It is precisely because of this that the Northeast is known as "valuing women over men", and valuing women over men has become a new label of the Northeast people, which has exploded on the Internet, in sharp contrast with valuing men.
Northeast daughter-in-law VS southern mother-in-law
Ms. Wang is from the northeast, even the little princess at home. She is spoiled. Because she went to school in the south, she found a boyfriend in the south. They have a good relationship and settled in the south after marriage.
My little life is happy and stable, with a lovely daughter. The only trouble is that my old-fashioned mother-in-law always urges her to have a second child because she still wants to have a good grandson.
Ms. Wang is very helpless about this. She thinks it's good to have a daughter. Moreover, the family's economic situation can still raise a daughter, and it is a bit difficult to have another two treasures. Because of this, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are cold-faced from time to time.
Mother-in-law: "It's over without a baby boy. Your daughter will get married when she grows up. "
It is precisely because of this prejudice that her mother-in-law and granddaughter are not close, and she doesn't care much about her granddaughter. She misses other people's little boys every day. The daughter is in conflict with the baby boy of her relatives, and her mother-in-law prefers boys.
Ms. Wang also thought about her mother's attention to her granddaughter when she returned to her hometown in Northeast China. She is delicious and fun, and people around her envy her having a lovely daughter.
Ms. Wang's mother said to her, "I told you to find a local girl in the northeast, but you didn't listen." The girl who loves us the most in Northeast China would rather find a girl from other provinces than be bullied by son preference. "
Ms. Wang's mother said that foreign girls have a good life after marrying in the northeast, and giving birth to daughters is more popular with her husband's family. Everyone likes girls, boys and girls fight at home, and everyone defends girls.
Adults often joke: "I'm not interested in boys." If anyone gives birth to a daughter, her husband's family will not let her daughter-in-law have a second child. A daughter is enough.
Ms. Wang also believes her mother's words. After all, this phenomenon is quite common. Northeasters really don't prefer boys to girls. They can't help sighing when they think about their present situation.
Many northeast daughter-in-law also agree with this view and share their happy life:
"I'm from the northeast. Northeasters really like little girls. Like the little princess, the status of women is still very high. Hahahaha. "
"I'm from Liaoning. I gave birth to a prostitute and didn't want a second child. I'm afraid my niece will be wronged. I have a son and want to have a second child. There is nothing wrong with being wronged by my brother. "
"I'm from Shandong. I gave birth to a daughter after I married in Shenyang. My mother-in-law is so happy, but my mother has always asked me to have a boy, saying that the old man must want a grandson in his heart, but my mother-in-law said that it is good to have a girl, and the northeast mother-in-law really does not envy her grandson. "
It is said that compared with other provinces and cities, the phenomenon that people in Northeast China prefer sons to daughters is rare, and daughters are more popular. Therefore, the reputation of "son preference" in Northeast China spread.
In fact, no matter what kind of thinking, it is harmful to children.
If children are divided into favorites just because of gender, it is a kind of harm to children. After all, it always hurts to be biased.
Many parents may have been treated unfairly by their parents and are biased towards their children. In fact, this is a wrong parental behavior.
Although children are different in gender, they all hope to get the attention and care of their parents, and they will also be hurt by their parents' behavior. Therefore, if two children have families, don't be partial and try to give them the same love.