Now turn on the TV, the most popular sentence in advertisements is that women should love themselves, probably because of the rise of feminist consciousness, and women are the main consumers of advertisements. In a word, the concept of woman * * * has become very popular.
But after saying so many slogans about loving yourself, what is loving yourself?
Do you go shopping with your girlfriend or often have afternoon tea? Can you afford to dress up often or travel abroad?
In fact, these are just external appearances. To truly love yourself is to cherish and respect yourself from the inside out.
There are many methods, but the most important two points must be achieved:
First, economic autonomy
Many girls dream of marrying into a rich family and look at your wife in the TV drama circle with envy. They think it is best for a person to have a high-level life, but this idea is not to love themselves, because if the whole purpose of life is to find someone to rely on, they will live very uncomfortable. Once a woman is upset, she will be anxious easily, and it is difficult for rich people to enter. Even if you enter the giants, you can't be safe and healthy forever.
Although many rich wives have rich husbands to rely on, they still try their best to run their own businesses. Even these rich wives know to keep their own conditions, let alone ordinary girls. Girls must have the strength to work and their own financial resources. No matter whether anyone is willing to support you, you can support yourself. Only when women are confident can they live vigorously and truly love themselves.
Recommended reading: Alice: "Don't try to get 100% for everything. The most important thing is to love yourself."
Second, have your own hobbies and interests.
Women should have some interests of their own. This interest must be sustained, and people who are interested can enrich their lives. If you just punch in at work all day and sleep after work, you will eat and sleep all the time on holidays, and you will start to feel a little tired when you get older, especially women with children.
The triviality of parenting and the messy accumulation of housework can easily kill a person's vitality. Although I love my children deeply, I still have to leave some space for myself to live a happier life. This interest doesn't have to cost a lot of money and time. Maybe just reading a small page every day, maybe just singing, and everything is fine. You can have a short and happy time of your own, and you will be radiant and immersed in what you like.
Recommended reading: Learn to love yourself before giving love.
Don't wait until tomorrow. From now on, try to cherish yourself.
Amoy online magazine "Charming Woman", authorized to reprint the original text. People should know how to love, cherish and respect themselves from the inside out! These two points examine whether you really "love yourself"