A letter to the soldier's brother.
Honey. Brother bing? ：
Please allow me, on behalf of all the military wives and prospective military wives who prostrate themselves under your military uniform, to express my true thoughts and shout out all the things that I dare not say or get angry at ordinary times. Anyway, I'm already a little weird, so I'm not afraid to be weird anymore.
Honey. Brother bing? Ladies and gentlemen, this sentence "Brother Bing" is called out in a level tone voice and a coquettish voice. Is it a girl sitting in front of the computer like me, eating cheap oranges and longan, or is it a girl sitting at home watching TV and feeding her children? Silly woman? Express my thoughts about you.
I know that you may have just watched the news at this time, or you are practicing standing at attention and being at ease with the company recruits; Or sit in the study room and study hard? Mass line? Spirit; Or sit in front of a computer with a military network and read a short article and giggle. You may even be watching the new drama "1942" in the group theater, but in either case, you will be surrounded by comrades-in-arms and brothers, that is, you will be punished if you make mistakes. Three laws? Sometimes, there will be comrades teasing and being silly.
By contrast, what about your woman? They may be hesitant to call you and ask for peace; I'm worried about whether the subjects you trained today have been aggravated, and whether the old waist with problems will hurt; When bringing new recruits, did you lose your voice because of shouting slogans and didn't know how to take medicine? Or just after work, a person is walking on the road painted with black paint, thinking about eating rice noodles or glutinous rice balls at night, and eagerly enviing the couples who walk in front to snuggle up and keep warm; Or maybe the child is crying for his father at home. She wants to be a bearded father and a long-haired mother, and she has to restrain her sense of imbalance. In short, it is a kind of worry that I don't know whether I should ask or think.
I know that soldiers are emotional and loyal, which is beyond doubt. However, at the same time, some, not just some, but a large number of soldiers have a heavy male chauvinism, thinking that they are so tall and powerful in that military uniform, and your ya is thin and small. If you dare to make me angry, I will knock you out with a slap.
Don't rush to deny it. Everyone has had this idea to some extent. The feelings you want are particularly simple. You don't need me to love you, you don't need to be coy, you like to talk. Why not just get married and become a daughter-in-law? This girl has made contributions to the country all her life. National defense? Yes
Want to be sweet? Romantic? Yes, wait. A few years later, both of them are half old. Bring back a bunch of roses on Valentine's Day or wedding anniversary. No, one is enough. The women cried with joy and said how happy they were to marry you. The pain of waiting for so many years is completely gone. This is your love.
What about women? Women are made of water, but it doesn't mean that every woman is as gentle as water in her bones. Those innocent girls, those obedient people, don't know how hard they studied and how many times they cried secretly. They learned to be strong for you. They walked alone at night for more than ten years and ate alone for decades. They dare not complain, because their men are soldiers, because they are afraid that men will be sad when they hear this, and that men will not only protect the cause of the country, but also increase their burden.
Now, there are many festivals in a year, such as Valentine's Day, Christmas, Mid-Autumn Festival, birthdays, wedding anniversaries and so on. They never thought what presents Santa Claus would secretly put in the socks at the bedside. Who would accidentally receive a bunch of roses when he woke up in the morning, let alone a big diamond ring and a big house. They will buy you a simple gold ring and be sad for many days. No matter how far or how long, their determination and belief in waiting will not run aground. This is their love.
You have regular work and rest habits, when to eat, run, turn off the lights, sleep, and even think that it is divided into time periods, and rest can't be disturbed. And the reason for bragging is? The army has rules. ?
Yes, this is a powerful reason. A soldier, a reasonable woman, takes obeying the rules as her first duty and won't make a fuss. They can only endure and wait, from a minute to an hour, to a day, a year, decades, and then decades. They dare not complain or violate the rules and regulations, but you have to understand that they are not soldiers and those rules and regulations can't cover them. They are not afraid, they are afraid that you will be punished if you don't follow the rules. Because you are their husband, you are their day.
Your loneliness, loneliness and homesickness are all in their hearts. No matter when and where, they say every word seriously, so as not to worry you. And their feelings can only be hidden in their hearts. They try to be themselves and take good care of their families, just for you to have no burden.
Actually, you are wrong. I remember there was a sentence in a movie that the hero said to the heroine? You are my sweet burden? It's all disgusting love words, but it's a good mood They are yours, even if they are a burden, they are sweet. So when every woman tells you not to worry, take out your usual strength of shouting passwords and tell them. Believe me, this is not shameful at all, it will only make everyone admire and move.
Your annual exercises and training leave behind sweat and slogans, but what about them? All that's left is tears calling your names. Think about it carefully, marrying you has taught them to be strong, but they are women after all, and they are fragile little women after all.
What they want is warmth, practicality and love, and a cup of brown sugar water at a special time every month; A scarf that I helped tie in the cold winter; After a hard day's work, I went downstairs to the place where the light was on in the room. These silly women regard the 20-day delay every year as their wedding honeymoon, counting the time, checking the calendar, waiting and waiting, looking forward to it.
Of course, I say so much just to wait for your women. Take credit? Not to mention how many men there are. Just because they love you, they are willing to use their youth and time to condense this love. They believe that the years are gentle and quiet, and they are willing to turn themselves into? Strong Xiao Qiang? Defend the love in your heart. Because you are really excellent, you have suffered the pain that others can't bear, so they are willing to help you hold up half the sky with weak shoulders.
Be proud again, because you are a real man and a responsible soldier. Because they gamble all their lives and marry these people? Men? Son, can you give the male chauvinism lurking in your head a rest? Think about doing something for them.
Don't worry, it's not an expensive diamond ring, nor an unrealistic rose. It won't make you write a love letter as hard as writing feelings. In short, say good night.
No matter how busy and tired you are, you should spare half a minute and send them a short message to say good night before going to bed. Don't underestimate the lethality of these two words. A little foreign means: I love you very much, and I only think about you at this time. There are really no conditions (expand the number of people who don't use mobile phones to once a week). This should not be difficult for you who are galloping on the battlefield and turning over obstacles flexibly.
Don't be angry when I write here. Don't think that just because I eulogize my female compatriots, I'm taking the risk? Tucao? The danger of drowning, holding this book, * * * has three connotations:
One is to give some hints to those soldiers who can't catch up with girls and have incomplete confessions, so that they can better ponder the psychology of girls; The second is to find a reason to comfort themselves for those soldiers who are lovelorn and can't give up; The third is a little advice and expectation for soldiers who are married in love. The purpose and starting point are very good and powerful, all for? National defense? Have a strong foundation and backing, for those? A bitter love history? Have a better ending for those who are happy? Waiting room? More harmonious, happy and sweet.
Finally, I wish you all? Brother bing? Children can have a beautiful flower. A gentle and delicate lady gains her own beautiful love.
I am here to convey
welcome
xxx
Xx year xx month xx day
A letter to Brother Bing's object The second part
Dear soldier brother:
Please remember not to hurt the girl who loves you, because she has made a great determination to love you, because she has given up a lot because she loves you. Everyone else is dating her boyfriend at the weekend, so she can only be alone. At night, when everyone else is resting, she is waiting for your call. She is ill, and everyone else has a boyfriend to accompany her, but she has to bear the physical discomfort and inner grievances alone, but she never wants to tell you because she is afraid of you. But she has never regretted it, because she loves you, because she loves you, and she is willing to endure loneliness until you come back, even if it is one year, two years, three or five years, or even longer. Watching my friends and partners kiss me every day will make her more lonely, but we have no complaints. She dedicated her best youth, best years and best days to you without regrets, but she also has no regrets. Because of you, she feels happy even if she is bitter. Because of you, she rejected those excellent people who love her, because in her heart, you are the most perfect, even if you have a bunch of bad habits and shortcomings, she will tolerate you. So, soldier, if you still have a little humanity and a little conscience, please don't hurt those who love you.
So, soldier, remember, if you love her, please love her deeply. She doesn't ask much. She has a heart that loves her. She knows that maybe you can't give her that luxurious material life, but she doesn't care because of your love and tolerance. Sometimes she has a little temper. I hope you can tolerate her. At home, she is the darling of the whole family. She may be a little headstrong, but she won't be unreasonable. Sometimes she just needs a few sweet words from you to coax her. Your love can resist all temptations from outside. If you love her, please treat her wholeheartedly, because she loves you and becomes a part of the girl who loves the army. Her heart is fragile and can't stand your harm. She won't cry in front of you, which doesn't mean she is strong, but she doesn't want you to worry in the distance. If you really love her, please don't play with other girls. Love can't be mixed with sand or quality.
xxx
Xx year xx month xx day
A Letter to Brother Bing's Object Part III
Dear:
Today is * * * * 2nd, 26 days from Spring Festival, 32 days from Valentine's Day, 40 days from Lantern Festival and 249 days from my birthday. In the past, I spent these festivals with my parents, friends, classmates and colleagues. But this year, I really want to spend it with you [emoticon].
Honey, I guess you must want to know why [emoticon]? The reason is that my best friend is getting married on May 1 day (countdown 109). And I don't know what my boyfriend looks like [emoticon], so I want to look forward to it. I can meet you before May 1, 20 16 [emoticon].
Honey, I just know your last name now. What's your name? What does it look like? How old are you this year? ! The only thing I know is that you must be Brother Bing (because I won't find anyone other than Brother Bing as a boyfriend [emoticon]). In my imagination: you will leave a 3 mm inch, fold a tofu-shaped quilt, stand in a military posture and run the 400-meter obstacle course. Yes, all soldiers will, and so will you.
Dear, I don't know whether you will work in the grass-roots units or continue to study E in colleges and universities. But I want to tell you that when we are together, I will stick to you. I will take care of myself when I am not together, don't worry.
Dear, although you are not with me at the moment! But this does not hinder your position in my heart at all. You will always be my favorite person. I hope you can appear in my life soon. I hope you can spoil me, love me and tolerate my willfulness and irrationality in the future (of course, willfulness and irrationality will only be when there are two people, and I will give you enough face when there are many people)
Honey, you know what? ! I like Brother Bing so much that I am infatuated. Every time I see Brother Bing, my eyes will glow and I can't walk. Therefore, you won't be jealous in the future [emoticon]. Because all my friends, male and female, and I have no chemistry.
Having said that, I don't know when you will appear in my life. In short, without me before you, I will study hard, work hard, take good care of myself and enrich myself. I hope that when I meet you, I am the best of myself.
xxx
Xx year xx month xx day
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