Situational partner violence is often intermittent or sporadic. Under normal circumstances, couples get along well, and only when they get caught in a specific conflict escalation will they suddenly get out of control. The other is interaction. Both partners stimulate each other, which leads to emotional escalation and then makes impulsive behavior. A slogan of women against domestic violence is "zero tolerance for domestic violence". What is zero tolerance? This is not to say that divorce occurs as soon as domestic violence occurs, but to make a strong enough response to make it pay a certain price and play a role in avoiding the recurrence of domestic violence. Don't take a conciliatory and palliative attitude towards their domestic violence.
Domestic violence can easily form a vicious circle. Once domestic violence happens and he doesn't pay the corresponding price for his actions, then violence will become one of the solutions for him to encounter the same family problems again. In his view, the use of violence can easily achieve the goal, without patience and concessions. Can such a marriage last? I think such marriages are all women, and no one is rare. Put away your weakness and reluctance as a woman and divorce decisively. A man who can abuse you at home can also have love for you It is said that women are men who hurt you, not to mention. Being a woman is a perceptual animal, because she can't get love and can only do what she can. Living like this every day can only make you aging ahead of time? A woman's best years cannot be sent away by such a love rat.
Why choose to escape? Is it not good to take the initiative? Your own destiny is in your own hands. Escape can only make you hurt again and again by mean people, because you know that you are weak and easy to be deceived. At this time, you must strike first, and you can't do without him. Please stop insisting on a decisive divorce.