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The following is my current situation. I didn't learn Japanese well in junior college for three years, and I didn't have a Japanese grade certificate. After graduation this year, with the help of my family, I found a job related to Japanese, but I didn't do very well. I feel that I can't learn anything and want to give up.
I feel that I can't learn anything and want to give up. I am also a college graduate in 2008. My interest is website design. I hardly learned anything at school, and I didn't get any computer grade certificate. After graduation, my family found me a good job. I work in an e-commerce company. I just feel that I have not learned anything and want to give up. But you should know that it is very difficult to find a decent job in today's society. I suggest you continue to work first.
The work of designing clothes is stable. Let's talk about it You are not wrong, and neither are your parents. What is wrong is that we are in this era.
I suggest you do it in this company first and do your own research on weekends. If you really give up your job and go to a tailor's shop, it will affect your relationship with your parents.
Although you are doing a job you don't like, you think there is nothing to learn, but in fact you are wrong, and I don't think I am very fulfilling, but for the newly graduated students, I mainly learn the attitude towards people, not any high-end technology.
After all, if people want to survive and gain a foothold in society, you can make clothes as your hobby. Is it right or wrong not to recommend quitting now? I have seen examples of regret and success in this kind of thing. The key lies in my own understanding of myself. Do you insist? Are you extroverted or introverted? How about your interpersonal skills? How is your business ability? Do you have the funds? Is your technology enough to deter competitors? Is the environment around you suitable for opening a shop? Are there many competitors and what is their level?
There are many considerations:
(1) Is the business Japanese in the junior college abandoned? Is it a waste to study in this junior college for several years?
(2) When a person comes of age, he (she) and his parents are only related by blood. In other words, people don't have to live for others, but for themselves. Otherwise, you will be very painful in a few years (some people miss the opportunity to start a business because the public opinion around them is getting older and older, and regret it).
(3) Your parents are generally right, yes, if marriage is the whole of life. The question is, did you find a job you didn't like and later regretted it? Do you tend to be very independent, or do you feel at ease to be a normal thinking and caring woman?
(4) You are 2 1 year old this year. Usually, it is estimated that you will get married around the age of 25. So what level are you at this time? If you started from a small shop, can you achieve greater success at this time? If not, can you accept a boyfriend at this level? If you become a white-collar worker, is it smooth? Then can you mix to a better level? )
(5) In theory, you can study fine arts at any age, but you may not make up your mind because of the passage of time. For example, the training courses you attend may all be teenagers, but they are barefoot and have no business Japanese diploma. They can spend all their energy studying hard, but you may not be able to do it, because you think you have a way out, but you may not really have a way out. In the field of fashion design, sometimes the level of innovative design is very important, which is not something that can be learned in training courses. Have you done this before? If you don't have this idea of starting a business, isn't it a bit arbitrary and naive?
(6) if you pass the civil service exam or become a white-collar worker, your entrepreneurial motivation will usually be erased? Whether you are really suitable for starting a business, I recommend reading the blogs written by some businessmen on Taobao and Alibaba.
(7) Entrepreneurship requires some skills. The Ministry of Labor has a kind of training (free of charge for unemployed people) that lasts about 7- 10 days. It is specialized in entrepreneurship, and it seems to be called "SYB Swiss Labor Organization Entrepreneurship Training". You can consult the local labor bureau. You can take part in this training and then have a serious evaluation of yourself (your own technical conditions and resource conditions).
If you agree with your parents, you may have a dull and stable life in the future, or you may have a better development because of your major (your major should be a small language and a hot topic). However, this kind of life should be more realistic and secular, and you can only keep your hobbies in your heart.
If you start your own business, it will definitely be full of competition and turmoil, and you may succeed or fail, but there is not a book that says: "Life is full of joys and sorrows, and it is difficult to be sad or unhappy; Ups and downs in life are better than never falling. " Do you like ups and downs? Do you like the feeling of real growth every day? If so, you can start a business after your own conditions and resource conditions meet the standards; If your personality likes to live a stable life, it may be better to follow your parents' wishes. Everyone has his own specialties and talents, but they have not been discovered.
As long as you want to do it, you should bravely pursue the truth you believe.
The founder of McDonald's didn't start his business until he was 60.
Wahaha founder is still riding a tricycle at the age of 35.
But they all succeeded,
Because they decided that they were on their way,
Hobbies are more important than anything else,
Hobbies are the greatest teachers.
Emperor Kangxi said when withdrawing from San Francisco:
I want to do this when I am young,
When you get older, you will be afraid of wolves before and tigers after.
Youth is the best strength,
Failure is just a fresh start,
Young/younger
Septwolves
Shanghai Shanshan
Andidas
woodpecker
…………
No one will say what their boss did!
The recent Li Ka-shing can explain everything.
Being an apprentice is also a knowledgeable apprentice!
I started training when I was in the super group.
The big boss learned jewelry from a Hong Kong master.
Finally, I set up my own group.
China's jewelry industry is also in the top five.
Ma Yun once said in Winter in China,
To be optimistic about an industry, you just have to be optimistic about its prospects.
It doesn't matter how much skill and money you have.
Go your own way and let others talk! . There is nothing wrong with your idea. You have your own ideals, and you can't go wrong if you work hard for them. There are very few people with ideals like you now, so most people can only live a mediocre life.
The following personal suggestions are for your reference:
Do a good job in Japan, on the one hand, accumulate social experience, on the other hand, save some money that you have entered the society, and you must stand on your own feet economically before you can consider developing according to your own wishes. If you want to start a business, if others don't support it, you have to rely on yourself.
At the same time, find a school or a study class to attend, not a full-time one, just use the rest time. If you study fashion design, you will definitely have the opportunity to do it yourself in class, and you don't have to work hard. You don't necessarily learn real skills by working as a coolie.
When you have finished studying, you will have mastered the corresponding knowledge and skills and accumulated some funds, so you can consider how to start your own business.
Although your interest is fashion design, don't give up your Japanese major. That's your specialty. Any time is useful.
I hope you keep a rational and peaceful mind, and don't be carried away by your enthusiasm. If your family doesn't understand you, you should also understand them. Even if they don't support you in some ways, they still love you.