In this regard, I thought about it, and I intend to spend a day in the class that belongs to Crystal. (? )? Just recently, I was busy with the construction of a green plantation in Grade Two, and it happened that Crystal needed to improve her team consciousness. Just now, many anxious mothers asked a lot of parent-child questions ~ OK! Just set up a day's class festival! Isn't it killing two birds with one stone to solve this series of things through festivals?
Before we went to study tour, we decided on the content and schedule of the day's activities: everyone was responsible for each activity section, invited special tutors, invited experts, prepared props and venues, and considered every detail ~
Class holiday activities: 1. Parents and children arrive at school at 8:00 in the morning. (Number of parents who reported to Xiu Tong Ma before 8: 00 on Sunday night) 2. Parent-child team development, go to the storm playground at 8: 30. (Teacher Pei Fuqiang) 3. 1 1:00 Go back to the classroom for English class. Parents go to the restaurant to visit, eat and rest. (Yi Ning's mother) 4. In the afternoon 1:40, my mother gathered at Taca Cafe to start the Crystal Mother Salon (Mr. Zhang Lei), and my father took the children to the vanilla garden to draw tires (flowers and oranges). After school at 5.3:00, parents leave school with their children from the east gate ~ ~ The activity is over.
Of course, there are many details: when parents enter the school gate in the morning, they should say hello to the security guard Jiang in advance, talk with Mr. Pei about the activity plan in advance, communicate with the teacher about the class situation in advance, prepare tires, paints, brushes and buckets in advance, and contact the property to find a place to receive water and pour sewage ~
Blessed is the crystal, all preparations are smoother than expected ~
Teacher Pei, a basketball teacher and team development coach, is going to give lessons to three departments. Usually I am very busy, so I can only take time out to meet the teachers at noon ~ In the dining room, listening to Teacher Pei's vivid activities, the two teachers in the class are so excited ~
Xiao Hu's mother provided a lot of waste tires for the activity. Careful mothers also cleaned and painted tires, repaired them, and hired a car to transport them to school. You can draw twenty. ╰╯`? )
In the afternoon, Mr. Orange was busy coordinating the property and preparing to brush the tires. The venue will be ready one hour in advance. `)
In order to protect the road, the property uncles carefully laid plastic sheets, so the crystal can be bold and creative ~ ~
Teacher Jiang from the Student Development Center provided a lot of acrylic pigments for Crystal, and the children jumped with joy ~? (ˊωˋ*)?
Early in the morning, Crystal arrived at school accompanied by her parents. On the stormy playground, Mr. Pei is ready to meet the crystal!
Interesting ice-breaking activities attracted the attention of all crystal family members. Everyone follows the teacher's instructions and tries to reach a tacit understanding with other members of the team ~
How many times can you clap your hands a minute? Crystal man tried his best to guess 200 times. So, Mr. Pei timed it for everyone to try. Some used 100 times, but it actually took only ten seconds ~ wow ~ the audience let out a sigh.
Teacher Pei said earnestly, in fact, everyone's potential is very huge, just like only a small part of the iceberg is exposed to the water, and the deep underwater part is amazing ~ The crystals listened carefully and thoughtful ~ ~ ~
The next game is especially fun. It is called "Mei Qi Bang". Everyone raised their forefinger to the height of their foreheads, holding sticks together. Everybody, Qi Xin, work together to make it fall. But! Miraculously, the more anxious you are, the more disobedient this stick is, and it keeps going up ~ Oh, I'm so anxious that all the small crystals are broken. Everyone came out to command noisily, but bonzi was even more disobedient (? ε? )
Teacher Pei told everyone to be quiet, try to be tolerant of each other, listen to one person's command and shout the password: "Down, down, down …" Wow! It's amazing! The stick obeyed and had to come down ~ Teacher Pei told Xiao Jing that there were so many fingers touching the stick, in fact, two points that really needed to be exerted were enough. Everything should be simplified, and many points should be reduced to two as far as possible. Only by using the correct method can efficiency be improved. If everyone comes out as a conductor, who should they listen to? Oh, I see. You can't blame each other when you encounter problems. Crystal nodded hard ~
The mothers nearby couldn't help it and wanted to give it a try. Wow, Mother group, that was a great move. It was a success from the beginning! ? (? )?
The second game is more fun. Everyone listens to the password in a circle, and people don't move their sticks. Ha! How challenging! However, there were frequent mistakes at the beginning of the activity. Ah, some crystals can't stand their temper ~ don't worry, don't worry, think of a trick?
After several trainings, the crystals found that when leaving the position, they should look forward and aim accurately instead of staying on the original stick. If you lean to one side, you will be more flexible. You can't throw the stick away when you put it down. You should be gentle, convenient for the people behind you and take care of other people's feelings ~ ~ huh? Round and round, the stick won't fall ~ mothers clap their hands for their children ~
More mothers are also involved and enjoy the joy of success ~
The next activity is to cross the river by relay. Some crystal mothers follow their children's footsteps closely ~ Some watch from a distance and watch their children overcome difficulties again and again with a smile ~
Teacher Orange stood in the middle of the venue, cheering for each small crystal (_? )? ~
On the road of life, I don't know how many rivers and difficulties there are to meet the crystal. As long as I have my family and strong will, I believe Small Crystal can break through successfully? (ˊωˋ*)?
Finally, Mr. Pei asked the crystals to put a Chinese character in their little hands. Crystal responded quickly, but Mr. Pei shook his head and wanted to post a Chinese character for others. The word "Confucianism" should be in front of him, so he should always think of others. Crystal suddenly realized ~
The expansion activities in the morning have come to an end, and the Crystal Man gave the warmest applause to Teacher Pei ~ ~
After lunch, the mothers came to Zhong Qing Taka Cafe? Meet Zhang Lei, the psychology teacher of Youth, and talk about the parent-child problems that plague mothers in the form of a salon.
Mothers take notes carefully and write down every parent-child coup.
Q 1: mom's emotional management. What should a mother do if she blames herself after criticizing her child?
A: The problem of stay-at-home mothers: focusing on children, paying too much attention to children, being too strict with children, and amplifying children's "shortcomings". Stay-at-home mothers must be distracted, find an outlet for their emotions, and don't vent their emotions on their children.
Q2:？ Emotional management of children.
A: Children are a mirror of the family. When our children have emotional management problems, we should look for the reasons from the family in advance. Parents' words and deeds, parents or family elders are more emotional? Are parents' roles in the family reversed? That is: not loving father and strict mother, but loving mother of strict father.
Q3: Anti-frustration education.
A:? Physical exercise is the best anti-frustration education method. Parents should lead by example, do more outdoor activities for parents and children and stay indoors less.
Q4: How to make children not impetuous but steady?
A:? There is no need to reform children. Their present age is a sensitive period of inferiority and diligence. Don't criticize the child before the fifth grade, tell him what to do and what is right. Otherwise, it will be difficult to "manage" during the rebellious period. At present, children's greatest pleasure is playing. It is inhuman to ask children of this age to be steady, which is to stifle their fun and nature.
Q5:？ How to change careless personality? How to make children serious?
A:? Personality doesn't need to change. Show the children more things. If parents force their children to reform, it may cause greater psychological problems.
Q6:？ Why do children like to stay in their sister's bed for a while when their father is not at home?
A:? Probably competing with my sister for mom. This is a necessary stage for children. Bauer's family should pay attention to the balance of time distribution between the two children, and don't care too much about it. It will be fine after this stage.
Q7:？ Dad is too busy at work. How can a mother who is not strong in sports take a boy to exercise? Is it a training class? Take a walk?
A:? When dad is busy, it is ok to find an interesting sports training class or mom to take a walk. Mom doesn't have to worry too much. Encourage the father of the child to spend more time with the child, but if it is true that the father spends less time with the child, the father's love will never be lost, and there is no need to worry.
Q8: What should I do if I like to collect valuable things? Will you be too involved to care about other things around you? Need control?
A:? First, interest should be moderate, and personal hobbies are acceptable within the tolerable range. Second, it is a little late to intervene in the control of this problem at present. Instead of intervening forcibly, we should regard his hobby as a reward for his specific achievements. Inspire him to make progress. Third, help him find other interests. Lego or something.
Q9:？ Too concerned about parents' approval. Too eager to get the approval of parents, afraid that children can't find themselves.
A:? The development of self-awareness can be carried out at any time. At this age, parents don't need to rush.
Q 10:？ What if the relationship between father and child is closer than that between child and mother? The child is too attached to his father. What if I rob my father from my mother?
A:? Everyone thinks it's not a problem, it's showing off. ~~
Q 1 1:？ What if children are too passive to participate in classmates' activities?
A:? How does the child feel? Do you feel excluded by your classmates? Are you in pain?
It is suggested to find a like-minded and silent partner and a soul mate. Never help your child find a talkative companion in an attempt to "control her". This forced transformation is not feasible. If children don't feel pain, they don't need too much intervention. Give her more opportunities to show herself, practice communication skills and get better gradually. Don't rush to change. Increase parent-child activities, starting with increasing parent-child communication.
Q 12:？ What if the child's self-demand is not high? Full of the status quo, capable of not making progress, only 30% strength, too strong anti-frustration ability.
A:? This is an attitude towards life. Now that the child is still young, we can't ask her to "make progress" too early.
Reason: family conditions are too good, security is too good, and there is no sense of crisis. I can devote her energy to what she is interested in. Create conditions for her to experience setbacks.
Q 13:？ Playing games is fierce, what should I do if I don't contribute to reading?
A:? Patience, etc High school can also contribute. This problem is complicated, so we should communicate it separately.
Finally, Mr. Zhang Lei gave us some suggestions:
1, husband and wife quarrel, talk about the matter, and don't turn over old scores. Women should say what they want, and don't wait for men to guess.
2, the child is afraid of the dark when sleeping, sleep with him, and then walk away.
3. After the third grade, the number of interest classes should be reduced, and interested parents can strictly supervise.
Boys must be ambitious and cultivated.
5, the poor boy is to let him suffer as much as possible, and the rich girl is to let her know more.
Accompanied by the aroma of latte and relaxed laughter, mothers and teacher Zhang spent a happy afternoon, praising teacher Zhang's rich psychological knowledge, exquisite parenting skills and sincere parenting advice. Thanks to Yining's mother's meeting minutes, the essence of the salon is all on it ~ share it with everyone ~ ~
The afternoon sunshine is warmly sprinkled on the grass slope of the "Hundred Herbs Garden" which is about to create a miracle, condensing the wisdom of the whole second-grade team. Today, the crystals will use the brushes in their hands to turn the waste tires shipped early into fairy tales!
Magpies refueled in the branches, and the wind stopped in front of the hillside. Leave more space for the crystal. This is a miracle afternoon ~ ~
No one knows what the final work of the crystal is until it is finished. Well ~ maybe, painting will have new inspiration!
The fun of graffiti is unparalleled, and it doesn't matter if the pigtails are loose ~ ~
Brushing is not enough, just put your little hand into the paint bucket. Haha, you see, this is the mark of our growth ~ ~ Leave it to every little friend who will rest and study on this beautiful hillside in the future ~
Be careful, be careful again, don't get the ground dirty ~ ~
Finally, let's take a photo in front of these beautiful ideas ~ ~ This beautiful afternoon, we added a beautiful stroke to "Hundred Herbs Garden"!
After the activity, I received a lot of mother's testimonials. The appendix is here. * * * Encourage ~
Mommy Man Zi: Miss Xiaohua is always so careful. Thanks to the children, as well as the meticulous care of parents and the power of "creating magic." Today is another fruitful day. The two teachers have worked hard. Your children are lucky to meet you.
Miao Tong's mother: I attended class family day today. In the morning, I was very moved by several projects developed by the team led by Mr. Pei Fuqiang:
First of all, Mr. Pei asked everyone to guess how many times they could clap their hands in a minute. Guess: 100 times, 50 times, 80 times ... 200 times at most. After everyone guessed, Mr. Pei began to do experiments. 10 seconds later, the experiment ended, and the most applause was 120 times. When everyone was surprised, Mr. Pei said that according to official statistics.
Second, Mr. Pei asked eight children to form a group, each with a pole in a circle. Every time he shouted a slogan, everyone put down their poles and hugged the pole of the man in front. This game seems simple to operate, but it's not that easy. Everyone should take care of the people behind while grasping the pole of the former person, and give the pole in his hand to the people behind, so that the whole team can complete the tasks and challenges in an orderly manner. It not only tests children's sense of personal purpose, but also exercises children's sense of team. Many problems of children are exposed in the game. As long as one person in the team is self-centered, the whole team will be affected. I believe that children can also appreciate the importance of teamwork from this game.
Third, teamwork is also to exercise teamwork ability. Complaining about teammates is better than cheering for them!
Through team development, I found many problems of children, such as: competitive, impatient, complaining, and always hoping others will listen to me. At the same time, you can see your own shadow more or less from your children.
After lunch, parents meet in the coffee shop to chat with Zhang Lei, a psychological teacher, which benefits a lot: they won't criticize their children easily, and they won't pay too much attention to them. Parents need to find ways to divert their attention. Children's poor emotional control must be due to parents' poor emotional control ... Teacher Zhang, like a doctor's consultation, found the "cause" of the problems exposed by children in team development in the morning. Although it sounds like a cold sweat, it does make people feel.
Recently, I have been greatly depressed about children's education, and I am often in contradiction and entanglement. In fact, after all, it's time for me to grow up. Although I am very tired after a day's activities, my heart is very excited, because I have found the direction and have new ideas and concepts for educating children. I believe the future will be better! I am especially grateful to be in this big group with love and warmth, especially to the teachers for their hard work and good intentions, and especially to the children for their growth and understanding. There is a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, and I will go up and down.
YOYO mother: Chaoyang is accompanied by morning reading, spacious classroom, full of energy; In the afternoon, warm sunshine accompanied by painting, watching the children turn black tires into colorful works of art; Wind and rain playground, parent-child development; Mocha, face parenting education with teacher Zhang Lei. My second close contact with the school after the perfect ending of Wang Xiao's youth. Gain and lose the normal state of life, read books happily, although I lost a lot of comfortable time before, and listened to a period of history on the road; Although Wang Xiaoyo is not perfect, he is broadening his mind under the guidance of Xiaohua. Being exposed to more excellent mothers' good ideas has made me gain a lot. At night. Look at the photo, "good, good, very good." Good Night!
The Crystal Classroom Festival was a complete success. May Crystal continue to have a crystal-clear heart, as crystal-clear and shining as you, as patient and kind as you, as pure and flawless as you ~ ~