On the road of our growth, we will always encounter the most difficult moments, sometimes from life, sometimes from work, mostly from work. At this time, we are helpless and at a loss. No one can help you and guide you. We can only survive the long night on our own. Yes, frustration. Everyone will encounter setbacks, and some people have encountered them more than once. The question is: how do we face setbacks?

1. Is the direction right? When you feel confused and at a loss, your confidence in the goal is mostly shaken, and some people even realize that the goal they have always thought is not the goal at all. Take this takeaway brother as an example. In the take-away industry, everyone knows that they eat a youthful meal and make money by fighting for speed. You earn tens of thousands of dollars a month quickly, and you cry slowly-the question is, when your physical strength can't keep up with the speed of takeaway requirements, how can you stay? I have always thought that the take-away and express delivery industries are industries that consume youth. The problem is that they have not accumulated after spending, and they have nothing left except the meager money they earned with time. Re-employment can only start from scratch. Therefore, young people who pursue ideas really don't recommend you to do express delivery unless you want to open a franchise station to squeeze other people's youth.

2. What are my shortcomings? In view of the difficulties encountered, is it that one's own ability has shortcomings and can't solve the problems faced, or that the accumulation of contacts and channels is not enough, resulting in many obstacles on the road? Pain is meaningless. When you encounter pain, it's time to reflect on your own problems. Finding out what is holding you back is the most precious wealth that setbacks should leave you.

3. mentality. There are also some people who are bored. Take me for example. Growing up is a character of "no opinion+please". After encountering great setbacks, I learned one thing through countless painful nights: it is unnecessary to please others. I have only my own experience in my life. I don't want to force myself for anyone. The so-called cup is not put down because it is not hot enough, so you can't hold it at all, so put it down. At this point, I figured out the problems that have plagued me for decades and completely abandoned this mentality. Now I basically don't care what others think, live extremely freely and fly every day.

Everyone will encounter setbacks, but the wealth that setbacks bring to everyone is different. In the face of every opportunity to break a cocoon into a butterfly, please don't shy away, don't give up, be brave and reborn, and a free world is your ultimate goal.

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