I once saw a netizen share it on Zhihu: Not long ago, this girl made an extremely bold attempt to make sure. After resigning, she took her husband and daughter and started the theme activity of "Gap Year"-a trip to China!
According to statistics, this girl and her lover are semi-flexible employees, a creative person and a photographer. Simply put, they are all "people who have no stable source of life", but this is the fact. The girl went to China with her family without hesitation. According to her words: "The child who is catching up has not yet gone to kindergarten, and there is only one chance. If you miss it, you will have no chance. "
Get rid of the immediate structure and look for the real world between Shan Ye. Parents, children, children, have planted the seeds of understanding in their little hearts. This kind of death about life gradually began.
Children who have seen the world are more poised.
Whether you know it or not, sometimes, scene = cognitive ability. Children who have seen the world can be seen at a glance in the crowd. Because we have a unique sense of temperament. This temperament is not a sense of wealth, and it has nothing to do with dressing up. More, it is the calmness and clarity of children.
Because I have seen it, because I know it, because I know it, so I can relieve my stress and fear to a great extent. Even when dealing with things you don't understand, it is easier to open your heart to meet rather than avoid and refuse.
Many parents have said that it is necessary for children to see the world! Huang Duoduo can be so good, not just because Huang Lei is rich! We also want our children to see the world, but there is not enough money and there is nothing we can do!
Actually, that's not the case. Although Huang Lei is rich, it doesn't mean that children have to be in rich families to see the world. In fact, many families in Huang Lei can raise children. Children want to see the world, not how much money they have, but more importantly, their parents' educational methods and foresight!
Poverty does not mean that you can't have children. Meng Mu is not rich, but she can still move to her hometown for Mencius. The reason why Mencius became a saint is closely related to Meng Mu's advanced educational methods. Writer Bi Shumin said: "Since you have seen the vastness of this world, you will understand your own smallness."
The more children experience, the more they can understand awe and win, and the less likely they are to be tired, worried and lacking in front of others. The scenery that children walk through will be condensed into a spiritual energy source to help children grow up healthily in the hot land of life.
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Everyone always thinks that children are still young and can't remember anything; If children travel, it will reduce their reciting time for a few days. Actually, that's not the case. What you see and hear during the journey can give a great baptism and development to your child's mind, and it will not be erased.
When children experience and understand the past, they will find that in fact, many fears in life will gradually disappear, and children's perspectives on problems will be more diversified. You don't have to be far away from home to see the world. Famous mountains, rivers, places of interest and historical sites, as long as you like, nature, streets and alleys can all be areas where children can "see the world".
In order to accompany the children to travel around the world and sell their houses and resign, it is really unnecessary for everyone to bear this responsibility; Just to show off, the goose falls to watch the same trip. In fact, there is no need for everyone to follow suit. Only by really accompanying your child with your heart can you master your child! When you understand what ta prefers and patiently answer all kinds of brain holes of ta, this is the only way for children to truly understand and appreciate the variety of life, and it is the only way to truly support children to broaden their horizons and horizons.
Spend more time with your children.
There is Yan Ruyu in the book. Only by reading can we make the best use of the past and the present. There is no contradiction between taking children out for a walk and reading with them! Reading is a simple way to broaden your horizons and a more convenient and quick way for children to see the world! If you have enough time, read a book with your children, learn about the world in the book with your children and enjoy reading sentence by sentence.
Let the children sit next to you, tell them step by step and tell them vivid roles. Let children know more about the world and know more about the world! It's harmless to see the world for children! And parents' knowledge and logical thinking determine how big the scene children can see. Now no one can stipulate that children become such people, but we all hope that children can become such general beings in the future!