So many successful examples of brother and sister love show that some things are possible. The key is to face it together. Also, although economic problems rank first, the process of working together is the most beautiful and cherished. If that boy is more reliable, he won't leave because you can't compare with young girls in the future. Why not? I believe some boys will be worthy of your love, and I believe there are more mature young boys than you. I have seen an example where a girl obviously likes a boy, but refused to pursue him because she was worried that she was old. Girls who are six years younger and six years older stand together, as if they are of the same age, but after that?
Girls are generally older than boys and really together. They are really embarrassed when they are old. I think this is also the reason why most brothers and sisters died badly, because the conditions are not allowed. No matter how loud the slogan of equal rights is, the objective existence of the best reproductive age for women in biology is a cruel fact. If I want to have children, then 35 years old may be my last marriage. If I want to have another child, I will move forward at this time. Then the question is, are the resources I have mastered before the age of 35 enough to support me to occupy a dominant position in a relationship and become a major contributor? Even if the relationship breaks down later, it will not cause a loss that cannot be ignored?
If I am a rich second generation or a self-made rich man, I have completed the accumulation of original capital in my early years and have a strong support team. I will not reject the love between brother and sister at all. There is a young, simple, lovely and energetic brother who looks at me with admiration every day. Don't be too happy in life? Moreover, even if he chooses to leave me, break up peacefully or cheat, it will not affect me, because I have enough resources. At best, I feel like a hero who walked on after wandering among flowers for a few days.