Tale of talented woman Xu: I am my own sense of security. Recently, many people asked me to write articles about Xu and Zhang Ziyi. To tell the truth, stars are too difficult to write, because they are uncontrollable, and their feelings and life are as full of unknowns as drama. Change and separation often make black and white an outdated joke in the face of impermanent reality. However, Xu is different. She is an emotionally stable adult. Even when she was young, she made a stupid mistake. /kloc-at the age of 0/9, she almost jumped into the river for a man. In her twenties, she is also a little girl looking for ups and downs in the love of Master Wang Shuo, who is a little taller than herself. But she finally walked out of the most insurmountable emotional dilemma of women, from a woman who was hurt by love to a weak but powerful woman. Therefore, there is no risk in writing about her, and I am willing. What kind of stars do audiences buy most? Most of them are of two types: one is a model in which winners in life have no dead ends, such as Andy Lau and Zhao Wei. They work hard and have a good relationship, realizing endless dreams for ordinary people. Their existence itself is a "star dream"; Another kind, perhaps, is "I'll say whatever you want and leave you alone". I go my own way and live in a circle, such as Faye Wong and Zhou Xun. They are never in a hurry to explain and clarify, and they practice rebellion for the public with that unwavering energy that can't be found in real life. It's hard to stay popular without these two things. But these two things are natural and more difficult to do, which is contrary to the persistence of human inertia and the pure temperament in the bones. In today's era, pure nature is more difficult than clumsy modeling, especially in the face of gains and losses. Xu is different, it is a mixture of the two. She has her own way to win life, but she doesn't take the usual path. She let the audience see another choice for female stars besides marrying a rich family, falling in love and showing love: to make themselves feel safe. Most female stars have little to say except movies, gossip and maintenance tips. Just like most women, except for husbands, children and scandals, there are basically no explosions, no matter how old they are, they are all pink Mary. Different from Xu, there are many things worth mentioning here, and the scope is particularly wide. Many years ago, when I went to Beijing on business, whenever I passed the Media Center and Saite Shopping Mall, the taxi driver would say, See the words on that neon sign? Xu wrote it. I pretended to be interested, and they forcefully revealed the news that Lao Xu didn't write the words on Medea and Seth in high school. At that time, Lao Xu's father, old Lao Xu, was engaged in outdoor advertising, and his business was booming! In order to save some money, he asked Lao Xu to write. I don't know how many brands are written by Lao Xu. Lao Xu's handwriting is very good. This Chinese character is purely for dealing with things, which is not good. Their family has a small courtyard in the countryside of Xiaotangshan, and the Preface to Lanting written by Lao Xu hangs on the wall. That's good, just a little worse than Wang Xizhi! That arrogance is like talking about the girl next door in a quadrangle, showing warm joy. Yes, her handwriting is good, so good that Founder specially asked her to make a set of "Founder Xu Simplified" fonts and download them online, but only 10 yuan. I went to the Founder Font Download website to see the Lanting font library carefully built by Founder. A set of fonts is only 20 yuan, and Qigong is also 20 yuan, but the number of downloads is 40 times worse than Lao Xu's fonts. It can be seen that being a good-looking talented woman still has strong market value, which can make people buy it and pay the bill. However, in the label of Lao Xu, there are more talented women than stars. I have everything, as long as you are simple, kind and handsome. In 2006, blogs rose and she became the queen of blogs. In 2007, Youtube, the largest video website in the United States, announced that she was the first blogger in the world with more than 654.38 billion hits. On April 16, 2007, she took the lead in editing the electronic magazine Open, which was Aries' 33rd birthday. "Keira" is a bi-weekly magazine with original content, and its topics involve current affairs, history, film and television, music, books, tourism and other fashion and cultural fields. In the reception room of Lao Xu, as an interviewer, she raised different topics for discussion, such as Wang Shuo's comeback, Han Han's laughing and cursing, Liang Wendao's exclusive perspective and the dedication of the famous screenwriter Luo Diandian. By June 5438+1October 10, the average online reading and downloading volume of the magazine in a single issue exceeded 8 million times per month, and the advertisers included Gao Zi, Canon, Lane Crawford, Chevrolet, Toyota, Chrysler, China Film Group and Zhilian. In this long list, there are many familiar names and advertisers in Gao Fushuai, so it can be inferred that Lao Xu will not be short of money, and does not need to make hard money to buy flowers and clothes by making announcements as endorsements. She stood out from the level of a movie star and embarked on another direction that suited her. This woman who calls herself "Lao Xu" dares to be confident and laugh at herself. "Old" can be old, or it can be a high status in the Jianghu, but she can mobilize so many great people around her to help herself willingly. Lao Xu's "old" should be more than old age. An ambitious woman likes to try new things and new fields. She became an actress and began to become a director. So far, she has directed six films: Me and Dad, Letter from an Unknown Woman, Dream May Come True, Du Lala's Promotion, Close Enemy and One Place Only We Know, which are now being shown. Female directors's films are basically the projection of his own love view. In the recent movie "There is a place only we know", she said, "Please give me a little more time to find the right person. In this life, only the person next to my pillow can't give in. " "People who are not together are all wrong people, and you won't lose the right person." Marriage is not the only way to happiness. "Whether you are married or not, there is love. This love does not increase or decrease because of marriage. " It's not so much a line as a summary of Lao Xu's own feminist view of love and marriage, which just touches the point of women's love and pain. So she became the first female directors in Chinese mainland with a box office of over 100 million yuan, so she can confidently say: I have everything, as long as you are simple, kind and handsome. This slogan declaration, which is particularly widespread, reveals the confidence that sadness and joy are no longer affected by love, and reveals that I am the domineering of my own sense of security. Love is not only a preservative for women, but also an alchemist. After a lot of ups and downs, we finally understand that a person, an event and a relationship are all temporary sustenance, and we are the only ones who accompany us all our lives. Love is not only a romantic thing, but also a law of the jungle. The chance of love depends on a woman's own strength and spirituality. Most women regard love and marriage as their sense of security. In fact, anyone's sense of security can only be their own. Therefore, Lao Xu, who is alive and well, is neither a talented woman nor a female star female directors, but a woman with a sense of security. She penetrates harmlessly, gently and powerfully, and blooms implicitly. In the eyes of a woman, looking at her is a bit like looking at herself. She stumbled all the way, not necessarily perfect, but she is trying to explore life and finally live into her own belonging and belief. No matter what kind of life state, she is holding it. A talented lady