First of all, if you want to be fair, you can't be partial to girls or boys, which will cause everyone's criticism and won't accept you. Furthermore, you should be able to find their advantages. They have the same sense of collective honor as ordinary people. You should make good use of them to unite everyone. Don't overdo everything, but consider everyone's feelings. Finally, you should set a good example.

Generally speaking, there is a dignified monitor and the class in charge is not very noisy. So sometimes we must not be soft on them.

It is difficult to be a monitor, but it is also fun to be a good monitor. So don't take managing classmates as a task, but have a conscious sense of responsibility.

As long as you put your heart into it, you will do it well.

First of all, find a time to speak out the disunity in the class euphemistically, and then show your idea of solving this problem, so that all the students in the class know what you want to do, and then you will have the desire to "pour bitterness" to you ... Next:

The first step is to know whether everyone has the desire to communicate, and if so, they have the basic conditions; If you don't want to associate with each other (which usually doesn't happen), find out the reason and write it down on paper.

The second step is divide and conquer: you should eliminate everyone's psychological barriers, find out the reasons why they don't like to associate, and write down the reasons on paper.

The third step is to "prescribe the right medicine" according to the reasons found, which are generally divided into the following situations:

1, girls think that boys are not worth socializing with, which is not the image of boys in their hearts. Then it is necessary to make clear what the "boy image" in girls' minds looks like and record it.

2, boys feel that girls have no temperament, arrogance and so on. This is not their MM image. Similarly, it is necessary to clarify what the "MM image" in boys' minds means.

3. Make a comprehensive analysis of the obtained information to find out the crux of the problem.

4. Organizing a class meeting to let everyone understand the purpose of the class meeting is the key to success. It depends on your eloquence. Can you let everyone face this problem together? Make your purpose and the information you got public at the class meeting, and then everything will be "noisy". When this happens, you are successful, because it means that the problem is solved from the beginning. Then let's discuss it collectively. Point out each other's weaknesses and let both boys and girls know each other's thoughts. Finally, you put forward: in order to solve the phenomenon of disunity between men and women in our class, I propose that the boy representative speak, and ask him to make corrections as much as possible for the honor of the class. Girls should also make presentations to lay the foundation for the next step.

5. Challenge basketball with other classes. First, boys and girls are embarrassed not to participate because of their previous behavior. Next, girls and boys will definitely go back to cheer for girls when they see girls cheering for them before.

6. Do the above five steps, and you will succeed more than half. Then there will be a buffer period. You should often take part in similar activities, big and small. But there is a principle: it must be linked to class honor! ! ! Because no one wants to disregard class honor! ! !

7. While doing the above, you should pay attention to your own way and make full use of everyone's trust in you! ! !

Step 4 (recommended), pray to me devoutly every night, and I will help you secretly ... Hehe ... I wish you success.