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Advantages and disadvantages of children's politeness at home
Going out to play during the holiday, I don't know how to give my seat to my elders; At home during the winter vacation, I often lose my temper with my parents and the elderly ... Many parents worry about these common "old problems" that appear on their children. How to cultivate children's good behavior? A few days ago, in view of this situation, Jiang Bin Primary School in the urban area put forward the activity of "being knowledgeable and striving to be a civilized teenager" during the winter vacation.

It is understood that since 2003, relying on the Young Pioneers, Jiang Bin Primary School has carried out civilized etiquette education activities throughout the school. From the very beginning, the school established the theme of "Etiquette is blooming all over the campus", and publicized etiquette to students by organizing students' etiquette speeches, searching etiquette short stories, watching etiquette photo exhibitions, organizing etiquette theme team meetings, creating nursery rhymes (slogans), launching knowledge contests, and adding civilized etiquette posts, so that students can practice etiquette. However, the way of preaching makes students lack the enthusiasm to participate in activities; At the same time, activities are limited to schools, and there is no integration of family and social education resources and strength. Two years later, the school launched the "Chapter of Civilization" activity, organized all the students to carry out a series of activities of "Chapter of Civilization" for Young Pioneers, and awarded the titles of "Etiquette Model" and "Etiquette Star" at different levels.

"Compared with the previous activities, the enthusiasm of the students in the process of etiquette competition has been greatly improved. Especially in the' protection chapter' link, many children have personal experiences of losing the fruits of labor, and also have the desire and action to regain the fruits of labor. " Lu Huaying, principal of Jiang Bin Primary School, believes that the cultivation of students' manners is also a gradual process. In addition, how to evaluate communication etiquette and public place etiquette? These are all worthy of teachers' thinking.

It is understood that at present, primary schools in Jiang Bin have revised the content of "chapter for civilized use" and implemented graded chapters. Among them, the first grade has a badge of politeness and green scarf, the second grade has a badge of small host, small guest and red scarf, the third grade has a badge of tourism and friendship, the fourth grade has a badge of filial piety and etiquette, and the fifth grade has a badge of social service. For example, the first grade starts from the most basic: raising the national flag and lowering the national flag should be serious and solemn; Members of Xin Wei went to attend the ceremony of Xin Wei delegation; Say "hello, teacher" when you meet a teacher, and use polite expressions appropriately on different occasions.

Now, when you walk into the campus of Jiang Bin Primary School, you will see gratifying scenes: in the morning, when the national anthem rings, the children will stop everything in their hands and enter the classroom to respect the standard team ceremony for the national flag; In the assembly, the students behaved in an orderly and polite way; When the teacher visits, the children will consciously greet the teacher. In the face of visiting teachers' questions, they will answer generously. When going up and down the stairs, senior children will take the initiative to let their younger brothers and sisters go first. ...

The children's little progress is not only felt by teachers, but also by their parents and grandparents in the community. In order to let students know more about civilized manners, Jiang Bin primary school also carried out "uncivilized behaviors around me" and "family manners" activities. Organize students to carry out "I compare with my parents" civilized etiquette PK activities during the winter vacation. The Young Pioneers took home the "Youth Civilization and Etiquette Education Reader" and studied the knowledge of civilization and etiquette with their parents. Read an extra-curricular book about civilized etiquette knowledge with parents and share the happiness and feelings of learning civilized etiquette knowledge; At the same time, supervise the uncivilized behavior in the family and build a civilized, harmonious and happy family.

In addition, the school also launched a "New Year's Gift" activity among students to encourage children to understand the rich etiquette and culture contained in the Spring Festival, the most solemn traditional folk festival in China, and to find out the deficiencies of relatives and friends in civilized etiquette and hygiene during the process of visiting relatives and friends.