The definition of sincerity in the dictionary is: truthfulness, sincerity and not hypocrisy. Each of us wants others to treat us like this. However, his proportion in each of us is really too small. Everyone is different. Just how much they used. Everything is controlled by their own hands.
Night began to fall, and I was walking home alone. You passed me in the street. Buddha once said: Looking back 500 times, you can only pass by once. But now it seems that I didn't break my neck in my last life? I laughed to myself.
"ah!" I was knocked down by a strong young man. He immediately pulled me up. I looked at him and seemed to feel his inner urgency and anxiety.
He said to me, "sorry, I just came from the countryside and my wallet was stolen again." Can you lend me some money and let me go to my friend's house? " He borrowed money from me, a stranger in my life. What should I do with these 500 reviews? Mother said, "There are many deceptions in the world. Don't be deceived by those sweet words. I'm at a loss. I'm at a loss.
He is waiting for my answer. He seems afraid to look me in the eye. From the moment of eye contact, I saw the boundless darkness, where the sun never shines. But do I believe that he is cheating me? I think I know how to treat these 500 reviews. ...
He took the money and disappeared into the crowd. ...
I took out my calling card again and again, plugged it in again and again, dialed the phone again and again, but the voice came out again and again: you dialed an empty number.
I was cheated by him. Is this the result of looking back 500 times? I was cheated, cheated so badly, I felt inferior for not listening to my mother at that time, and some people felt extremely sad for such wicked people in the world. I hate it very much. I really want to give that liar a good scolding. But I don't know where he is now. Alas, I sighed and went home with a heavy schoolbag.
I like sincerity and hate cheating. Why is there so much deception in the world? People live in a sincere society, isn't it fast? Why would they do that? Is this happiness/I really don't understand, what is this for, and what is the purpose of their doing this?
Sincerity, the world can't live without sincerity, but it's a pity that its proportion is too small. ...
Sincerity, where are you? We need you, we can't live without you ... Please appear on everyone, ok? As long as you have been wandering in our society, I believe there will be no cheating in our world. It will disappear.
Is sincerity absolute?
Being sincere means being sincere, not lying, and being what you look like. Everyone likes sincere people, but hates hypocritical people, and I am no exception. However, some people think that sincerity is absolute, no matter to whom or under what circumstances, it must be 100% sincere. This view, at first glance, makes sense, but when you think about it carefully, there is a problem.
Think about it. When the Japanese invaded our country on a large scale, if all China people adhered to the principle of treating others sincerely and the old saying "I can't be unfair to others", would we still have a happy life today? So sincerity is not absolute, and its code cannot be sincere to the enemy. It should be tit for tat, blood out.
Some people may say that you can be insincere to your enemies, but you should always be absolutely sincere to your friends! In my opinion, not really. It depends. What if your friend has an incurable disease and you tell him the truth sincerely? Maybe this will accelerate his death. Is this the ending you want to see? Some people may say that you can't be 100% sincere to your friends, so you should be 100% sincere to your loved ones! In my opinion, not really. Please think about it. When Zhuge Liang's brother Zhu Gejin asked Liu Bei for Jingzhou on behalf of Soochow, what did Zhuge Liang do? He asked Liu Beixian to refuse, and then cried for his brother. Liu Beicai pretended to promise to return Wu Dongsan County first, and asked Zhu Gejin to take a letter to see Guan Yu. Guan Yu understood the intention of Liu Bei and his military adviser, saying that he would not approve any foreign military orders, but just refused to give them to Zhu Gejin, leaving him empty-handed. Zhuge Liang is sincere to Liu Bei, but not sincere enough to his own brother. There is nothing wrong with this, everyone has his own interests! Obviously, sincerity is not absolute, but relative. When the interests of relatives conflict with the interests of the collective and the state, we should choose to be sincere to the collective and the state. Besides, don't you have any privacy? You want him or her to know you 100%? Being invisible in front of everyone? Are you willing to spread all kinds of stupid things you have done before? Therefore, there is no absolute sincerity, and if there is, you will not exist. In a word, sincerity is relative. Treat people sincerely, depending on the object and the situation.