I read an article recently, which deeply aroused my thinking. The article tells the story of a college student "I" who was waiting for the subway at the subway station, and a beautiful girl stood next to him. She looks sweet and dresses in fashion. She was holding a bag of fried chicken chops and eating them with bamboo sticks. Next to the girl stood a woman of about thirty, pulling a son of six or seven years old. You should have heard that some subway stations in Beijing have no guardrails, but Xiong Haizi looks very active and jumps up and down with a smile. The woman was afraid that he was in danger and yelled at him while dragging him.
Xiong Haizi sprayed wolf spray at will in the subway.
After a while, the little boy noticed the girl who was eating fried chicken, so he pointed to the girl who was eating fried chicken chops and shouted to his mother, Mom, I want to eat chicken chops! The woman glanced at the girl and said half jokingly, you go and tell her sister to fry chicken chops for you. The little boy turned to the beautiful girl and said, "I want to eat chicken chops." Give me your chicken chops! " "After hearing the sound, the beautiful girl glanced at the little boy sideways and turned her head without saying a word.
The woman was a little embarrassed, but the little boy started jumping up and down again, clamoring for fried chicken. "I" heard the woman whisper "What a nice person, dressed like a lady". Then the woman pulled the little boy and comforted him all the time: my dear son, stop fooling around and be obedient. Later, when you go out, your mother will buy it for you. Then I heard the sound of the subway coming into the station, and the subway was coming far away. Just before the station arrived, the little boy suddenly broke away from his mother's hand and ran forward, pushing the girl forward hard. The girl screamed and was about to be pushed off the platform.
Xiong Haizi stepped on the chair at will.
Fortunately, because "I" had been secretly looking at the girl, I realized that something was wrong when the little boy ran to her. Just as my sister was pushed almost off the platform, "I" stepped forward and grabbed her arm. After only a few seconds, the subway passed in front of us like a steel behemoth with wind, and then stopped. Everyone around her was startled, but the girl turned pale and her lips trembled slightly because of something that happened suddenly. The mother of Xiong Haizi was also startled. However, she did not come forward to appease the girl, nor did she scold Xiong Haizi. Instead, she took the bus to the station, grabbed the little boy and squeezed into the car, disappearing into the crowd in the carriage.
After that, the girl didn't get on the subway. I sat with her on the steps for a while. She was a little confused, then sat on the steps and cried, and then thanked me all the time. After a long time, "I" still can't forget that moment. When the girl cried, her shoulders trembled slightly.
The following are some comments from netizens on this matter:
As the saying goes: beginning of life, human nature is good. Children are not bad by nature. The bad thing is that parents instill bad ideas into their children during their growth and teach them some behaviors that they think are beneficial but harmful to their children. When a child's mind becomes unhealthy, it seems that there are no waves at ordinary times. If a child does such a thing in a rage, or touches the bottom line of the law, not only will parents regret and feel sad, but the child's life will be ruined. Therefore, having a good parent is very important for the growth of children.
In short, I hope that parents should think more about what is really good for their children and what is harmful to them when educating their children. Educating children is not just about their growth. Parents will also understand a lot of truth, learn a lot and gain a lot of experience in the process of educating their children. Finally, I hope that all parents in the world can educate a good child who is familiar with books and will make contributions to society in the future, instead of "Xiong Haizi" as mentioned in the article.
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