However, other "derailed" websites are still conspicuous. Almost all of these websites that discuss the problem of "cheating" claim that the purpose of opening websites is to relieve the depression of "Little Three", find a way out for "Little Three" and provide a bridge between the adopted and the adopted. However, the "Legal Daily" reporter found that these websites are all cloaked in "public welfare" and vigorously promote the "derailment" culture in order to achieve the purpose of high popularity and high income.
What worries the audience even more is that "derailed" websites are rampant, but the relevant laws can't take them.
The "derailed" website forum quickly became popular.
Recently, a website called "Little Three Forum" has become popular on the Internet. The reporter found on the website that the forum is divided into five sections: comprehensive discussion area, PK San Xiao, San Xiao have something to say, emotional story and legal consultation, and almost every section is covered with posts. The reporter saw in the statistics column of the website that the number of registered members of the forum was nearly 5,000.
What's more, since May, a link to a website claiming to provide "adoption agency service" has been circulated in online forums and QQ groups. The website is called "Baoyang. com" for short. The slogan "China's largest website for the rich" is impressively written on the homepage. This * * * naked propaganda "kept" website, instantly flooded the network.
Perhaps because it attracted too many netizens to browse, the reporter successfully opened the homepage of the website after many rearrangements. The name of "Baoyang Net Co., Ltd." and the ICP number of this website in Beijing are clearly marked at the bottom of the page. On the homepage, the members of the website are strikingly divided into two categories: rich, investors, directors, celebrities, rich second generation and female entrepreneurs, rich women, rich women and celebrities, who are obviously "Party A" in the "support" behavior; Actresses, actresses, models, flight attendants, beautiful girls in school, male models, handsome guys and talented people are all classified as "Party B".
"Mistress. Com "is even more avant-garde. This website is called the first stop of China's "Ernai" rights protection network, which provides services for "Ernai". From its five principles, we can see the spirit of this website: the principle of legality and justice, the principle of confidentiality and prudence, the principle of combining soft and hard, the principle of outwitting mediation, and the principle of rapid development of colleges and universities.
According to the website, they are the largest online mistress website and the largest online mistress community in China, with a leading self-service system and auditing system. Founded in Zhongguancun, Beijing in 2002, with thousands of public relations managers and brokers, this team holds tens of thousands of "Little Three" resources and high-end customer resources in China.
The reporter entered the word "mistress". Com ",the search result reaches 17600000, which shows the huge eyeball effect of" derailed "websites. Southern Metropolis Daily nddaily Dunan Net
Spread the culture of "deception" in the cloak of public welfare
The reporter's investigation found that these derailed websites, such as "Little Three Forum", "Ernai.com" and "Baoyang.com", ostensibly under the banner of public welfare, are actually promoting the "derailed" culture to attract the audience's attention and make profits through advertising.
On the pink "Little Three Forum" webpage, the striking slogan of the forum is written: pay attention to the third party phenomenon and build a harmonious family. Xinsheng, the founder of Little Three Forum, once told reporters: "Many Little Three and their former partners have psychological problems, such as paranoia, fantasy, depression, and even self-harm and revenge on others. These are potential social instability factors. I hope I can gradually convince them through this website. Since the forum was established, I have convinced 10 young people who want to commit suicide. Now we have 6 QQ groups to provide advice and help to victims. "
However, the reporter found that the column "Little Three has something to say" with the largest number of posts in the "Little Three Forum" is simply a garden dedicated to providing "exchange experience" for third parties. Some flaunt that "true love is invincible" and earnestly say to the original match: "What you lost is not the mistress, but love." What's more, he gave up on himself. In order to get rid of this relationship, he did not hesitate to be a new "mistress" for another man. The economic purpose of "cheating" websites is more obvious. The founder of "Little Three Forum" once said that from March 2009 to now, their advertising revenue is only about 530 yuan, which is basically the same as the website maintenance cost. Zheng Baichun, vigorously promoted by "Ernai Rights Protection Network", is estimated to be the founder or beneficiary of this website. He vigorously promoted his performance in handling cases and declared that he was "not a lawyer, so why can he handle cases that famous experts can't?" The purpose of making profits through websites is self-evident.
There is nothing the law can do about it.
Psychologists who study marriage and love in Qingdao University point out that the third party really needs psychological help, but on websites with different opinions, everyone sticks to his own words, and some of them are inevitably "faint strokes" or even "loss strokes". He believes that such websites have a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it is a "catharsis pool" for people to dump all kinds of "psychological garbage" and "psychological ink" and get temporary mental relaxation and relief. On the other hand, these "garbage" and "ink" will inevitably pollute people around them and even society.
The expert told reporters that simply listening and comforting can't help the third party get out of the emotional predicament. At least one professional consultant needs to talk to the consultant more than 20 times in the course of several months. It is unrealistic to heal psychological trauma and seek emotional relief through forum communication.
Netizens have different opinions about these websites that promote the "derailment" culture. But more netizens expressed indignation. "I don't think we can publicly shout out this question anyway. There are suspects of' mistress' and' mistress'. I don't think the' mistress' group deserves public sympathy. They destroy other people's families and create social instability. I don't think any woman will agree with' Little Three'. " Miss Liu Ti, a citizen of Qingdao, thinks, "There are so many deceptive stories on the website. Isn't this teaching others how to be a mistress? "
Many people's first reaction to seeing the "Little Three Forum" is "Why doesn't the Public Security Bureau care about such a thing?" The reply of the network supervision department of the Public Security Bureau is: "We really can't control this matter." If the content of "pornography, gambling and drugs" is not discussed on the website, it is not illegal to only discuss emotions. The legal personnel also said: Formally speaking, the law can only restrain the property relationship between the parties, but can't control the personal attributes.
It seems that a kind of "little three culture" and "little three culture" supported by curiosity hunters, envious people and bystanders are budding. Many people worry that this kind of non-mainstream values may spread through tolerance and understanding while challenging the moral bottom line, and eventually cause great harm to society and families.