Expert advice is often castles in the air, not close to real life. Society has been praising mother's greatness, but it has always existed only in slogans and spiritual support. When a woman becomes a mother, she needs to bear many practical problems.
1) Postpartum depression is ignored.
When the child is born, the maternal body and mind need to be taken care of because of the physical deficit, but everyone is paying attention to the child, and many mothers are ignored and feel left out. I don't even understand why there is month care and postpartum depression.
2) Working ability drops by default.
When a woman is pregnant, she will be deemed to be incapable of work by default, and the original promotion and salary increase may become distant and even be dismissed. Even after this period, it is very difficult to return to the workplace after giving birth, and the threshold for women is higher.
3) wear several hats
After becoming mothers, they have more identities. They need to take care of family affairs, take care of the family's daily life, consider how not to be eliminated at work, be children's educational instructors, and maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.
Although this is the truest aspect of society, the traditional concept of our country is still being passed down, and the concept of having more children and being happy is still deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. After the release of the second child, many families are involved, which is followed by the cruel reality of bringing a baby.
Being a full-time wife abroad has no worries. They regard a full-time wife as a real career, and the social value and role of a full-time wife are reflected.
In many developed countries, the economic value created by stay-at-home wives for society is very quantitative. Salary.com, a famous American salary website, conducted a formal survey on American stay-at-home wives. If the workload of full-time wives is compared with that of ordinary wage earners, the average salary they can get each year is 1, 3 1, 47 1 yuan, including overtime.
About 5.4 million housewives were surveyed. When asked, what do you spend the most time at home every day compared with the general work in society, and what kind of professional title can you get? The answers are kindergarten teachers, housekeepers, van drivers, chefs, nurses and general maintenance workers. This is what ordinary stay-at-home wives do.
As for working hours, stay-at-home wives have to take care of the main family members and at least two school-age children. They work an average of 65,438+000 hours a week.
Japanese full-time wives can enjoy insurance benefits without paying insurance premiums. Even if you don't work for a day, you can get a state pension at the age of 65. On the other hand, working women must pay taxes to the state, while non-working women can get money from the state.
Of course, it is impossible for our country to give full-time wives the same high treatment as these developed countries. We just want women to return to their families from the joy of getting rid of family bondage. This seems to be a retrogression, but it is actually an upward progress.
Human civilization is spiraling up, because the present environment has changed, so we should make corresponding adjustments, or return is not retrogression, but just to better conform to the pace of people's progress.