I am not interested in this book, mainly because I have read Veronica Decided to Die, and I think it is probably a similar story. The neurotic hero decided to die, and many things happened on his way to death. Finally, he lived with good hopes. But this movie has a good reputation. Generally, when there are books and movies at the same time, I will give priority to reading. Besides, I haven't read this story for a long time, so ...
But although they both decided to die, Ovi and Veronica were different.
Ou Wei lost his love, lost the color of life, lost his life's hard work, and was forced to leave this place where he thought he would repay him with the same loyalty, so he decided to die. He prepared many times, and every time he was interrupted by different people or things at a critical moment, he had to postpone his death.
Ovi is a brave man, there is no doubt about it. This is very contradictory. Nine times out of ten people who decide to die are not brave enough, afraid to face the world, afraid of loneliness and afraid of various reasons. But Ovi is brave. He just decided to die, just as people decide what to have for breakfast tomorrow morning. He made a decision, not afraid of anything, and not trying to escape anything.
Ou Wei believes that everything should have a law, so that people can follow the law. He did the same, so he became serious and even a little rigid. Ou Wei can't understand how this has become a shortcoming. The world doesn't understand how such a person can exist.
Ou Wei believes that being a man is to be a useful person. Therefore, he is honest and kind, never covets other people's things, and will not be an indifferent bystander in other people's affairs. Although in his opinion, he was forced.
Ou Wei's behavior occasionally reminds me of Shel in The Big Bang Theory. They are the kind of people who are really quick-talking and heartless, and sometimes what they do is particularly childish. If such people really appear around us, at first we absolutely hate them and don't like them. They are stubborn and have their own small universe, which is particularly difficult to communicate with. But once you get to know them, you will find that they are not only asking for so much from others, they are honestly doing everything they believe. This kind of person is probably a rare species. If you really meet such a person all your life, you will be lucky if you can still be friends.
There is a passage in the article that describes Ou Wei is reasonable, to the effect that Ou Wei is the kind of person who decides the route and goes forward without hesitation, even if he takes the wrong road, as if the road will change direction because of his decision.
Since when did Ovie not want to die when he didn't realize it? Is it because pregnant women always give orders naturally, or because cats who can't even keep their tails come into his life? Is it that hooligan, the allergic fat man, and the gay man who forced him to live in his house that caused him trouble in turn, or when he asked grandpa's children to help him pack Sawyer's things?
Probably, from the moment he made up his mind to die, he unconsciously expected something to hold him back.
That's why he often says to himself, so Sawyer doesn't like it. In this case, Sawyer should like it. He will.
Then, he met.
Yolo is not a rough slogan.
Of course Ovi won't die. Of course Ovi will die in the end. Everyone is the same.
So he will be furious because more than 300 people came to his funeral.
So we will all be in the same bed, although not necessarily, but it is best to make it clear or vague with the world, even if the world doesn't care.
Finally, extract a few paragraphs that are marked more. The correct nonsense may be the nonsense that everyone wants to remember.
"Ou Wei probably never knows what he should do, but everyone is too optimistic about time. We believe that we can always find time to do what we want and say what we want with others. Then suddenly one day, an accident happened, and now we have to be there, with one word hovering in our minds: if. "
"Death is a strange thing. People pretend it doesn't exist all their lives, even if it is one of the biggest motives in life.
We are afraid of it, but we are more afraid of it happening to people around us. The greatest fear of death is that it passes us by and leaves us alone. "
"When Sawyer left Ovi, he didn't die together. He's just not alive anymore.
Sadness is a strange thing.
Love is a strange thing.
Life is a strange thing. "