I have seen many people who are of marriageable age but still single. These people shout to their friends all day: "I want to take off the bill, I want to fall in love." However, I never take part in all my friends' activities. I don't participate in all activities except commuting every day, and my circle of friends is updated one after another. On holidays, garbage never goes out if it is not satisfied. Even if he goes out to buy something occasionally, he never dresses up and looks sloppy. Such people rarely have the opportunity to meet the opposite sex, let alone find friends to fall in love. If you want to get rid of order, you must first blend in with the crowd and give yourself a channel to show yourself. Enjoy friends' social activities and meet the opposite sex. Fully show your external beauty to the opposite sex. After all, no one has the obligation to find your perfect soul under your sloppy appearance. Second, how to show your appearance, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and show your advantages. Everyone's five senses are defective. Some people have too big eyes but small noses. Some people have a good nose, but their skin is not very good; And some people have good facial features, but their faces are not very harmonious. This is normal. As long as we are real people, we all have shortcomings, but each of us also has our own bright spots. So at this time, you should learn to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses and create personal characteristics. We are often attracted to a certain opposite sex around us because he shows unique characteristics. Such as handsome, humorous, talented and so on. These are personal characteristics and are important criteria to distinguish you from others. Third, the real communication, establish a person's status in the real communication, and deepen the other party's goodwill towards you in getting along. When you get along with the opposite sex, you must grasp the first date. It feels strange at first sight. Can deepen a person's impression of you. Besides, it's also a good idea to prepare a little surprise for each other from time to time on a date. One thing is to pay attention to details. Don't think that details are unimportant. Often details determine success or failure. Seize the opportunity and speak your mind directly. Such a thoughtful image will be set up, and the other party will be at a loss in an instant. It is worth noting that love must be sincere, of course, occasionally a little routine, in order to work together with the person you like, who wouldn't like it? How to teach you how to take off the order 2. How to take off the order quickly? Many boys don't like talking to girls very much. They like to do this and that for her silently, thinking that she can see her actions and then be moved by her silent confession. It is impossible to make eye contact when you are unfamiliar with girls, let alone rely on telepathy. She can't understand you, and neither can you understand her. If you are a hard worker, you will never find a girlfriend. Brothers who don't like to talk, must be brave enough to open your chatterbox and communicate with girls. A talkative man is always particularly easy to attract the attention of girls. Don't be stingy, talk sweet words. Sweet words are the nourishment of love! When you are not in love, it can help you attract girls quickly and let you fall in love; I can help you make her love you more during your relationship. Set a goal and then concentrate. If you are sure to pursue a girl, you'd better focus on her, pursue wholeheartedly, and don't be half-hearted. If you casually chat up other girls in the process of pursuing the target girl, you will not only be unable to attract her fully, but also leave a bad impression on playboy. Set a pursuit limit for the girl you pursue. The pursuit limit we set for a girl is to ensure that you can retain your charm and continue to improve yourself. For example, time and energy should not affect the pace of work and basic life. If you have to ask for leave to pursue a girl, or you can't study, which will affect your future development, then you can stop. Take the initiative to care, careful and considerate. Most girls like considerate boys. If you want to catch up with the girl you like, you must be as intimate as a "warm man". Specifically, you can pay more attention to each other's dynamics in peacetime, chat with her when she is in a bad mood, and give her a chance to complain. The most basic way to pursue what you like is to do what you like, because remembering your friends' preferences is a very decent thing. Therefore, if you find that the other person likes Wu Kuidongye, you can read Wu Kuidongye's books, such as the most classic "The Dedication of Suspect X". When chatting with your sister WeChat, you can pretend to mention this book unintentionally. Highlighting your own advantages Although the first impression is very important, every meeting in the future is more important, so try to show your advantages in front of girls as much as possible. Let girls think you are interesting every time they see you. After all, girls will not be too casual when choosing boyfriends, and definitely hope that boyfriends are perfect. The most direct way to improve your inner attraction to the opposite sex is not only to make the other person feel beautiful, but also your inner knowledge is very important. Gorgeous appearance has a shelf life, but the inner knowledge will never expire, and even some roads you have taken will become qualifications to enrich your spirit.