Perhaps many women think that women are born weak and need men's care. Giving is a man's business, and it is only natural that women should enjoy men's giving.
When you turn on your mobile phone, you will often meet friends and be happy. Some people receive 520 red envelopes from their husbands on their birthdays, 2020 red envelopes from their boyfriends on New Year's Day, and 13 14 red envelopes from their lovers on Valentine's Day.
However, I seldom see someone drying out the red envelopes or gifts that their husbands or boyfriends send to each other on important days. For love, women seem to be used to taking, but they seem to have forgotten a truth.
Love also needs to pay. Long-term love is never about one person doing his best while another person is taking advantage. Good love does not ask too much, but nourishes and enriches each other.
As depicted in the movie Warm Heart, Isabella is still a little girl at heart. She desperately wants to be loved, but she doesn't know what love is. She looked everywhere, but she couldn't be with a man, because no man wanted to be begged blindly.
Because she doesn't know love, she has never been really loved. Whether it is a middle-aged fat banker, an actor in a theater, or a masculine man in a bar, after their intimate relationship with Isabella, the relationship has changed, which is not what Isabella wants.
Isabella, who lacks love and can't make love, seems unfortunate, but in fact she is very hateful. What is hateful is that she doesn't know what love is. After falling in love again and again, she still didn't give up looking for true love, which made her fate even more tragic. Because she basically doesn't know that love is mutual, mutual nourishment and mutual growth, she just wants to get what men pay for her. When the balance of love is out of balance, this kind of love will end in failure.
We always instill an idea that women should never pay too much emotionally. Ideally, those bloody stories will be told to us at any time. The more they pay for men, the worse they lose. The longer they wait for a man, the more unfortunate they are. Therefore, some women will shout the slogan of love and greedily ask men for everything for fear that they will be wronged.
This kind of woman is actually a kind of psychology with Isabella in the movie. Their hearts are still little girls and their minds are not mature enough. They don't understand the equivalence of love. They don't understand that love is like a deposit in a bank. They should deposit money in the bank regularly. If they only ask for it from time to time, they will overdraw sooner or later.
Wonderful love must be that you gave me an orange. I peeled the orange and stuffed the pulp into your mouth in half. Yes, love is mutual pay and pay, and it is never exclusive to fruits. People who are stingy in love will not get too much in the end. "People who love will be rewarded", and what they want must be paid first. Isn't that what feelings are like?
When a woman is not mature enough, the understanding of love may be to ask a man to be good to himself forever for free, until the last passion in the man's heart is drained, and then the ending of breaking up.
Just like a song by Joey Yung, the lyrics are written like this: "When I was an ignorant girl, when I met love, I didn't understand love. From the past to the present, until he was separated, I was left wandering in the sea of clouds ... "
Young and ignorant, or still ignorant after adulthood, many people have lost their favorite people because they don't know how to pay. Since we want to grow up in a beautiful love and let this love blossom and bear fruit, we need Qi Xin to work together to nourish this flower of love.
When it comes to caring love, we have to mention the love story between Mr Qian Zhongshu and Mr Jiang Yang. Mr. Jiang Yang said that she saw my husband's talent and could understand his life goals. Why didn't she support him all the way and follow him to the same goal? Of course, Mr Qian Zhongshu can also see Mr Jiang Yang's professionalism. He said that he understands his wife's understanding and dedication, and he is willing to accompany her through every hurdle of life, and is willing to accompany her to the end of life.
This is the most wonderful love. In feelings, you are still yourself, and I am still myself. I can see your contribution, and I am willing to pay for you with the same sincerity, nourish each other and fulfill each other, so as to have a beautiful love.
Love is the eternal theme of mankind. Because there are too many waiting for love, maybe we hope to live passionately in casual days, so romantically give some ordinary days unusual significance. For example, February 14 is defined as Valentine's Day, and March 14 is defined as white day. Then, if love is mutual, it is time for women to express their love in white days like men.
I also think of a warm lyric "In fact, I love the right person, and Valentine's Day is celebrated every day". How to love the right person? I think she knows what you have done. She knows how to be grateful and loves you as well.
Zhang Ailing once said: The greatest happiness in life is to find that loving someone is loving me. Therefore, if a smart woman wants to get love, she won't just ask for it. She will let the man I love find out that she loves him too. If he wants to find his love, he must learn to give.
Zhang Ailing also said that there are three kinds of women, one is the mother type, who is good at taking care of people and men. With such a woman, you will feel loved fiercely;
One is sisterly, timid, shy and dependent on men, and being with such a woman will stimulate my man's personality; There is also a kind of woman who doesn't care about others and never shows weakness to men. Such a woman is the most attractive to men.
Probably, the third kind of woman in Zhang Ailing's mouth only knows how to take, but doesn't know how to pay. Indeed, such a woman is necessary. If you want to get love, you must first make yourself worthy of love. Only those who know how to love, respect love, appreciate and pay are worthy of love.