..... What is printed in this little book is not an ordinary letter from home. Fu Lei said in his letter to Fu Cong, "Writing a long letter to you is not empty nagging, not inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I really take you as an opponent to discuss art and music; Second, I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people, so that my father can get some fresh nutrients, and I can also indirectly spread them to other young people; Third, it's not just your writing that exercises you through communication, especially your thoughts; Fourth, I want to remind you all the time to be a' faithful mirror', no matter in life, in the details of life, in artistic accomplishment and in playing posture. " The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, treat everything with a serious attitude and be an "artist with both ability and political integrity and excellent personality." Parents' inculcation, sincere communication between children and parents, and deep affection between the lines have touched parents and children all over the world. Letters from Fu Lei and Fu Cong inspired me a lot. Many of our parents have neglected the friendship with their children, and have raised them for more than ten years, but they have never really enjoyed the fun of being parents. Because they are eager to make their children succeed, their attitude towards their children has been distorted, and all kinds of encouraging measures have come out. Some parents blindly imitate Fu Lei's practice of "showing filial sons under the stick", but have they ever thought that they have the quality that Fu Lei's example is more important than words and deeds? Can optical Frey's word "hit" produce good results? So the child tasted abuse and fists, and suffered from learning under pressure and fear, so the golden childhood of the child was eclipsed. Fu Lei realized that although he suffered from political movements in his later years, he was happy at this point because he and his son became the closest friends. Now, many parents are also scrambling to imitate Fu Lei's way of educating their children. Therefore, this has become a mode of parenting education.

Thoughts on reading Fu Lei's letters II

When I want to go back and write my thoughts, I find it difficult. Because these letters from home included in the book are wonderful and meticulous, taking notes or any summary may damage this classic. So, here I just record some important impressions after reading this book and the important thoughts expressed by the author I understand. First of all, in terms of form, Letter from Home has taught me what is meticulous, meticulous and serious ... I believe all readers who have read Letter from Home are deeply touched by these characteristics. According to my own experience, I think this is largely due to the way of expression, communication or writing. Only in this way can we have such a wide range of works, which is naturally comfortable. He not only talks about art study, but also about life, love, being a man and self-cultivation. Even if the son writes a typo, the father will "seriously" point it out and patiently analyze and correct it. It is this way rather than other ways (such as thesis and translation) that enables us to directly and clearly feel the meticulous and serious attitude and style of Mr. Fu Lei, a famous literary critic and literary translator. If Letters from Fu Lei is a "best reading for art apprentices" or a classic "teaching article", then I think this attitude and style should be the first and most meaningful. But it is by no means limited to this. Moreover, because of his knowledge and thoughts, Mr. Fu Lei can explain profound but never difficult truths about any major and minor issues, thus giving people inspiration. Of course, I don't think this is just "the best reading for art apprentices" or "teaching articles". For readers like me who are not an art apprentice (in a narrow sense), these letters are still great. The book shines with wisdom everywhere, giving people profound enlightenment from time to time. Throughout it, I think the most important point is that the relationship between life, practice and learning is actually an integrated thought. In my opinion, this is the importance of attaching importance to and emphasizing "universal support". In other letters, this idea appeared, such as suggestions about going to museums and forests, hoping to improve general cultivation through these methods, rather than blindly practicing the piano and engaging in music. What inspires me is that reading is just one of the ways to cultivate one's self-cultivation, and there should be others. Even if you study, don't limit yourself to a certain subject. The establishment and improvement of general education requires reading literature, art, science, philosophy, sociology, economics and history. Because, life or life is by no means as standardized and neat as the classification of university disciplines. All fields are just one aspect of the world we live in. In order to understand the world we live in and ourselves, extensive reading is beneficial. In fact, I was influenced by Mao Zedong for a long time and asked so much of myself. In addition, others, such as the relationship between emotion (passion) and reason, should control emotions with reason; Always look at everything in life from the perspective of the stars or the universe, so as to understand the limitations of people and so on. , these are very insightful, are shining with the light of reason! These are some thoughts after reading Fu Lei's letter. As the saying goes, "the book is not full of words, and the words are not full of meaning." After reading, I can only record part of my gains, but I can't write more. I have to integrate into my body. Originally, reading notes and feeling after reading are just means, and understanding and practicing the truth is the ultimate goal.

After reading Fu Lei's letter, everyone realized the kindness and teaching of their parents. When I read this letter from home, I felt a different kind of education. I seem to have found the son of another parent, which most children can't understand. This may be the reason why I have admired her son for ten years. It's a letter from home, like a precious heart-to-heart, which brings us closer. I feel, listen and remember with my heart like a good boy. Fu Lei is a famous literary translator and critic in China. He is a scholar with profound knowledge, wisdom, integrity and great personality charm. Mother Zhu Meifu is an oriental woman with oriental cultural accomplishment and has been baptized by western culture. She is gentle and kind, dignified and virtuous. His father, Fu Lei, dabbled in a wide range, made profound research on literature, music, painting and both at home and abroad, and his personal cultural accomplishment was extremely high. The object of his training is to receive a good family education from an early age and finally grow into Fu Cong, the son of an international master. He deeply understands that art, even like piano playing, needs strict technical factors, but it is by no means a "craft", but a manifestation of wholehearted and complete personality. He educated his son and said, "I always think that the most important thing is' people', and we should cultivate a' person' as much as possible. Before becoming an artist, we must learn to be human, otherwise that kind of family will not make much contribution to mankind. " A person who is purely devoted to art has nothing but art and personal personality. After reading Letters from Fu Lei, I was really moved by Mr. Fu Lei's seriousness about life and his care for children. Letters from home range from career and art of living to eating, dressing and spending money. Parents can learn how to educate their children, students who study fine arts, especially piano, can learn how to improve their skills, and friends who are interested in the history from the early liberation to the Cultural Revolution can also get some understanding from Fu Lei's description. What impressed me most about this book is to strengthen personal cultivation. As can be seen from the words in the letters from home, Fu Lei is a person who is very strict with himself, and even has a bitter taste in some aspects. Fu Lei asked his son to set three principles: don't say anything sorry for the motherland, don't do anything sorry for the motherland, and don't become a citizen. The spirit of loving one's son and teaching one's son is touching. Some people think that letters are the most authentic, natural and honest words. Yes, because what you write comes to mind immediately, and where the thoughts go, the words go. This is especially true when writing to relatives. He dares to analyze himself, admit his mistakes in front of his children, and give experiences and lessons from his own experiences. So, I want to read Fu Lei's book. We should be reading Fu Lei himself. Fu Lei also teaches students in accordance with their aptitude. In Fu Cong's music education, he initially emphasized skills, and then repeatedly asked him to really understand the work itself. In other words, he always thinks from the perspective of "why" and looks at the essence of things. Fu Lei's own ideological experience in educating children is also constantly improving. What we see in Fu Lei is the idea of the integration of Chinese and western cultures. Noble parents raise successful children. Fu Lei and his wife have been working hard to raise their two children all their lives, and both children are very successful. Parents' inculcation, sincere communication between children and parents, and affection between the lines all gave me strong infection and enlightenment. After reading Fu Lei's book, I know a lot and know my parents better. This book is not only an educational book, but also a book that can bring parents and children closer together, so that children can know their parents better and parents can know their children better.

Four thoughts on reading Fu Lei's letters

"After three months of war, a letter from home is worth a ton of gold." Letters, as a way to maintain feelings between Wan Li's lost relatives, have had extraordinary significance since ancient times. So I recently read a letter from Fu Lei and benefited a lot.

This is by no means an ordinary letter from home. It is the best reading material for art apprentices, and it is also a painstaking teaching article full of father's love.

It is also a natural law for people to love their sons. Man's life is always limited, but his career will never end. Through your children, you can continue your life, and you can also continue and develop the power you can do for society, the motherland and mankind. We see how Fu Lei raised his children, which is obvious from the family letters. In the letter1955 65438+1October 26th, when Fu Cong was "proud" at that time, Fu Lei advised the children how to face the ups and downs of emotions. First of all, explain the necessity of controlling emotions. Secondly, calmly and objectively analyze the cause and effect, thus becoming more and more powerful. It really expresses the feelings of all' experienced people' looking back. Depressed and detached. This letter was written when my son achieved great success and was surrounded by flowers and applause. It encourages his son to be humble at all times, not afraid of loneliness, and dare to climb the limits of art. At the same time, it gives him more through his success, allowing him to see a higher realm of life and maintain a pure "childlike innocence."

"Strong" is the inner spirit that runs through this letter. Fu Lei said to the child: "As long as you can be strong, I will be relieved!" It can be seen that being strong is of great significance to life. Strong is reflected in two aspects: A is not afraid of setbacks, and B is always modest. In other words, we can learn to win without arrogance and lose with grace. In addition, in a letter to his son Fu Cong, he said: "Writing a long speech to you is not empty nagging, not inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I really take you as an opponent to discuss art and music; Second, I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people and let my father get some fresh nutrients. It can also be transmitted to other young people. Third, it is not only your words that exercise you through communication, especially your thoughts; Fourth, I want to remind you all the time, whether in life or in other aspects. " The friendship that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art and treat everything with a serious attitude. Be an "artist with both virtue and art and outstanding personality".

During his wandering life in a foreign country, Fu Cong learned a lot of spiritual nutrition from his father's letters. Always give him guidance, encouragement and encouragement. Give him the courage and strength to overcome all kinds of evil influences. Embark on your own suitable growth path. It also gave me great encouragement. Now, it's time for me to work hard, and I can't be half proud or weak. Therefore, I am determined to work hard for what Fu Lei called "excellent personality"!

Five thoughts on reading Fu Lei's letter-

First, Fu Lei loves his son deeply.

"Dear child, the day after you left, you want to write a letter, for fear that you will feel bored, that's all. But I miss you every day and wake up at six or seven every morning. I can't sleep over and over again, and I can't tell why. It seems that Christophe's mother stayed at home alone and remembered the images of the children's childhood scenes. Your mother and I always think of your little story between the ages of 23 and 67. "

The above passage is taken from a letter written by Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong. From the above statement, it can be seen between the lines that Fu Lei loves his son deeply. For my grown-up son, I hope he will thrive and develop outward, but I can't bear to let the child stay away from him. In fact, parents are like this. From conception in August to delivery in 10, parents have worked hard to raise their children step by step, hoping that their children will be useful in the future and will not sleep on the streets. However, when children become talents, it is also time to leave the eaves and fly alone. As parents, we are both happy and sad for them. After all, it is flesh and blood. As we should appreciate and understand the hard work of our parents, let them see what they want to see-our happy life is also a reward for their painstaking upbringing.

Second, Fu Lei encouraged his son.

"As far as playing is concerned, I think it is generally good and full of energy. The delicate place is very delicate. Tonecolour has really changed a lot. We are all very happy and moved. Good boy, I really should give you some compliments. Looking back 195 1 when you first returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April, you really walked halfway up the mountain from the low-lying land. I hope that you will pay attention to the whole cultivation from now on, and you will definitely reach the top in the future. "

This is Mr. Fu Lei's evaluation of his son Fu Cong after listening to his recording. This includes teacher Fu's record, careful analysis and objective appreciation of his son. Later I mentioned my hope for my son. This is the way parents educate their children. It is necessary to show their affirmation of children, so that children have the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction of progress and development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experience, learn from each other's strengths, and open up our own new path on the road guided by our parents.

Third, Fu Lei's charge.

"In the public * * * group, catching up on tasks will inevitably hinder normal study, which I expected. Everything can only be won by ourselves with a firm will and position, and we can be gentle and powerful to the leaders. How much can I prepare for going abroad? -especially in music, I have been uneasy. From now on, everywhere depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will-the will to practice. "

Although parents have a thousand words of advice, they can't let go. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the changing society. With his own experience, remind his son to take less complaints and take more shortcuts. This is the idea of parents all over the world. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of holding up the sun in their hearts. Parents should take fewer detours and don't want their children to repeat the same mistakes. I hope they can "go up a storey still higher" than themselves. Adolescence should let go of rebellious psychology, listen to parents' lessons and understand their pains. In fact, this is also for our own good, so that our future life can be more relaxed and happy.

Thoughts on Reading Six Letters from Fu Lei

This is the best reading for art apprentices and a textbook full of fatherly love. Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei are models of China's parents. Their two children, Fu Cong, a famous piano master, and Fu Min, a special English teacher, are the successful embodiment of their educational philosophy of being a man first, then getting married, thinking independently and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. What is printed in this little book is not an ordinary letter from home. In his letter to Fu Cong, Fu Lei said: "Writing a long letter to you is not empty nagging or inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I really take you as an opponent to discuss art and music; Second, I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people, so that my father can get some fresh nutrients, and I can also indirectly spread them to other young people; Third, it's not just your writing that exercises you through communication, especially your thoughts; Fourth, I want to remind you all the time to be a' faithful mirror', no matter in life, in the details of life, in artistic accomplishment and in playing posture. " The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, treat everything with a serious attitude and be an "artist with both ability and political integrity and excellent personality." Parents' inculcation, sincere communication between children and parents, and deep affection between the lines have touched parents and children all over the world.

Letters from Fu Lei and Fu Cong inspired me a lot. Many of our parents have neglected the friendship with their children, and have raised them for more than ten years, but they have never really enjoyed the fun of being parents. Because they are eager to make their children succeed, their attitude towards their children has been distorted, and all kinds of encouraging measures have come out. Some parents blindly imitate Fu Lei's practice of "showing filial sons under the stick", but have they ever thought that they have the quality that Fu Lei's example is more important than words and deeds? Can optical Frey's word "hit" produce good results? So the child tasted abuse and fists, as well as the pain of studying under pressure and fear, and his golden childhood was eclipsed. Fu Lei realized that although he suffered from political movements in his later years, he was happy at this point because he and his son became the closest friends.

Now, many parents are also scrambling to imitate Fu Lei's way of educating their children. Therefore, this has become a mode of parenting education.

Thoughts after reading seven letters from Fu Lei

Seriously talking about the world, the father and son have deep affection.

-feeling after reading Fu Lei's letter

Everyone has experienced the kindness and teaching of their parents. When I read this letter from home, I felt a different kind of education. I seem to have found the son of another parent, which most children can't understand. This may be the reason why I have admired her son for ten years. It's a letter from home, like a precious heart-to-heart, which brings us closer. I feel, listen and remember with my heart like a good boy.

Fu Lei is a famous literary translator and critic in China. He is a scholar with profound knowledge, wisdom, integrity and great personality charm. Mother Zhu Meifu is an oriental woman with oriental cultural accomplishment and has been baptized by western culture. She is gentle and kind, dignified and virtuous.

His father, Fu Lei, dabbled in a wide range, made profound research on literature, music, painting and both at home and abroad, and his personal cultural accomplishment was extremely high. The object of his training is to receive a good family education from an early age and finally grow into Fu Cong, the son of an international master. He deeply understands that art, even like piano playing, needs strict technical factors, but it is by no means a "craft", but a manifestation of wholehearted and complete personality. He educated his son and said, "I always think that the most important thing is' people', and we should cultivate a' person' as much as possible. Before becoming an artist, we must learn to be human, otherwise that kind of family will not make much contribution to mankind. " A person who is purely devoted to art has nothing but art and personal personality.

After reading Letters from Fu Lei, I was really moved by Mr. Fu Lei's seriousness about life and his care for children. Letters from home range from career and art of living to eating, dressing and spending money. Parents can learn how to educate their children, students who study fine arts, especially piano, can learn how to improve their skills, and friends who are interested in the history from the early liberation to the Cultural Revolution can also get some understanding from Fu Lei's description. What impressed me most about this book is to strengthen personal cultivation. As can be seen from the words in the letters from home, Fu Lei is a person who is very strict with himself, and even has a bitter taste in some aspects. Fu Lei asked his son to set three principles: don't say anything sorry for the motherland, don't do anything sorry for the motherland, and don't become a citizen. The spirit of loving one's son and teaching one's son is touching.

Some people think that letters are the most authentic, natural and honest words. Yes, because what you write comes to mind immediately, and where the thoughts go, the words go. This is especially true when writing to relatives. He dares to analyze himself, admit his mistakes in front of his children, and give experiences and lessons from his own experiences. So, I want to read Fu Lei's book. We should be reading Fu Lei himself. Fu Lei also teaches students in accordance with their aptitude. In Fu Cong's music education, he initially emphasized skills, and then repeatedly asked him to really understand the work itself. In other words, he always thinks from the perspective of "why" and looks at the essence of things. Fu Lei's own ideological experience in educating children is also constantly improving. What we see in Fu Lei is the idea of the integration of Chinese and western cultures. Noble parents raise successful children. Fu Lei and his wife have been working hard to raise their two children all their lives, and both children are very successful. Parents' inculcation, sincere communication between children and parents, and affection between the lines all gave me strong infection and enlightenment.

After reading Fu Lei's book, I know a lot and know my parents better. This book is not only an educational book, but also a book that can bring parents and children closer together, so that children can know their parents better and parents can know their children better.

Excerpts from famous letters < 1 > Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed and cannot be washed away!

(2) In public organizations, it is inevitable that catching up with tasks will hinder learning. I expected it. Everything can only be won by ourselves with firm will and stand, gently and forcefully.

(3) I don't approve of blaming yourself for not taking action! ..... Only facts can prove your mind, and only actions can show your mind.

〈 4 〉 Bitter tears are the wine that cultivates your soul.

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↓6↓ People float in the high tide-low tide all their lives. Only mediocre people live like a stagnant pool; Or you must have a high level of self-cultivation in order not to be tired and truly free.

(7) Too much sunlight will scorch the whole grain; Too much rain will flood the crops.

One can only face up to reality and mistakes. Thoroughly understand with rational analysis; Will not be eroded by memories.

〈 9 〉 The most tormenting thing is neither mental labor nor manual labor. But worried.

<10 > ... think more about life and the universe. Look down on a person. Then it will naturally reduce the heart of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss. In this way, the body and mind will be comfortable, but the work will be smooth.

Life is limited. Limited energy. Only by taking a long-term view can the marathon run well.

12. Both China's philosophy and Buddhism want people to control their feelings, not to let them go.

If you can arouse the feelings of the audience, they will be intoxicated, laugh and cry. And you're as quiet as a general. That is your greatest success, the highest realm of art and life.

<14 > A person has no spirituality, does not become a modern pedant, a contemporary pedant, an expert in stereotyped writing, and rarely talks about theory! The most important thing in learning is "communication", which cannot be rigid, pedantic, sour and rigid; "Communication" can cultivate integrity, mind and vision. "Communication" can become "big", and if it is not too big or too big, there is a danger of sitting on the well and watching the sky.

<15 > Artists and administrative work are always incompatible!

The purest happiness in the world is to appreciate art. ...

<17 > Always keep a pure heart and never fall behind when you are old. Always be able to embrace the heart of the world!

18. Contradiction is a symbol of vitality.

<19 > Only when the body is forbidden, the mental activity is the most complete: this is an eternal law.

As long as it is advanced experience, the Soviet Union should learn from it, and so should other capitalist countries in Western Europe. It was not easy to have such a "reactionary" thought in the 1950s.

Our lifelong pursuit, how many generations in history have pursued nothing more than perfection. But perfection can never be pursued, because people's ideals and fantasies are endless. The so-called perfection, like the flower in the water and the moon in the mirror, is always out of reach.

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[23] If a person wants to do something, he must think it over in advance. Especially when you change course and abandon the old road, you must balance your own reason. Accurately weigh the old road and the new road in two plates.

Son, a terrible enemy is not necessarily cruel. A friendly and warm friendship will sometimes delay your precious time.

Now I am convinced that this is an evil influence. Those who have been playing tricks are craftsmen, not artists ... art is the purpose and skill is the means. People who always pay attention to means will inevitably forget the purpose.

[26] People who are fickle in nature are the most wronged and unfeasible to act, just like fickle. Just like a person who is not naughty plays naughty and loses, this is a truth.

〈 Twenty-seven 〉 The thoughts of Han and Wei people are primitive, with a strong flavor and vastness. After a thousand years, it is still memorable.

Art needs special meditation. It is always in the crowd. There will be a lack of opportunities for reflection; Thoughts, feelings and feelings can't be well sorted out and summarized.

The so-called song is high and few! At the same time, Xuefeng will also make people feel that "there is a beautiful building, and the top is too cold", and most people dare not look at it casually.

After all, people are emotional animals, and it is not shameful to show it occasionally.

The climax doesn't make you nervous, and the low tide doesn't make you decadent.

I hope I can help you. I am Magic 8 Cherry Blossom World.