Gender equality refers to social status and mutual respect. As for coquetry, it is only an ambiguous means to win each other's pity. Relatively speaking, this trick is more effective for girls. It's not that boys can't use it, but it's not easy for boys to spoil. Just like a local tyrant driving a luxury car, it is not that the poor can't drive a luxury car, but that the poor have no money to buy a luxury car.