The reason why some older women have been single may not be that their conditions are poor, but that they are too good and don't like any man. They think that no man is worthy of his excellent self. Therefore, even if there are many suitors in life, they will never compromise or reconcile if they don't meet the one that suits them best. Although life is realistic, their faces have gradually changed, and the traces of time have slowly climbed on their faces, and their bodies are not as good as before.
The view of women in life has always been unfriendly. As men grow older, they become more and more attractive, mature and liked. However, if a girl passes that period of youth and slowly passes the age of 30, she will be labeled as an older woman. In fact, how disrespectful and hurtful the word leftover women is, it is not what is left, but the kind of unmarried women who are unwilling to make do with it.
Perhaps many older women have been holding the attitude of not being able to make do with life before, but with the growth of age, people around them are worried and urging, their mentality is slowly changing, thinking that they should find someone else, so it is too late, so they finally compromise like life, find a man who is different from their original requirements, get married and have children, and live a life they don't like. I feel worse than being single. If you can't live the way you like with the person you like, what's the point of life? Then everything you insisted on before will be in vain. If I had known this, I might as well marry myself while I was young, perhaps better than marrying now.
So I still think that older women should not compromise on life, work hard and stick to their own choices, and the future life will leave you better.