Before meeting a man, a woman will put forward many unreasonable demands on him, such as looks, wealth, job nature and so on. Once she meets a man who really loves her and treats her well, these demands will collapse instantly, and a woman will be dead set on following a man for a lifetime. This is a woman, seemingly unreasonable and vain, but in fact she is nothing more than a real woman.
What women want most is that men love and treat themselves well. The happiest woman is to have a man who loves and treats himself well. Women enjoy luxury cars and villas and enjoy money. Finally, what women enjoy most is that men are good to themselves. Before marriage, women choose four out of three, and finally they only choose a man who loves themselves and is good to themselves; Before marriage, women want this and that, and what they want finally is that their husbands can really love themselves and be good to themselves.
Men love themselves and treat themselves well. Of course, women know best. Women are emotional and sensitive. Compared with men, women know best and enjoy the details of love in life, especially the gentle details from men who have loved. The gentle details of men make women feel the love from men and the kindness of men to themselves. Therefore, women need men's tender details most, and men should also know what women really think. Besides material food and clothing, what women want is that true love and thoughtfulness, that warmth of love.
Remember those important days. Men are always careless and always forget the days that are particularly important to women, which makes women very sad, because women can easily associate these with love. Although this is not necessarily the case in fact, men should understand this psychological difference between men and women. Men value reality while women value form. Men think that trying to make money outside is a sign of love. In addition, women need more specific details, such as remembering her birthday and wedding anniversary, and it is best to surprise her. Therefore, in order to make their women happier, it is necessary for men to spend a little time printing these important days in their minds.
Kiss her before going out. Men's love is more real, while women's love is more illusory and concrete. For example, if a man tries to make money outside, it is his love for his wife and children, while a woman equates some concrete but illusory emotional details with love, denying that no matter how much money you earn, you can't feel your love, and she may still be unhappy. In these emotional details, men often give women a kiss, especially a kiss before going out every day, so that women can truly feel their husband's love and women's lives will be rich and happy. This is a woman, a simple and emotional woman who is somewhat illusory but true. Women like this tender detail, and they often kiss her as a hobby. Especially before going out, it's best to add a whisper or two, such as "Baby, wait for me", "Baby, remember to be happy" and "Baby, I miss you".
Walking and shopping arm in arm. Many men disdain walking and shopping before marriage, even if the husband and wife go out for a walk together, it is purely task-oriented. If you look closely, you will find that women always hold hands with men intentionally or unintentionally, making an innocent girl look. This is not a woman's affectation, but a woman's gentleness, which also reflects a woman's subconscious: how much she enjoys shopping with her husband, and how much she hopes that her husband can hold her hand or hug her waist. It's a pity that most men can do it before marriage, but never again before marriage. In fact, women's demands are very simple, and women's happiness is also very simple. Holding her hand when walking and hugging her waist when shopping, women will be so intoxicated in happiness. It is not difficult to do this. It's just that after marriage, men completely ignore it, or take it for granted that there is no need to get married like that, which hurts women's hearts invisibly. If you really love her and treat her well, then release this simple and gentle detail and give your woman happiness, because she enjoys your tenderness.
Help with housework. Times have changed. Many young couples can hardly cook by themselves. They are very busy at work and career, and often eat out, so they have less housework. But there will always be housework, besides cooking, there are other things. Some couples do more housework, and some women do more. If the housework is mainly done by women, then men should not forget to help their wives when they are busy, try to do some housework and send warm greetings and a glass of water when their wives are tired. "Baby, take a break when you are tired" and "Baby, take a break and have a glass of water". I think it is worthwhile for your wife to be busy and tired, and she is also the happiest psychologically. A man should never take his wife's contribution for granted, turn a deaf ear to her busyness and fatigue, and turn a blind eye to it, so that he is insensitive, unloved and uncared for. A man may not really love his wife, but don't forget these tender little details.
It is not just a slogan that a man who protects her in the face of difficulties is the patron saint of women. In the face of difficulties or disasters, when women are hurt or lonely, when women feel helpless, or when they are wronged outside, they need their husbands' comfort, care and understanding most. This woman is hurt, helpless and scared. The man hugged her and said firmly, "Baby, don't be afraid, I have everything", so that a woman's heart can rely on it. For women, this sentence from a man is the most charming word in the world.
You should also praise your appearance. Before marriage, a man's mouth is the least stingy. He can say anything that warms people's hearts, black and white. Once married, men change, turning a blind eye to all the changes in their wives and changing their hair styles. He didn't say a word when he bought a new skirt. The word beauty comes out of his mouth, which is more difficult than going to heaven. Maybe men will say compliments to other women. Of course, but not necessarily. Most men still think that the old couple are not so particular. Men are rational and slightly dull guys, while women, on the other hand, are emotional and sensitive, care about some details and want her husband's praise. Therefore, men should not keep silent about their wives' appearance, turn a blind eye to the changes in their wives' appearance, pay more attention and care, and praise their wives' new hairstyles and skirts. As soon as her husband praises her, a woman's happiness leaps forward.
Marriage must be as plain as a flowing stream. Happiness in marriage does not need earth-shattering waves, a greeting and a kiss. This casual warm detail will make a woman remember it for a lifetime, and she will repay you with more love and warmth. Women's happiness comes from men's warmth.