1, stealing: rising.
In fact, if you think about it carefully, most of us don't lack dreams. What we lack is to go to places where dreams may come. There is no shortage of plans, but the action of putting them into practice. There is no lack of determination, what is lacking is perseverance in the end.
Zhou said that many things in the world are not difficult, as long as you are willing to do it. Everything is difficult at the beginning, and the difficulty lies in everyone's laziness, because they are afraid of trouble and don't start. Over time, they really feel that things are too difficult and they are too incompetent. So, starting with laziness and ending with cowardice, lazy people finally become cowardly. Between "thinking" and "getting", there is still a "doing" that you thought of but didn't do, so you will definitely not get it in the end. Please take out your own actions, take out your own momentum, catch up and fight back against all things and habits that make you more and more decadent.
2. When alone: add value
Many people's learning ability began to decline from the moment they stepped out of school. As we all know, in this rapidly changing era, standing still is a retrogression, and Excellence needs to be constantly re-proved. It is our lifelong obligation to keep learning ability. In this way, when others are bored, it is a value-added opportunity for you to constantly enrich yourself. You know, what this era returns silently has always been lifelong learners. The so-called "fate of koi fish" is just that the harder you work, the luckier you get.
3. If it fails: resume.
There is a learning method in Go, which is called "rewinding". Every time you finish a game of chess, you have to play another game, analyze where you played well and where you played badly, and then deduce it again.
No one's experience can completely guide another's life. Only those who keep thinking, exploring and growing can become experienced people.
More and more believe that it is not a pedantic empty talk to reflect on yourself three times a day. Every day is like a new life, not a literary slogan.
Every frustration and struggle should not only leave us with cheap regret, but also with freedom and hatred after killing 1,000 enemies and losing 800. We should learn from other people's stories and our own experiences, so that we can grow up quickly.
4. Difficult times: persistence.
What's past is prologue. No matter whether this step is right or wrong, "right" has the right harvest and "wrong" has the wrong lesson. Every step you take is bound to gain experience.
Don't raise the white flag so easily. As long as you don't forget your inner desire, you will reach your destination one day, no matter how far you go, no matter how embarrassed you are at this time. Please believe that all circuitous roads will never be in vain. Continue through the sandstorm, and you will never be the same again.
5. When you are happy: Enjoy.
A recent discovery: when happiness appears, many people look around and feel "unworthy" or "unworthy", as if happiness is something that does not belong to them.
So, you avoid happiness and the moment when you realize that life is lovely. In this regard, Mr. Qian Hammer explained very incisively, "Take a bath, look at flowers and have a meal." If you feel happy, it's not all because the bath is clean, the flowers are blooming well, or the food is to your taste, mainly because there are no obstacles in your heart. A relaxed soul can focus on the feeling of the body, appreciate it and check it. When you make a wish, you always say, "I hope I can be happy with the person I love." "
Then, when happiness really appears, don't live up to it, it belongs to you or yours. All you have to do is run to meet this joy, feel it and enjoy it. There is plenty of time, at least you have grasped the present and the present. May your happiness not be discounted when you grow up. May you be happy and pure.
6. When you are sad: Walking.
Lai Shengchuan, a dramatist, said that to live is to open every moment and feel it, so that every moment will bloom like a flower. However, in life, we are always tired of feeling and are good at ignoring it, so that many subtle and beautiful moments quickly disappear unconsciously, leaving no time for aftertaste. When you are sad, go out for a walk and let the subtle beautiful moments fill your eyes and mind.
All the sadness, "it's hard but it will pass." If you want, watching exhibitions, movies, plays, museums, climbing mountains, walking, visiting the vegetable market ... stop-and-go and shopping are all good choices. There are some natural things that can heal people most, such as kissing cherry blossoms in early spring, chasing naughty waves, salvaging the moon in the lake and catching rainbows after rain. At that time, you will find that some frustrations have long been in blowing in the wind, and some sentimentality has long been forgotten.
7. When confused: reading.
Why do you study when you are confused? The following is a valuable answer to the book Everyday Lover: Imagine that if my life, illness, death, marriage and children are all trapped in a small place, and my thoughts have been simple and consistent for decades, then the utilization rate of this exquisite human identity is too low-I get too little and the cost of living is too high.
How can we make full use of life? The following is the most direct answer: reading. It is more interesting to see the wider world, the more bizarre laws. Perhaps when I thought that emotions were only divided into joys and sorrows, the emotional energy that broke out in the book often shocked me. It turns out that there is love in the book, and it is impossible to turn around a thousand times. Some people pass by until they die, and some people have the evil and sacred luster of original sin.
8. At the low point: Xu Li
"powerlessness" seems to have entered the crowd who don't know when it will be seen again. In the trough, it is easy to breed "despair" underground. I can't see my fingers. The noise of the world has nothing to do with me. In this endless darkness, I am lonely, helpless and hopeless. Mu Xin, a poet, said that people who come out of sadness are artists.
When you fall into the dust, take root and sprout, absorb all the nutrients that can help you grow, and then wait for the opportunity to break through the ground. At the bottom, as long as you don't give up the agreement and see the light, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will go up.
When I think there are only a few ways to live and think, I can understand that zigzag polymorphism is the origin of the world. If a valuable book is a key, you will open a window and sometimes a mirror. You see the world and yourself here.
9. when you are upset: sleep
I have heard the saying: forgive everything before going to bed, and wake up to be a new student. Nine times out of ten, life is unhappy. One of the most practical ways to say goodbye to troubles is to give yourself a gentle pillow and sink into infinite sleepiness after a busy day.
Instead of always struggling in exhaustion, we should learn to let go of ourselves and entanglements, let all kinds of mistakes and regrets come to an abrupt end before going to bed, smash all the frustrations in the long night and have a good sleep.
Wake up in the morning, clear and refreshing, and it is a new beginning! You will find that just as the sun always rises and promises warmth to the world, there is no shadow in life, and there is no tomorrow that you can't reach.