initiative always plays a decisive role, and success depends on yourself.