There is no need to argue about everything while people are alive. Clear water means no fish, while clear people mean no friends. What you strive for is reason, what you lose is emotion and what you hurt is yourself. Black is black, white is white, let time prove it. Let go of your self-righteous opinions, be open-minded and willing to work, and win a lifetime; More peace, more warmth, life is sunshine.
A grain of rice keeps the benefactor and a stone of rice keeps the enemy. What the old man said is right. Don't give yourself everything easily, leave some pride and love for yourself, remember, this is the coolest thing.
Maturity is not learning to express, but learning to swallow. When you learn to control many things bit by bit, you can control your life well.
Don't argue with those glib people. People who live well are busy enjoying life. Those who have a bad life and dirty thoughts only hope that others will be unhappy before trying to cut off their happiness with their meanness. Ignore these people and love yourself.
6. The circle determines life. What kind of people you get close to, what kind of road you will take. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. Card friends will only urge you to play cards, wine friends will only urge you to drink, and reliable people will affect how you make progress.
7. When you are at a low tide, think about it. Even if you can't save money now, you should save some knowledge, friendship and experience. At worst, you should learn some lessons.
8. At the moment when the problem appears, you must control your emotions, don't be angry, don't be extreme, don't say anything radical, and be patient. Patience is not to keep you from dealing with this matter, but to avoid doing things that embarrass you when your emotions are out of control. You will know later that there are really few things in life that deserve our courtesy, education, character and pattern.
9. Don't talk nonsense if you don't understand. I won't say much if I know. When you are upset, speak slowly. Don't say anything if you have nothing to say. Shut your mouth, don't make trouble, close your heart, please shut your mouth!
10. Commenting on one thing, only by putting yourself in the other's shoes can you speak and sigh in a measured way; To evaluate a person, we must first measure others, and then measure ourselves, so that we can have virtue in our hearts and kindness in our mouths.
1 1. Life is for career, not care. Feelings are for maintenance, not for testing.
12. The reason for many pains in life lies in blind competition! Don't die on a trivial matter. If you concentrate on one thing, no matter how small it is, it will be magnified infinitely, as if it were a great event. Then, turn your eyes, look at the world, look at the historical changes, look at the vastness of the universe, and then look back at that thing, you will find how insignificant it is.
13. Don't live with inferiority. People who are too inferior are often too sensitive. Too sensitive people are always unhappy. The best way is to focus on yourself. You are strong enough to care about others.
14. Life is a contest between self and self: all we have to do is let the positive overcome the negative, let the happiness overcome the melancholy, let the diligence overcome the laziness, and let the strength overcome the fragility. Honey, you are really nice, but you don't know it yet. In every hopeful morning, tell yourself: if you work hard, you can meet better yourself!
15. A truly powerful person will not spend too much time pleasing and attaching to others. The so-called circles and resources are just derivatives. The most important thing is to improve your internal strength. Only when you practice by yourself will others kiss you. I am a buttonwood, and the phoenix will come to live; I am the sea, and all rivers run into it. Only at that level will there be a corresponding circle, not the other way around.
16. Don't cheat friends no matter how poor you are; No matter how rich you are, you will never forget others. People are alive, character is more important than money, and friendship is more precious than interests.
17. Three things can't wait: filial piety, good deeds and fitness. Don't be afraid of three things: age, loneliness and the future. There are three things you can't regret: work, opportunity and birth. You can't insist on three things: spending money, drinking and getting married.
18. Don't complain about life. Everything you encounter is paying for your past. However, please remember: don't be afraid, don't worry, after ten years, everything is just a snack we should have.
19. Hard work may not pay off, but at least it can connect you with people who want to be better, and you will meet better people. No background. No background. It's okay. Then compare with the future, fight for the future, and rely on ambition! God never mistreats anyone who works hard.
20. The so-called threshold, enough ability is the door, and insufficient ability is the threshold. The gap in life is mostly due to lack of ability.