Look at the man you hit. I think it should be a boy. Boys always like to keep things in their hearts, but they don't like to say them all the time. And I think most boys have a good relationship with their fathers, so the pain of losing their loved ones is not easy for others to understand, but men of different ages think differently, so I don't know how old he is, and different ages want to comfort him in different ways. This is my personal opinion. I think since my friend's father said his condolences, by the way, it seems too hospitable. Of course, I'm not saying it's bad, but I think it's a little strange. I don't think anyone will be in a good mood when this happens. If you chatter around him and say something even to comfort him, it will disgust him. If you talk nonsense, you may make him feel that you can't understand his feelings at all. Seriously, everyone reacts differently to this kind of thing. Some people are completely immersed in sadness, and some people will comfort the people around them, so I think "there is more to say in silence than in voice", that is, don't say anything comforting. I suggest that you can always accompany him when he allows you, and accompany him wherever he goes. When he wants to talk, tell him, but don't say anything humorous or funny, because this time should be a sad time. Let you accompany him, not to make him not sad, but to help him release his sadness moderately. There are a series of words or things about his father that you should try not to say, and not only recently. I suggest that you don't talk about them in the next year or two. Maybe you think my request is a bit excessive, but many things don't end as we seem to see, as long as the parties know best. I have a friend whose father died. I remember that I haven't mentioned anything about my father for at least two years. Even if I sometimes talk about my family, I try not to say it or use "them" instead. I just want to try not to remind my friends of sad things and let time dilute everything. Maybe you'll think I'm a little escapist. In fact, if you think about it carefully, the whole family should get together on holidays, my father's birthday or my own birthday, or Tomb-Sweeping Day, or the anniversary. I think he will think of his father, but at that time, no one will necessarily notice his thoughts, nor will he necessarily show them when he was a boy. The family got together for the New Year, and he had to face the first New Year without a father. It was a day that he couldn't show his bad mood even if he wanted to. There are so many times in a year to remind him that he has lost his father. Do you still want to be the next "signboard"?