1, insecure
This kind of person attaches great importance to love, and the exclusiveness of love makes the other person care very much about whether the other person loves him or not. Only when you constantly show your love to the public and look at other people's compliments will he (she) feel that you love her (him) and he (she) will feel that sense of security.
2. Lack of self-confidence
Both sides of love are equal. If one party is not confident, he will feel that he is not worthy of the other party. He often feels ashamed and always fears that one day you will leave him. This lack of self-confidence made him deepen his judgment of love by showing love. After all, he is almost the same as the first one.
My friend Ge Zheng is a salesman. When business is good, he takes more, and when business is bad, he takes less. Sister Zheng works in a bank with high salary and beautiful people. They fell in love in college, and we can always see their love in Ge Zheng's circle of friends. We all envy Ge Zheng for having a good wife, but Ge Zheng feels the gap at work. After attending his wife's year-end party, he never went there again. Vomiting yourself after drinking, intuition is not good enough for your wife. It seems that he can only find a little comfort from the comments of his circle of friends, who dare not show it to his wife.
True love, two people are equal, there is no gap in status, frequent show of love can only bring a little comfort to the heart, if there is no effort and communication, the final result may only be separated.
Step 3 show off and be jealous
When you show off your happiness, the envy of others will fill your heart; When you are unhappy, watching others show off their happiness, then you will have a kind of jealousy, which is human nature
In the eyes of jealous people, happiness lies not in getting it, but in others not getting it. In August, Chang 'an, "Orange raw Huainan? have one-sided love for sb
Happy love is your own, but this kind of show-off and comparison psychology allows you to satisfy yourself through constant show of love. Let others say:? You see XXX is really happy and found a good husband (wife)? At this point, I am full of satisfaction.
There was once a female colleague who was the daughter-in-law of the top management of our unit. Her husband is in the jade business, and occasionally she goes to parties. Every time is the focus, every weekend she will bask in all kinds of love in the circle of friends, have a happy dinner, thank her husband and so on. That's it. She's really happy. When we got used to it, one day she resigned, and then we learned that she was divorced. We never ask the reason, only know that she deleted the content of her circle of friends, and now it is all jade business, and there is no news of Xiuen Ai.
There is nothing wrong with showing off and being jealous, but after a long time, it will make you a habit, distort your psychology and increase suspicion and quarrel. Finally, when you lose the capital of showing love, you will find that you can't stand being the laughing stock in the eyes of others.
Step 4 cover up marriage
Because of life and work, we have to pretend to be a performance about our lost marriage, so as to realize the design of some hypothetical people. Such people are also sad, just like the love between Gao and Mr. Wu in the TV series "One Person's Name", which shows love in front of people and marriage that has dissipated behind people. There are many stars in the article, as well as Ma Yili, Chen He and Xu Jing. Who shows love but can't stop it in the end? Divorce? The trampling of words.
Conclusion: As the saying goes, Show love, si's fast? It means that the more loving programs are, the easier it is to separate. It is better to think more about how to manage happiness when you have time to show your love.