A wife should know that a husband is a husband. Just love him, don't compare him, don't always say how good other people's husbands are, and don't criticize him for being worthless. You are the closest person to him, and it seems inappropriate for you to talk about him. For most men, praise and encouragement can give him more motivation to struggle than abuse. If you love him, you must respect him. No matter how angry you are, you can't hurt others. The wound of words sometimes bleeds for a lifetime. Physical injury is easy to cure, and the consequences of mental injury are terrible. Husband should understand: a wife is a wife, as long as it hurts, don't compare it, don't say that she is not as beautiful as other people's wives, and don't criticize her for being incompetent. There are dragons and dragons, and there are phoenixes and phoenixes, all of which are beautiful, but you don't have the blessing and ability, and you can't enjoy them, let alone "knowing thousands of miles away, there is no rain and no wind"? Women are born weak and need men's love, and the consequences of mental injury will be even more terrible for them. Wife should know: don't show your face to each other, an angry woman is ugly. He has been under great pressure at work and has no obligation to go home. He has to look at your face to make you happy. The other person will have shortcomings in personality, and the details of life will be different from yours, which will make you dissatisfied, but how can he be perfect? In front of you, he should put down his mask, be himself and be an ordinary person. Tolerance is the correct attitude towards life and marriage. Mutual tolerance and understanding. Husband should understand: don't take your wife as a punching bag. A man who only tells his wife what to do is the most timid man. The wife is the rose in your garden, and the husband should be a professional gardener specially hired. If the gardener does his duty, the flowers will bloom more brightly. My wife is not a spoiled rose who stays in the garden all day. She also has to go through the baptism of wind and rain. Like a man, she faces society, career and colleagues. Faced with attempts, successes and failures, they encounter more difficulties than men. There are still endless housework to be cleaned up at home, and children's study and life need to be properly taken care of. Can't her husband let her put down her mask, be herself and be a relaxed person? A wife should know that a man values dignity more than anything, no matter how much he loves you and fears you in private. In front of people, we must give each other enough face to be an indomitable man who is not afraid of his wife, and we don't like friends to make fun of him for being afraid of his wife. Unless he has strong backing and high status, most of us are ordinary people. Husband should understand that women are also independent people and have self-esteem. The slogan of women's liberation has been shouted for more than half a century. Why do we have to be second-class citizens? Mutual respect and dignity are interactive and cannot be achieved by unilateral efforts. Why can't men think about it? A vain man needs false self-esteem, and only a down-to-earth man can get respect from others in his bones. A wife should know that her husband's parents are their own parents. They care about each other, love my house and my dog, care about my old age and take care of my old age. As long as I really feel that these are my own parents, I am psychologically attached to the elderly, and the elderly will feel this sincerity. What's more, people are like children when they are old, as long as they are as happy as children. We have an old day ourselves. Husband should understand: the wife is also the flesh of parents' hearts, and it is also brought up by parents with a handful of excrement and urine, and it is also cultivated by parents with painstaking efforts. Should a wife get rid of her biological parents and concentrate on filial piety when she marries your family? Have you used the same way of thinking to care about your heart, love me, love my dog, and do your half-life duty?