1. Because of thousands of years of feudal ideas, many families now have a preference for sons over daughters. The feudal ideas handed down from generation to generation cannot be broken at once, and the idea of promoting equality between men and women has not been implemented for thousands of years. Old ideas can't be broken for a while.

2. The psychological distortion of people who have domestic violence is also caused by male chauvinism, which is a good face. You will find a phenomenon, these people may pretend to be honest outside, just as Nuo Nuo, and attack the weak when they get home. The reason why I dare to attack my wife and children unscrupulously is because there is a concept that honest officials are difficult to handle and housework is up to me. In fact, if you think about it, when you are not married, the other party is hitting you. Even if it is a minor injury, the other party intentionally hurts people. However, after marriage, physical injury should be recognized as domestic violence to a certain extent. It is really incomprehensible, which is why domestic violence is so common.

Some people's fathers are prone to domestic violence, and they may be violent when they grow up in this family. It is easy to form a domestic violence when it comes into contact. So there are so many social phenomena, all from family education, from thousands of years of feudal thought.

It's really good that you have such an idea of being good to your wife and children! Three views is right. I hope you will always be kind to your wife, respect her and love her. A woman's life is very hard, and giving birth to a child for love is a very painful process. As the saying goes, a woman giving birth to a child is equal to stepping on the gate of hell with half a foot. Therefore, women who are willing to give birth to your children without asking for anything in return should really cherish them. Thank you very much

The above is my answer, hope to adopt!