Husband should understand: a wife is a wife, as long as it hurts, don't compare it, don't say that she is not as beautiful as other people's wives, and don't criticize her for being incompetent. There are dragons and dragons, and there are phoenixes and phoenixes, all of which are beautiful, but you don't have the blessing and ability, and you can't enjoy them, let alone "knowing thousands of miles away, there is no rain and no wind"? Women are born weak and need men's love, and the consequences of mental injury will be even more terrible for them.

Wife should know: don't show your face to each other, an angry woman is ugly. He has been under great pressure at work and has no obligation to go home. He has to look at your face to make you happy. The other person will have shortcomings in personality, and the details of life will be different from yours, which will make you dissatisfied, but how can he be perfect? In front of you, he should put down his mask, be himself and be an ordinary person. Tolerance is the correct attitude towards life and marriage. Mutual tolerance and understanding.

Husband should understand: don't take your wife as a punching bag. A man who only tells his wife what to do is the most timid man. The wife is the rose in your garden, and the husband should be a professional gardener specially hired. If the gardener does his duty, the flowers will bloom more brightly. My wife is not a spoiled rose who stays in the garden all day. She also has to go through the baptism of wind and rain. Like a man, she faces society, career and colleagues. Faced with attempts, successes and failures, they encounter more difficulties than men. There are still endless housework to be cleaned up at home, and children's study and life need to be properly taken care of. Can't her husband let her put down her mask, be herself and be a relaxed person?

A wife should know that a man values dignity more than anything, no matter how much he loves you and fears you in private. In front of people, we must give each other enough face to be an indomitable man who is not afraid of his wife, and we don't like friends to make fun of him for being afraid of his wife. Unless he has strong backing and high status, most of us are ordinary people.

Husband should understand that women are also independent people and have self-esteem. The slogan of women's liberation has been shouted for more than half a century. Why do we have to be second-class citizens? Mutual respect and dignity are interactive and cannot be achieved by unilateral efforts. Why can't men think about it? A vain man needs false self-esteem, and only a down-to-earth man can get respect from others in his bones.