After reading the book, Xu Rupei felt 1. Mr. Yangming's educational methods are extensive and profound. Don't teach is don't teach. In Xu Rupei's Volume, some scholars' questions and queries are either asked without answering or just statements of disapproval, while Xu Rupei's introspection is only a reply, but the silence is long. Therefore, Xu Rupei was amazed and felt that Mr. Wang's unspoken teaching was a matter of listening, and it was shocking. Careless and frivolous, I was lost for a while.
As an entrepreneur, how to practice teaching without words?
The first is self-cultivation, self-cultivation and honesty, and setting an example. As "University" said: If you want to govern the country, you should first put your family in order; if you want to cultivate yourself, you should first straighten your heart; if you want to straighten your heart, you should be sincere and sincere to the prophet. It is upright and does not command; His body is not straight, although he disobeys. Only by selfless dedication, taking employees' interests into account and empathizing with their happiness and pain, employees can unite as one with entrepreneurs and enterprises, and Qixin can join hands.
Secondly, actions speak louder than words, words are consistent with deeds, and actions will bear fruit. A lot of rules and regulations and a hundred slogans can't form a corporate culture. An enterprise that only takes supervision, rewards and punishments as its governance means will not be a polite, benevolent and honest enterprise in the mouth of employees. The character and virtue of an entrepreneur is the best example for employees, and the example is also the highest realm of education!
Teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. An employee who works hard in an enterprise should not only get salary, respect and happiness, but also get spiritual growth and professional skills growth. Only operators with educator thinking can really cultivate and support their growth, thus driving the growth of enterprises.
Teaching without words will create more operators and make enterprises develop better. Why not?
After reading Mr. Yang Ming's Xu Rupei Volume, I was deeply touched. However, Mr. Wang is not anxious and calm in the face of the world's doubts, and he preaches and teaches doubts day after day, so that more people can understand, accept and carry forward their own theoretical theories. On the other hand, when I meet others' slanders and misunderstandings, I brush them off and turn a blind eye. The gap with my husband is too big. As leading cadres, we are deeply inspired by life and elaborate from the following points;
1, because the world is diversified, everyone's values will be different because of different environmental backgrounds and learning experiences, and they cannot be the same. "It is not spring to stand out from the crowd, but it is spring to let a hundred flowers blossom." No matter how good the theory is, it is impossible for everyone to accept it. On the contrary, the more the truth is argued, the more clear it is, and the spark of thought can only collide with a hundred schools of thought. I think I had the same problem when I was the manager of a non-profit organization. Because I believe that I have worked hard for myself and have a sincere love, I will not be calm, sad or even think of giving up when I meet others' incomprehension or even gossip and cynicism. Isn't this exactly the same as Xu Rupei leaving the exam topic? In fact, the mistake I made was that I was eager to let others accept my own standard concept. As a result, even the correct idea is hard to convince the public. The more anxious I am, the more difficult it is for me to achieve my goals and ideals.
2. Criticism and censure are teachers who grow up, and overcoming their own unwillingness is a real warrior. Suggestions are hard to listen to, or people generally feel uncomfortable when facing different opinions. There are too many questions and misunderstandings. I have had my own retreat and fear of difficulties. I know that Professor Wu's theory is to promote the essence of Chinese medicine, but I feel sad and dare not stick to it in the face of doubts from people around me, investment experts and experts and scholars. Essentially, my heart is not strong enough! It is normal for music therapy to be questioned under the background of the lack of traditional cultural fault in China. Any new thing will be questioned as soon as it appears, because it impacts people's traditional thinking mode and makes people feel uncomfortable. If this gives birth to resignation, then the world will lose its momentum and innovation will cease to exist. In the article, when Mr. Yang Ming was puzzled and even slandered that "the master laughed at the world, but he was afraid of people's incompetence", I was like Xu Rupei, "and I did the opposite and couldn't push my luck".
3. Self-reflection is the best way to achieve it. After this article was told to Mr. Wang, although Mr. Wang agreed, he was "silent for a long time" Silence is better than sound. If silent teaching shocks a hundred miles, he will lose his mind. Everyone has a Buddha in his heart, and enlightenment is Buddhism.
In short, in the complicated affairs and vanity fair, we often blind our eyes, pollute the mirror in our hearts, and let ourselves get lost or even go astray. Only when you encounter things as opportunities to hone your growth and difficulties as opportunities to hone your maturity will you continue to grow and progress.
After reading "Xu Rupei" Volume 3, this article records a story between him and student Xu Rupei (Xu Shan ornaments). At that time, the imperial court and Nangong counselors criticized Zhu Yangming's theory of mind as heresy. Shan Xu, one of Mr. Yangming's favorite students, took the exam in Nangong (i.e. Jinshi exam), and left without answering because he was dissatisfied with the fact that the topic of "strategy" in the exam contained "Yin belittled Confucius' learning" (i.e. implied slander on Yangming's mind). He believes that Wang Yangming's mind is "simple and broad", Wang Yangming's words are "true and clear", and Wang Yangming's heart is "benevolent and forgiving"
When a master told Mr. Yang Ming about Xu Shan's actions, Wang Yangming did not show appreciation, but was "depressed", "silent should not be" and "answered with his jaw, but remained silent for a long time". These actions made Xu Shan deeply introspect and realized that her practice was wrong. He said: "I didn't see the master at first, so I heard about the master's knowledge and slandered it without ridicule." When I saw the master and heard the instruction of conscience, I suddenly realized that I was awake, and my innate sense of harmony began to regret. If I am not as good as the master, I will die several times. Although I am very clear today, I can't tell myself; I believe it very much, but I can't benefit everyone. ""Why forget your own difficulties and blame others for their quickness "; The master dares to laugh and slander the world, but he is afraid of being bad, while I, on the other hand, can't push my luck. Xu Shan realized that when she was not personally taught by Mr. Yang Ming, she also denigrated Yang Ming's mind. Later, she was personally taught by Mr. Yang Ming, and her conscience was discovered before she suddenly realized.