Anyone who has given birth to a child knows that it takes a lot to raise a child. From childhood to adulthood, we should pay attention to various things, such as baby's diet, baby's safety and baby's studies. Which one need not worry?
My best friend Xiao Zhang is a treasure mother now. She has a career of one and a half years. Before giving birth to a child, she dreamed of a better life for her family. But after giving birth, what she said most was that I definitely don't want a second child. I'm tired.
So the most important thing is three dolls, oh Mecca, how did I think of three kills, haha! Yes, it's three times as hard!
Apart from being tired, it is difficult for young people nowadays to support themselves. It goes without saying that they have to raise three babies at a time. You can imagine how hard life is. Milk powder needs money, daily necessities need money, interest classes need money, and which ones need money, three copies. Forget it. I'll take a part-time job again.
Liu Ge, a colleague of the company, has achieved excellent results in the sales department. He gave birth to a son at one birth, but his wife likes girls. The two of them talked about having a second child. In fact, one of them has made his life a little saturated. Unfortunately, God played a joke on him, too. The second child is a twin. Haha, not bad. Every time he talks about this topic, he is bittersweet, and we have nothing to persuade him. We can only say that he is a freeloader Ollie, here!
Although it is really hard for us to have more children at first, the benefits will follow when the children are older. For example, children are not as lonely as other people's babies, and childhood is accompanied by each other. This is one of the advantages.
Secondly, let's think about it. If one day you are old and several children support you together, their pressure will be less and your future life will be more lively. The most realistic thing is that if you have one or two unfilial sons, someone will still take care of you, right?
Therefore, having more children naturally has advantages and disadvantages. Disadvantages can also be seen as advantages from different angles, hehe I hope every precious parent has a wonderful life!