Similarly, in this society where "eating" is everywhere, it is easier to find a partner who eats than a lifelong partner. As the saying goes: bitter. You think you can have a meal just by pulling someone over in the street, right?
No, no, no
It is said that being a man has the realm of being a man, writing poems and learning, and even drinking has the realm of drinking, not to mention the important issue of eating. Just from what kind of person you are looking for to eat, you can decide whether you can still eat, whether your three views are consistent, and whether he deserves your love.
Work with allies, play with playmates, drink with friends. Similarly, you need a dinner partner to eat.
Then what kind of person should we find as our dinner partner?
Zhang Xiaoxian said in Dinner Companion: It is easier to find a dinner companion than a lifelong companion. But there are also several conditions: willing to eat, will eat, will eat. I savor it carefully, which really makes sense. But I added a few more articles to make some supplements.
I recently read Lao Liang's book "The taste in the world is pure joy". In the book, I am drooling over delicious food, enjoying the standard style and authentic methods of dishes, and even more amazed at Lao Liang's ability to eat.
"The standard leek box is dry-baked, not fried"; Authentic Beiping roast duck "has skin, oil and meat", and "skin, meat and no oil" is not considered Beiping roast duck; West Lake vinegar fish "has not too much juice, not too thick, not to mention oil, clear and light, slightly transparent". This is a kind of confidence, an insight and an idea as a foodie. Even just listening and not eating is a kind of enjoyment.
People who really know how to eat will spend a lot of time studying delicious food, have many requirements for food, know many authentic eating places, not only study the taste, color and fragrance of food, but also pay attention to the hearing and atmosphere of eating places.
People who really know how to eat are the best food guides. With him, you can not only taste all kinds of novel and delicious things, but also eat with quality, sentiment and taste.
Delicious, but also willing to eat.
I know someone who wants to eat. He eats this meal every day and has racked his brains to think about what to eat next. If you have nothing to do, just go shopping and see what fresh ingredients and food are available. Everyone in the family said that he was delicious and lost. He always smiles and says, "Eat without wasting, and you can't finish eating." He is filial to his parents, considerate to his wife and children, and generous to his friends.
A rugged seven-foot man, except for eating, no one can imagine that his eyes are full of endless love and tenderness, as well as meticulous consideration.
Being willing to eat is more important than knowing how to eat.
We all like to eat delicious food, but we are reluctant to spend money. A person who can't bear to eat, when others invite him to eat, is called expensive food. People who are willing to eat are the cutest, don't haggle over every ounce, and don't ask everyone to join hands to pay the bill after dinner.
Real foodies not only love to eat, but also eat, and more importantly, eat.
We always say that young people and old people can't eat together. That's because the old man is old and eating is very simple, so he can't eat much. Don't eat too greasy, too hard or too full.
When you are not satisfied, you will be full after a few bites, which is definitely not a good eating partner. If he can eat, you can drink to your heart's content. When you can't eat, he can continue to eat. Even if you eat leftovers, he will eat them.
Find someone who can eat, so that the dinner table won't look deserted, let alone agree. After eating and drinking enough, I patted my slightly protruding belly and vowed to shout the slogan "I must lose weight tomorrow" and smiled at each other.
Confucius said, "Eat without words, sleep without words". It means, don't talk loudly while eating and sleeping. From the health point of view, it is really meaningful, and it is also an essential quality of civilized cultivation. However, judging from the modern family model and current situation, if the husband and wife really do "eat without talking, sleep without talking", I am afraid this marriage will not go far.
Nowadays, when people go out for a meal, they are either silent or bow their heads to play with their mobile phones. Eating a meal is even more boring. How boring and boring it is for friends and relatives who haven't seen each other for a long time to be silent when eating.
We don't advocate talking loudly, nor do we advocate talking to Kan Kan. A relaxed and humorous person can not only reduce the sense of tension and bondage, but also create a relaxed atmosphere and leave a good impression.
A meal should be delicious rather than boring.
Visiting a friend's house, my friend was still busy in the kitchen when I started eating. My friend asked me to eat with her daughter first, and her daughter said that she would only use it if her father used it first. I was surprised, but my friend smiled and said, This is the family style. I am very touched.
There are many details about eating like this.
People who only take care of their own preferences when choosing meals, regardless of other people's tastes, are generally selfish; People who like to yell at waiters at dinner often have no patience; People who like to toss and turn on their plates while eating often don't understand other people's feelings. And those who wipe their mouths with tablecloths, wipe their faces with restaurant towels, and cough on food can't eat with him.
As the saying goes, wine is like a character, and eating is a character.
Three meals a day, "eating" is the first to occupy the main position. Details depend on personality, and in the most common habits, a person's true nature is often revealed most naturally. Some unintentional actions may be meaningless, but they inadvertently expose our shortcomings.
This is also the most important.
Husband is alone, and he often eats alone since he was a child. Since I married him, I have really changed from an idiot to a foodie. His greatest hope is that I have dinner with him every day. He said that if no one accompanied him to dinner, he would be "tasteless" and very lonely. I gradually realized that I need company when I eat.
See this sentence: a person is half a companion, and a person is a companion. A partner is half a person who has delicious food every day. You bite me, and slowly become a pair of happy fat papers.
It's really important to find someone who can have dinner with you. No matter what we eat, no matter how different our tastes are, besides being like-minded, it is more important that we care about each other and care about each other. I can understand your kindness and you can understand my difficulty.
If we can go shopping together again, come back together to wash and cut, and go in and out of the kitchen together. This is nothing more than a picture, but I don't know how warm this picture is, which fascinates many people.
Zhang Ailing gives the impression that she leans back slightly, with her head resting on her waist and her eyes sideways, as if she were far away from the world. However, she is not an out-of-touch Taoist. On the contrary, in her works, there are many descriptions about eating. The food written by Zhang Ailing is usually very simple. Carrots, pickles, roast duck, seaweed, egg drop soup ... the most lovely thing is stinky tofu.
To this end, the author Tao also specially compiled a book "Zhang Ailing's Cuisine", which cut into Zhang Ailing's legendary life from the perspective of food mentioned in Zhang Ailing's novel essays.
The taste of people is pure joy, mainly in that "taste", which is the taste of friendship, affection and love.
Friendship is more harmonious when eating, family is more harmonious when eating, and love is more vivid when eating.
Eating alone is lonely, eating with two people is sweet, and eating in groups of three or five is life. All our lives, we just want to find someone to eat with.