Because of reality, many times, reality, money, power and other factors have changed people (more men). Don't hold the same view on all men, because then you will lose confidence. I believe there are still good men in the world, because sometimes the world is so big that you can't meet them; But sometimes the world is small and you can meet a nice guy as soon as you turn around. So, when you encounter something you can't stand, just avoid it. If you meet something you like, I think you will be tolerant.