As far as the timeline triggered by the "theft storm" is concerned, it is basically based on the slogan of "you say a word, I say a word". However, when "Guo Jia" faced with "stealing words" by way of prosecution, Yao Si 'an's foster mother and her lawyer denied that Guo Jia stole Yao Si 'an, while Yao Si 'an's foster mother emphasized that "we didn't say who did it, and we didn't name names, and we are now investigating".
To a certain extent, "Guo Yao and his family" are still in a state of secret competition after losing control after the war. Even if they shout in the distance, what they want to express has been completely revealed. Then let's briefly analyze the content and logic of Guo Yao in the Distance, so that we can further see the progress of things.
"Yao Jia" thinks that someone has tampered with his life wrongly. In her latest response, Yao Ce's foster mother stressed that "we didn't say who did it, and we didn't name names, and now we are investigating", which is obviously just an evasive statement against Guo Jia's prosecution. Because we know very well that the charges of "Yao family" must include "Guo family", which has nothing to do with whether it is clear or not.
In the anger of "Guo Jia", although Yao Jia was not directly prosecuted, the lawyer who sued "Yao Jia" has explained the problem. In the final analysis, "Guo Yao and his family" are not completely separated, and the biggest connection should be "Yao Ce lying in a hospital bed". Of course, breaking up is only a matter of time, even if it is mixed with simple reasons of blood and upbringing.
Therefore, the "Yao family and Guo family" will eventually face "an ultimate struggle", but they will also move towards the ultimate reconciliation of "old age and death". But when this day will come, it seems unpredictable at present. But for Yao Jia and Guo Jia, it seems that they have no choice.
Real estate disputes should be settled as fairly as possible in this respect. No one should think about encroaching on each other's interests (interests after cutting the blood line). Only by clarifying the distribution of real estate can people feel reasonable and make the parties less entangled and embarrassed.
In this regard, both the Yao family and the Guo family should have a normal heart. You know, Yao Sian still has a wife and children, and he (she) can't completely ignore Yao Sian because of his short time. Therefore, this consideration should be faced directly, preferably by both families.
I believe that in addition to family ties, there is also interactive love in parenting. We have reason to believe that in the face of foster mothers, Yao Ce's children should still be the truest grandmothers. Even if it is difficult for two families to eat at the same table, it is a fact, and enough space should be given to guard it.
In addition, solving problems is simply solving problems, and pursuing truth is simply pursuing truth. Instead of shouting from a distance, the two sides should meet to discuss the problem. The advantage of this is that even if it is a complication, it is only a small range of tension, not a single contest of public opinion. The spectator's sword was also taken in, and finally it could only be kidnapped, leading to endless escape.
In a sense, public opinion is divided from beginning to end, that is, some support the Yao family, some support the Guo family, and of course some support no one. In short, the two families entered the public sphere, not only the housework itself, but also morality, order and even hatred.
However, thinking about heaven, thinking about hell, thinking that you are protecting your children, has virtually pushed yourself into a dilemma. At the moment, Yao Ce and Guo Wei are very helpless. Their greatest wish should be "I hope the two families don't tear their faces", but they can only accept their fate, but they can't change the reality, just like the dramatic identity exchange 28 years ago.
At the same time, the core appeal of "Yao Guo" is actually how to arrange his son, but it should also be clear that after arranging his son, he should also consider how to "heal himself" for the rest of his life, otherwise the constant tearing of "changing his life by mistake and stealing again" will eventually become "hitting evil" rather than "seeking goodness"
When we say "hurt", we always hear "I'm hurt" and "my heart aches". Even, this is the Yao family's state of facing the media from beginning to end. The reason is not that the Guo family is not sad, but that the two families always give people a picture of "Yao family being wronged" and "Guo family passively accepting" in the specific negotiation process. At least as far as "public opinion facts" are concerned, it is such a state.
Just like the "pause of consciousness" in phenomenology, all normal activities, normal thinking and normal perception in life pause at a certain moment, and there is no time and space. Everyone is trapped in an unknown dimension and doesn't know the location and length. In this sense, thinking about "wrong exchange" or "stealing exchange" seems to bring a lot of relief. This is the way of thinking we need to choose, and it is also the reconciliation that "Guo Yao and his family" need to face.