I can't even make do, so it's not just emotional discord.
Usually there are principled injuries in marriage, or some behaviors of the other party have seriously touched their bottom line and reached the limit they can tolerate.
For example, there are cases of domestic violence, betrayal, irresponsibility, or gambling and alcoholism.
When it comes to the older generation, most people think of hard-working, hard-working, simple and hardworking, but there are still some people who are irresponsible and have a bad temper at home.
There are still some people who just get worse as they get older.
There are many such situations around us. In fact, the couple's feelings have long since disappeared, just holding the attitude of making do with this life. The husband is grumpy and eccentric. He often abused his wife when he was young. Later, when the child grew up, he restrained himself. But after the child got married, it not only changed back to the original state, but even surpassed the previous level.
In the unbearable situation, women can only get rid of it by filing for divorce, which is unwilling, but they don't want to put their lives on this marriage.
So it's not that she wants a divorce, but that she can only get a divorce, and she doesn't even have a chance to survive.
Second, I am ready for a divorce. Most of them are ready for divorce when they are young, and the reason why they delay to 50 years old is only because of their children.
After the children get married and have their own lives, such divorce has little effect on the children. Anyway, children also have their own families and lives.
This kind of woman has long been desperate for marriage and her heart has long been broken.
There may be no principled harm, but in many small things, I have accumulated countless disappointments, which has turned into despair. For a long time, even if you are waiting, it is inevitable that you will prepare for divorce in advance.
Therefore, every disappointment brought to the lover in marriage is a scar that can never heal. No matter how long it takes, there will be traces.
It is said that time is the biggest killer of marriage, but disappointment is actually.
Every time you experience disappointment, the other person will do one less thing that loves you, and the enthusiasm will be reduced by one point. The heart is not cold every day, and the leaves are not yellow every day. How desperate a person is for you, how cruel and heartless he will be.
Generally, this kind of woman will not consider remarriage after divorce. She just wants to make up for herself and love herself. I hope I can't pay back what I owe myself for a lifetime.
Only please yourself and be loyal to yourself all your life.
Third, be prepared to retreat. To put it bluntly, it is a change of heart. I have a new love outside and prepared a retreat for myself in advance. In this way, after the divorce, I don't need to go through that difficult window period and have a seamless connection.
Women are not rational animals, they just follow their own feelings.
Therefore, they do one thing and make a choice, regardless of the cost and consequences, but only follow the feelings at that time and easily go their own way.
It has nothing to do with age. This is the characteristic of women and the nature and emotion of animals.
There is a saying that when a woman decides to leave, no matter how much a man keeps her, it is in vain.
But I have to say a word, naturally, because of "true love", at least what she thinks is true love, a woman can be so desperate. Usually they are cheated, but they are cheated by the sweet words of men outside.
Generally, men outside are painting cakes to satisfy their hunger and promising her a particularly beautiful and foreseeable future. Faced with this cake, women really can't refuse, and even begin to fantasize about a happy life in the future, thinking about dancing in that colorful new world.
When we are really together, the freshness fades, and we will begin to regret and blame ourselves for the trivial things in life. But by that time, there is no turning back.
Therefore, people must not pursue excitement. The more beautiful things are, the more dangerous they are. Even if they are not dangerous, they will bring you into danger. Dull is true, but it's a pity that many people just shout slogans and don't take it to heart at all.