The bottom of society? Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what?
Fishermen must build a bamboo basket for one crab, not for a group.
Why?
A crab will climb up and escape. If two or more people want to climb up, no matter who wants to climb up, others will stretch out their crab claws and pull them down.
This is the real situation at the bottom of society.
At the bottom of society, when a person's material shortage is so extreme that he can't even get enough food and clothing, self-esteem and face become luxuries, and unscrupulous means become animal instinct.
At the bottom, the dark side of society is more real and three-dimensional, and all the intrigues and intrigues have been magnified countless times. In order to survive, in order to get more living resources, so many people lose the bottom line, distorted personality. Very poor people also have many psychological problems. Greedy poverty is often associated with inferiority, and once inferiority is fermented to a certain extent, it will madly hate the rich, retaliate against society, and do not hesitate to try the law for its own self-interest. I remember reading a message on the Internet that an interdisciplinary team at Harvard has done a psychological follow-up study: What will happen to people's way of thinking in poverty?
Several follow-up reports show that the attention of the poor will be excessively occupied by scarce resources, which will lead to the overall decline of cognition and judgment, and even lead to the imperfection of personality. In the process of competing for resources, there will be all kinds of irrational violence or other negative behaviors.
More than 2,000 years ago, Guan Shen said: You know honor and disgrace when you have plenty of food and clothing, and you know etiquette when you are in danger.
I don't think money is the standard to measure everything, and I don't think poverty itself is shameful, but I firmly believe that it is extremely shameful and terrible to think that I have solidified the lowest class and died of poverty.
No one can help you if you don't want to stand up.
The reason why the underclass is not worthy of nostalgia is that the lack of material needs the constant torture of human nature.
Who said, never torture human nature, because human nature can't stand the test.
I went back to my hometown that day and picked it in a village. Seeing the familiar name of this village, I remembered a friend who seemed to belong to this village, so I asked the people in this village. It really is. The man asked me, how is she recently?
I heard that I am divorced now? I said, no, we often meet. She is looking for an enterprise. The company is running well, so are the two of them. The children are also at school. They are smart, sensible and filial, and everything is fine. The man asked again, is the man she is looking for older than her? I said it looked like it, but it didn't look old and I couldn't tell.
. The man was silent.
Many days have passed, and I still feel a little uncomfortable thinking about the attitude of the villagers. My friend walked a long way in the first half of his life. He left the countryside for the city at the age of 30. He is diligent and studious. With his own efforts, he got a qualification certificate with high gold content and became the director of a chain store. Unfortunately, my marriage didn't go well, so I ran around. I didn't meet true love until I was in my forties. I'm married and have children. Husband's career is smooth, children are smart and lovely, and life is bitter first and then sweet.
As a fellow countryman and a good friend, I often feel happy and gratified for her. But why did someone make such a rumor out of thin air in her hometown where she grew up? Is it really annoying to laugh at people?
I have been away from home for many years and have always had deep feelings for my hometown. Everything in my hometown, a dialect, makes me feel very cordial. However, sometimes I can't help feeling similar malice from my hometown.
The poorer the place, the more people at the bottom, and the more they like to do these things. Because in that place, people's horizons and ideas are like this. If he is not as good as you, he will laugh at you every day. If you are better than them, they can't see your efforts and hardships. They think you are good, but they use some shady means, from envy to jealousy to hate. What they want is not to surpass you through their own efforts, but to expect your poor performance. They were embarrassed. If you keep getting better, you will get worse if you can get better, and you will be far from getting better.
Destroy you, or splash some mud on your white clothes, even if you can't get it.