The photo of Mr. Huo's car wash unexpectedly became popular, and the children's movements were more eye-catching than cars, and netizens were crazy about it.
Huo himself is a three-generation rich man. His grandfather Henry Fok struggled from poverty to become a billionaire. This spirit of hard struggle has been circulating in the Huo family. Previously, Huo Zeng and his wife Guo Jingjing took photos together to take their children to experience the hard life of farmers farming. The purpose is to let children know where food comes from, at least not to fall on their feet, regardless of whole grains.
This time, some netizens found that Huo was showing off his baby again. In the photo he sent, his son and daughter are cleaning the car door hard. I thought cars would be more discussed than children, but I didn't expect children's behavior to be more noticeable than cars.
I saw two children with foam on their hands, washing their father's car exemplary, and not being lazy and unwilling to work. It seems that they also help their parents do housework at home, not spoiled children.
The photo of Huo washing the car for his children unexpectedly became popular and was praised by netizens: this is probably the most grounded giant! Some netizens said: this is the real "rich support", much stronger than those nouveau riche.
However, after the photo was sent, it also caused a heated discussion among netizens. Some people think it is unnecessary for children to clean their cars. What if you catch a cold? Some people think that parents must be measured and not really tire their children out.
analyse
In fact, many successful people deliberately make their children suffer. It is true that parents work hard to give their children a better environment and conditions, but developing the quality of loving labor still plays an important role in their children's growth. Hard-working people must also be full of hope and enthusiasm for life. This quality will constantly spur children to work, study and live actively.
And those parents who give their children a rich life and let them enjoy it like princesses are more likely to harm their children. Imagine how a spoiled and dependent child can live independently when he grows up.
How can we make children willing to work?
Parents and children work together.
Some children resist labor, probably because it is boring to work alone. If parents can take their children to work together, children will gain motivation and confidence after being accompanied. Therefore, parents should not just tell their children to do things, but should drive their children to work together through their own actions.
2. Give your child a certain return.
After the children help with things, parents can decide to give them some rewards, such as exchanging labor for playing mobile phones, computers or extracurricular books. It is best not to reward children directly with pocket money, so as to avoid the bad habit of children not doing things without money in the future, and also to avoid family education being full of utilitarianism.
Parenting information
No matter how superior the family conditions are, it is no problem for children to learn that there will be rewards only if they pay. Let children learn to cherish their present life and study hard instead of indulging in material enjoyment without making progress.