Life is a colorful stage. Different people, even the same person at different times, may have different perceptions of life and different understandings of the meaning of life.
Some people pursue wealth, some people don't love mountains and rivers, some people are indifferent and far-reaching, and each pursues its own glory. Who can and has the right to determine whether everyone's life is meaningful? No, the law can only judge whether a person's behavior infringes on the interests of others, and morality can only tell people what their social expectations are, while the news media can't even figure out what they are saying. Some people say that it is true that a person is charitable in order to help others, without leaving a name or seeking profit, and it may be unknown all his life; It is hypocritical for another person to do good deeds and seek fame and reputation in order to get everyone's praise, but everyone calls him a great good man. Therefore, the evaluation of society cannot affirm the meaning of life, and the meaning of life lies in his own affirmation of personal value.
Some people say that when Romeo and Juliet decided to die for love, they just thought it was meaningful. But whether we like it or not, our love and family are placed in the social environment. Whatever we do, we will be criticized by our neighbors, friends and colleagues. Only by meeting the standards of the whole society can our love be sweet and our family be happy. Just like Romeo and Juliet, it is because society does not recognize their love that they move forward painfully. Individuals cannot exist alone without society, which means that individuals should always adjust their personal goals according to social values. Only when their behavior is recognized by the society can people realize the value of high live. Therefore, the meaning of life lies in the affirmation of personal value by society.
How time flies! Look at people around you. In the face of wrinkles in the corners of the eyes, we should still reflect on the gains and losses of the past years and think about our future life. How many people in this world can get what they want in front of their ideals? How many immortal people still lament that life is nine times out of ten unsatisfactory, not to mention our generation? Making a living, family problems, children problems, emotional problems ... how can everything go smoothly? You can't get what you want, you can't love what you want, you don't come when you should, and there is no chance for what you can do. In the face of life, it is impossible for some people to eat and wear warm clothes. In the face of the necessities of life, the responsibility and meaning of life seem to be shamelessly understood in these trivial things. I remember a famous medical expert's report on lifestyle and health. He put forward four health-oriented principles (reasonable diet, moderate exercise and quitting smoking).
A person's life cannot be decided by himself, nor is it an isolated individual behavior. Economic level, geographical environment, customs and family background are all restrictive factors. Some people dream of "waking up to the power of the world and lying on the knees of beautiful women." Facing life, I want to say: I hope I can live up to expectations.
Confucian scholar Du Weiming said: "The ultimate meaning of life lies in people's daily life." In other words, only the living are meaningful. Living naturally, the meaning of life lies in the "living" itself and the "process" of living. Whether it is ups and downs, or joys and sorrows; Whether you live as fragile as grass or as brilliant as the sun, as long as you accept yourself as yourself and sincerely and sacredly experience your living life, that is the truth of nature and the meaning of life. Grass will never be "the wildfire never goes out, the spring breeze blows high" because of its tenacity, and it will never be "bittersweet" because of itself.
As a person, isn't it? To live is to live, like a flower blooming quietly, like a drop of rain falling quietly into the dust. The process of flowers blooming and falling is the meaning itself. Therefore, the meaning of life is to live naturally, to live itself, to live.
If we really talk about the value of life, people's living is just the experience of life, their perception of social life and emotional life, and their own existence and social value are reflected in the process of these perceptions. In this process, some people may never understand why they are alive and why they exist. Living is a shackle, for life, for feelings and for their own ideals.
Man is an independent individual, and everyone understands and feels his life in these processes. For thousands of years, people have been exploring the meaning of existence. The noble view is that the value of life lies in making breakthroughs for the development of the group, the country, the society and mankind. Some people think that the value of life lies in making yourself happy. Some people think that creating more wealth can prove your value. What's more, bin Laden thinks that the more he destroys, the more he can reflect his value.
Personally, I think the value of life lies in understanding and cherishing life well, instead of thinking about what your value is and how to embody it with all your energy or wisdom. There should be no speaker or listener in this topic, no one should use their own values to influence others' understanding of their own values, and no one should use others' values as a reference or modify their own value orientation. What exists must be reasonable, so I think I am. This is everyone's real value.
Pro: First of all, I want to ask the students who are against it a question: If you don't come tomorrow, how will you spend today? As we all know, life is a countdown, and tomorrow cannot be overdrawn. We don't have an infinite tomorrow to do infinite things and make our life perfect. Limited time forces us to pursue a meaningful life. Life is short. If tomorrow does not come, how will you spend today? On this day, no matter what you have done, accomplished or left behind, social evaluation is no longer meaningful to you. This is your life, you should make yourself live meaningful and valuable! Only you can determine whether life is meaningful or not.
Secondly, social evaluation affirmed your personal value. Its fundamental purpose is not to prove that your life is meaningful, but to tell all people in society that society needs such people and hope you can imitate them. It is a moral advertisement, that is, governing the country by virtue. It is a country with moral means as an auxiliary means and the rule of law. For you personally, social evaluation is just a late love after your behavior, and this love may even be your final conclusion and extra posthumous title! At this time, a dead person who has been affirmed by society will jump up and say that life is meaningful? What is the meaning of life? Some people pursue wealth, some people don't love mountains and rivers and love beautiful people, and some people take it lightly and pursue their own splendor. Who can and who has the right to determine whether your life is meaningful or not? No, the law can only judge whether your actions infringe on the interests of others, and morality can only tell you what your social expectations are, and the news media can't even figure out what they are talking about. Maybe one day the United Nations will give you a universal prize for your contribution to society before you die, but is this the purpose of your initial action?
Furthermore, the so-called social evaluation of personal value only reflects the needs of society for a certain personal behavior, not your personal value, and does not care whether these are important to you personally.
For example, for women who are full of maternal love, it is happy to have children and enjoy family happiness, which has personal value, but in social evaluation, it is also for having children. The Soviet Union gave women who had more children the title of "great mother". The slogan of family planning in the suburbs of China is "Have fewer children, plant more trees and raise more pigs!" I would like to ask the students who oppose it. As far as this fact is concerned, social evaluation has completely abandoned and sacrificed the personal meaning of life. It is true that a person who is kind and helpful, does not leave a name, does not seek profit, and may be unknown all his life; There is another person who is praised by everyone for doing good deeds, which is hypocritical, but everyone calls him a good man. Ask the students who are against it, is this society definitely meaningful? Right? Will truly kind people lose the meaning of life because they can't be recognized by the whole society? !
A wise man said that everyone should find four people in his life.
The first one is myself,
The second is the person you love the most,
The third one is the one who loves you the most,
The fourth kind is people who have spent their whole lives.
Have you found four people in your life?
The most important thing in life is to find yourself first, but how many people can really find themselves in real life? ...
How many wishes have not been realized and suddenly become empty;
How many hearts have never said that life has passed;
Don't complain that life comes and goes too fast. ...
Life is a countdown, and you can't overdraw tomorrow. We don't have an infinite tomorrow to do infinite things and make life perfect. Only you can determine whether life is meaningful or not. Does the meaning of life lie in your own affirmation of personal value, or in the affirmation of personal value by society? Facing life, everyone will have their own different views and ideas. ...
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