2. A person who does things matures and grows in constant loss. So as to become smarter and wiser. If you become sad, unhappy or even depressed because of pain, you can only get hurt in the end. The secret of diagnosis and treatment of this kind of injury is only four words: suffering is happiness!
3. A person who is willing to follow you from the heart and forced to follow you is absolutely different in loyalty and effect. People in high positions are used to conquering each other with their own power. You know, when people are driven by you, there is always an uncomfortable feeling in their hearts, and they may "betray" at the first opportunity. Therefore, the royal master specially touches each other's itchy meat to make them willing to do things for themselves; Learn to brush your hair and let others follow.
5, remember, give benefits to others! Don't give it easily, let alone give it indiscriminately. But there is one exception, that is, when you want to buy people's hearts and circumstances force you to give generously; Not afraid to pay more, but afraid to pay less; I'm not afraid to give it quickly, but I'm afraid I can't give it out
6. Selfish people can't wait to eat all the cakes in the world and don't let others take a little advantage. Therefore, people with narrow nature can't achieve great things. The strongest ability of the strong is to tolerate intolerant people and prevent them from ruining their own affairs at critical moments. In fact, if you give people a little sweetness, your sweetness will not be taken away by others. Isn't that the advantage of allowing others?
7. Learn to refuse when you refuse; Stay away from people without conscience; Even if a mutually beneficial relationship is beneficial to you, trying to maintain it may be of great help to you one day.
8. Whether a person gets along well in society depends on how many people can accept themselves.
9. There are two taboos in a mixed society: one is to look down on others' skills, and the other is to overestimate their position in others' hearts.
10, when you start complaining about the environment, you have put yourself at a disadvantage.
1 1. As long as someone steps on our heads, no matter he is a tiger or a lion, even if he can't beat him, let him drop a piece of meat.
Women nowadays are really great. Unconsciously pregnant, there is a child without a father!
13, under no circumstances can you play with others, and those who play will be played by others. No matter how considerate you are, you are not the best one.
14. Spitting is used to count money, not to reason.
15, don't watch what you shouldn't see, don't say what you shouldn't say, don't listen to what you shouldn't hear, don't think about what you shouldn't think about, please concentrate on soy sauce.
16, when you meet someone who pretends to be forced, encourage him to pretend to be forced instead of talking nonsense.
17, when giving gifts, you must give gifts, that is, don't accept gifts from others casually, as good as you want.
18, when others propose a toast, don't talk so much nonsense, just finish it at once. People who are too talkative in the wine field can play with them, but not do business;
19, praise others more and make money with kindness. When flowers can't defecate normally.
20. Not everything can be taken seriously. Some things can be serious and some things can't be serious. Some things, without violating the principle, will pass with a smile.
The fourth reader's opening remarks
Reader has been well received from the beginning to the present, and the theme of the fourth issue of Reader is a gift. What is the opening line of the fourth issue of Reader?
The fourth reader's opening remarks
This word reminds me,
When we look up at the starry sky and look at the vastness,
This blue planet is the best gift from the universe to mankind;
When we lower our heads to think and pay close attention,
A flower, a world, a leaf and a bodhi in nature are all the most pleasant gifts;
Children are parents' gifts;
Rivers are gifts of the earth;
Eight thousand miles of clouds and moons are the gifts of many beautiful mountains and rivers;
Five thousand years of brilliance is a gift with a long history.
Reading bibliography of the fourth issue of Reader
1. Li "Back"
His gift is his daughter Li Yan.
Followed by a memory essay written by writer Zhu Ziqing at 1925. This paper describes the situation that Zhu Ziqing left Nanjing for Peking University, and his father sent him to pukou railway station to take care of him and buy him oranges. What impressed him most was the back of his father climbing up and down the platform when he bought him oranges.
"I saw him wearing a small black hat, a big black jacket and a dark blue cotton robe, stumbling to the railway and slowly leaning forward. It's not difficult. But it is not easy for him to climb the platform over there when he crosses the railway. He climbed up with both hands, and his feet shrank again; His fat body leans slightly to the left, showing signs of hard work. At this time, I saw his back and tears quickly flowed down. " Zhu Ziqing expressed his father's love for his children deeply, delicately and sincerely in simple words, and showed his father's care and love from ordinary events.
Tell Li Lai that his daughter Li Yan is the best gift from God. He said that the best education is to set an example. "Education does have methods, but without love, all methods are dogmas." For more than ten years, my daughter Yaner tore off the label of children with cleft lip and palate and grew into a sunny and confident girl. In this process, Li, as a father, is accompanied by her love and example education. This kind of education is closely related to the education of Li's father. His father once gave him a sentence: "People should not be arrogant and impatient." In the program, Li dedicated it to his father, expressing his nostalgia and gratitude for his father.
Zhu Ziqing's Prose Collection
Zhu Ziqing's prose is beautiful and meaningful, simple and profound, radical and profound, with a distinct imprint of the times, showing his unique artistic style and aesthetic purport. He inherited the excellent tradition of China's classical literature and created a prose system and style with China's national characteristics under the background of cultural exchange between China and the West.
2. Hu Weiwei-"Song of Bicycle"
Her gift is to light up the city with a bicycle.
"A wide street lacking scenery, except for occasional buses, Dongfeng trucks or Jiefang trucks, cars are very scarce, and busy traffic is mainly reflected in the two wheels of bicycles. Everyone knows that when you see the ocean of bicycles, you will see China. " In his article, Su Tong described his fond memories of childhood and nostalgia for the past years: the times are changing and advancing rapidly. Not just bicycles, many things will change, but they will all become classics, and the past is particularly precious.
Hu Weiwei is the founder of mobike. It took her ten months from having an idea to the appearance of the first mobike in the city. Nowadays, cycling has become a unique landscape in Beijing. She said, "If a city is suitable for cycling, then the happiness index of this city must be very high." By reading Song of Bicycle by Suman, Hu Weiwei profoundly expounded his love for bicycles and awakened the bicycle complex in our hearts.
When we were children: the song of bicycles
The book tells the story of the author's childhood in the south, growing up staggeringly on the streets of Suzhou. Sailboats, flowing water, bridges in the north of the city and crowds in twos and threes in the summer streets are filled with the water and light life in the south, which makes people feel unspeakable disappointment in their leisure. The full text is delicate and realistic, and the true feelings are revealed.
3. Ni Ping-"Grandma's Quotations"
Her gift is to accompany her audience.
Ni Ping said in the book: She pulled me when I was a child, and I pulled her when I grew up. How many difficult years, my grandmother taught me with her words; How many difficult problems are all classic metaphors of grandma, which makes me suddenly enlightened.
Grandma said, "whatever you can't figure out, just think the other way around." If no one likes it, they will get used to it. " "Born to suffer, don't complain. Complaining is also bitter, and not complaining is also bitter. " "What is sweet? No disease, no disaster is sweet; It is sweet not to lack arms and legs, and it is also sweet for illiterate people to recognize a word. "
Ni Ping was once a generation's memory of the Spring Festival Gala, and her voice accompanied us through 13 days to bid farewell to the old and welcome the new. However, in 2004, Ni Ping's 4-month-old son was diagnosed with a rare disease. If left untreated, his eyes will gradually become blind and even die. Ni Ping withdrew from the CCTV stage for his son to go to the United States for medical treatment. In 20xx, Ni Ping returned to the CCTV stage. For Ni Ping, the audience waiting for her is a long-lost "gift". On the stage of "The Reader", Ni Ping read her own "Grandma's Quotations" to commemorate the days spent with her 99-year-old grandmother and dedicate these words to the TV audience who grew up with her.
4. Dan Jixiang-"Nothing is too big"
His gift is to guard the Forbidden City.
The Forbidden City is a precious gift left by history to future generations. It bears the vicissitudes of the sun and the moon and witnesses the changes of the years. Dan Jixiang, director of the Palace Museum in Beijing, once spent five months visiting more than 20 pairs of cloth shoes and more than 9,000 houses in the Forbidden City. He has been busy with the Forbidden City, which is a gift from China to the world. He dedicated Beyond to all those who love the culture of the Forbidden City.
This passage is from the documentary "Forbidden City 100", which tells the fate of one hundred buildings and presents the history, present situation and future of the Forbidden City. Through one hundred space stories, a holographic architecture image system of the Forbidden City is constructed, which interprets the function, image and aesthetic value of the Forbidden City architecture in a modern and diversified way, thus promoting the universal significance of China culture, facing the world and making the audience sing for it.
5. Zhao Ruirui-"Hold Your Right Hand"
Her gift is a day's hard work during the women's volleyball period.
"I often see girls with their hands stretched out solemnly, as if holding a transparent hada. Palmists say that men are left and women are right. The girl puts her left hand behind her back and her right palm points to the blue sky. "
Our right hand is strong and our destiny is in our hands.
Zhao, a former female volleyball player, was injured many times in his career. During the injury, she also complained about the unfair fate. "I have been asking why, but I have no answer ... Fortunately, I prefer reading. I think books give me a lot of strength. " In Bi Shumin's Hold Your Right Hand, she seems to have found the answer: "Fate is my weak shield. When I shouted the loudest voice of unfair fate, it was the prelude to my escape. " She stopped complaining about life, and she learned to face life with gratitude. After retirement, she transformed into a professional writer. Four years ago, she won the Silver Award for Best Long-form Sci-fi in the 4th Global Sci-fi Galactic Awards for a sci-fi work.
Hold your right hand.
I often think that there is such a thing as fate. Is it material or spiritual? Is our life already stipulated by a spell, and no one can change it? Are our hands really CDs, and all the blessings are miniature like notes?
6. Students and friends of Professor Zhao Jiahe
-"How can I thank you?"
Their gift is to let more children see hope.
"How can I thank you? I came to you to harvest a spring breeze, but you gave me the whole spring. "
In this poem, Wang Guozhen embraces the most beautiful scenery of the four seasons with his full affection, and expresses his true and moving gratitude with the full images and sincere language in four poems.
Professor Zhao Jiahe donated his life savings to poor children in the west, but he did not want to be named. He and his colleague Professor Chen Zhangwu just set up the Xinghua Youth Aid Fund in the name of "a retired old professor in Tsinghua" to help poor students. Professor Zhao Jiahe was an extremely thrifty person before his death. After he was diagnosed with a terminal illness, he refused to use imported medicine, refused to live in a big hospital, and only wanted to live in Tsinghua school hospital. At the end of his life, Professor Zhao Jiahe donated his body. Professor Zhao Jiahe gave his life as a gift to children and society. On the reader's stage, Professor Zhao Jiahe's students and friends deeply recited "How Can I Thank You" and expressed their deep love and gratitude to Professor Zhao.
Love life: Wang Guozhen's classic poems
Wang Guozhen, the miracle of China's contemporary poetry, has won the Golden Key Award of the National Book for three consecutive times and is known as the "Prince of Contemporary Poetry"! Wang Guozhen's poems are not only full of philosophy of life, but also full of youth and romance between the lines.
The third issue of classic sentences in real society
1, if you see through a phenomenon and torture yourself, it is your ignorance and stubbornness. People are different, and everyone is equal only in articles and slogans. If you advocate equality of personality, it can only be your wishful thinking and self-righteousness. If you don't discriminate against others, it's only a matter of time before others discriminate against you or you.
2. A person is far away from you. He must be a friend when you are brilliant. One kind of person is very close to you. When you are brilliant, you may be a villain.
3. People who say good things about you are really good; Those who help you behind your back, that is the real help.
Nothing is eternal in this world. You can try to believe everything except death, except the word "forever".
5. Never spoil yourself by bring disgrace to oneself. Don't make a mess of your life because of a slander or a blow from others, and you can only be really hurt. Life is empty and real, and there is real and empty. This is not true, you will regret it all your life; This is not empty, you will regret it all your life. This is a survival skill, and no one will teach you.
6, get along with people, leave a line in everything, meet in the future, trouble is the most undesirable.
7. In fact, there are no exact good guys and bad guys in this world. Good people are good to you, and bad people are bad to you.
8. Mind your own business. Say what others like, and don't threaten your interests.
9. Equality is a fart. No one dares to bully you if you are strong.
10 No matter what you do, no matter where you stand, remember that power is always greater than everything.
1 1. Going out is not about temper, but about ability.
12, you do what others don't want to do, which means you are a handyman; If you do something that others can't do, you are awesome.
13, money is not everything, but it will make the other person superior to you in appearance, temperament, dress, mind, contacts and spending power.
14, if you give a favor to others, others will owe you one, and he must pay it back, because this is human nature. Kindness is like your money in the bank. The more you save, the longer you save, and the more dividends you get.
15, people can be roughly divided into four types. Scum, people, talents, outstanding people. Scum is the kind of person who harms society and gives less points to society. The masses are the broadest masses in society. Hard work, a stable job and family, and an ordinary life are the most extensive foundations of society. Talents are industry leaders or pioneers, including what we call intellectuals, experts and scholars, or middle and high-yield classes. The number is relatively small, but they have made outstanding contributions to social development and are the backbone and mainstay of society. Outstanding people are leaders of society, few in number, mainly top politicians and scientists with global influence. They are rare, but they can influence the trend of society and the world, and they are cutting-edge key figures in society.
16, technical, academic and professional talents mostly come from ordinary families, because they can persist in their efforts. . Leaders are mostly in political families, because the way to govern others is a family tradition. Except for geniuses, artistic talents generally come from wealthy families. Others have money and time, and they can study unscrupulously.
17, the taboo of mixed society is that you can't put down your face and be embarrassed to do anything. It's a pity that you can't grab resources, and even the only resources will be exhausted.
18, if you give someone a favor, others will owe you one, and he must pay it back, because this is human nature. Kindness is like your money in the bank. The more you save, the longer you save, and the more dividends you get.
19, ask someone to do things, praise each other's ability and authority, if he can't help you do things, he will lose pride and face. Nothing is impossible as long as you praise properly and satisfy each other's self-esteem.
20. Most sophisticated people are good at talking with words and puns. A wise man doesn't have to say anything, just to make your heart clear. Whether the speaker deliberately hides the mystery or not, the listener must understand his real intention in order to handle it properly. If your brain is not clear and your ears are not working, you will definitely encounter more embarrassment.
59 Social Classic Quotations _ Real Social Classic Sentences _ Surreal Social Classic Sentences
1 People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices.
Some people never have a chance to meet, but when they meet, they hesitate. It's best not to meet.
Some things have never had a chance to do, and I don't want to do it again when I have a chance.
Some words have been buried in my heart for a long time and I have no chance to say them. When I had a chance to say it, I couldn't say it.
Some loves have never had a chance to love, and they stopped loving when they had a chance.
Sometimes, life is always ironic. Some things last a lifetime.
Don't be too sure of your opinion, so there will be less regret.
Don't do things spontaneously, but doing things spontaneously will only harm yourself.
If I know more than others, it is because I have made more mistakes than others.
Make good use of China people's psychology of "meeting for three minutes". You respect each other, and they will respect you.
Time is like a net, where you sow, you reap.
If I find my wife is wrong, I must be wrong; If I am not mistaken, I must have mistaken my wife; If the wife doesn't admit her mistake, she is not wrong!
Laughter is the shortest distance between people.
10 Live an easy life and prepare for the best and the worst.
1 1 If you fall, you must get up. If you don't get up, others will look down on you and you will lose your chance.
12 market manipulated my mood, K line controlled my heartbeat, and profit and loss decided my life.
13 the elegance of life is not trained or dressed up, but has experienced thousands of times of peace, vicissitudes of wisdom and countless ups and downs.
It is to look down on dust, live in a ravine, learn to give up and let go, and go into battle lightly;
It is to look at interpersonal relationships in a simple way, with less struggle and entanglement. The greatest wealth is to cherish the fleeting time; It is to look down on gains and losses, come and go unintentionally, and let the heart be quiet and elegant.
14 The most urgent thing is the most beautiful scenery, and the most painful thing is the most true feelings.
15 facing the sea, spring blossoms. It is a realm, which is interpreted by a poet with his own life. Don't get rid of it easily.
16 Don't live in other people's mouths or eyes, but take your destiny into your own hands.
17 Eat less and have a good meal.
18 Not telling the truth is a personal shame, and not telling the truth is a shame of the times.
19 slowly realized that many things can only be owned once; Slowly, I understand that two people who are together every day are not necessarily friends, but may be nothing; Slowly, I understand that mobile phones are used by others to exchange things, not to exchange feelings; Slowly, I understand that happiness often comes from memories, while pain often comes from the gap between memories and reality.
A person's life is fragile, and a group's life is strong.
The greatness of life lies in persistence, in the connection between hearts, and in the holding of hands.
No matter how big the disaster is, no matter how big the difficulty is, let's work together to overcome it!
2 1 loving someone means giving your heart and hammer to each other at the same time. From then on, they have the right and ability to break your heart.
When you point your finger at others, please don't forget that your three fingers are pointing at yourself.
It is shameful for a person to cover up his shortcomings by hurting others.
Follow Mao, and he will listen to you. No matter how big your temper is, no matter how shrewd you are, no matter how strong your personality is, you can't stand this move.
Be a turtle, not a rabbit. People with rabbit qualifications are prone to pride, and pride will become a stumbling block on the road to success.
Don't turn over the past page, you will lose your eyes if you turn over the dust.
Do not love each other. If you love too much, your love will depreciate.
When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.
One side effect of success is to think that the past practices are also applicable to the future.
Why tell one lie and make up ten lies to make up for it?
3 1 for so many years, I have been learning one thing, that is, I don't look back, I only regret what I didn't do, and I don't regret what I did. Every step of life needs to pay a price. I got what I wanted and lost what I didn't want to lose. But all the people in this world, who is not like this?
When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.
The most contradictory place between lovers is dreaming about each other's future, but thinking about each other's past.
34 men look at women, the most beautiful when they are in love, the most common after marriage, the ugliest after divorce, and the most beautiful after divorce;
Women look at men most sincerely when they are in love, most bored after marriage, most hypocritical after divorce and most sincere after divorce.
Try not to gossip about colleagues and friends.
All love should be married to reality, because life and days are real, and sweet air and sweet words are not as important as steamed bread in reality.
In the face of real life, marriage is a sign to distinguish lies from determination.
If a man really loves a woman, he can get married.
On the contrary, only if you don't love or don't love deeply enough will you find thousands of reasons to shirk.
The heart is a pocket. Less is called scheming, more is called mind's eye, more is called scheming, and more is called scheming.
Regardless of the ups and downs outside, stormy waves, regardless of the changes of the world, give life a little peace, give life a truth, give yourself a gratitude, and give others an tolerance. We just want to live an easy life. Everything is calm and gives us the truest life.
Behind the scenery, it is either vicissitudes or filth.
You can have love, but don't be persistent, because separation is inevitable.
4 1 When we remove the stumbling blocks laid by others, we may be paving the way for ourselves.
Marriage is like eating. You must have ordered what you like, but you can't help looking at other people's plates first when the food comes.
Don't let too much past occupy your present, once was once, and then recall only once.
Those who dare not get angry are cowards, and those who don't get angry are wise.
Don't lie, because it will be exposed one day.
Never give a friend who has betrayed himself a second chance to betray.
If God gives me another chance to be born again, I must choose to be born in the Tang Dynasty, so I don't have to learn English or lose weight.
The bitterness and sweetness of coffee lies not in how to stir, but in whether to put sugar; The pain is not so hard to forget, but whether you have the courage to start over.
Become an expert in your field as soon as possible, and you will succeed as long as you work hard.
You should always thank all beings who have given you adversity.
5 1 Life can be puffed up, frustrated, extremely coke, painful, ridiculous and crying, but it is extraordinary, indifferent and boring.
No one is rich enough to need help from others, and no one is poor enough to help others in some way.
The eyes of the masses are discerning. Smile when you hear or see this sentence. Trust the masses, that's Ge You's advertising slogan to make money.
Think of yourself as a boss or supervisor secretly, and gradually cultivate your ability to be a boss or supervisor.
Be cautious and independent, learn to compromise, and at the same time, stick to your most basic principles.
The beauty of life comes from your love for life, and the innocence of friendship comes from your sincere treatment of friends.
Love your parents, because they gave you life, and they are also the most selfless people who love you.
Do a good job and live a wonderful life.
There are many ways to destroy friendship, and the most thorough way is to borrow money.