(1) How did PUA cheat?
? First of all, he will package himself in a special way, pay special attention to his inner and outer, and strive to build himself. They will also make girls feel sorry for themselves and worthy of sympathy, and they will also make girls curious about them. Then further let the girls tell their own stories. At this time, girls may say that they also have shortcomings (because saying these can make girls feel trust in him). At the back, they will hold on to what they think is "your mistake" and make girls feel guilty and inferior to him. So you can start to control it slowly and let you listen to him. If you don't listen to him, he will beat you with words and make you feel inferior, as if it were really my fault. At this time, there are more girls with depressive symptoms, so many girls will have self-harm behavior.
(2) How to prevent being cheated by PUA?
? I don't think we should believe those high-sounding sweet words. Attention is a high-sounding love story, and normal love stories can also be used. Learn to automatically screen people who pretend to be B, remember to stop loss in time, and find friends who like to pretend to be B, like to blame their mistakes or failures on what happened before, and often make you uncomfortable and unhappy. Don't be curious and patient with these people, just give them a cold face!
I should always think to myself, "What is their purpose? What is the intention of ","? ?
Also, even if others open their hearts to you, you can't just open your hearts to others. In fact, if the other person tells you some secrets only a few days after knowing you, and this secret makes people feel very pitiful, it will be even harder to get along with him, because generally speaking, the people who open their hearts to you within a few days are children.
Speaking of which, do you know what PUA means?