A real man should be decisive and independent, not indecisive, indecisive and indecisive, and everything has to be handled by women. Such a man is not a man, and no woman will like it. In addition, in life, many women like to be bullied by men. There is a phenomenon, why many men who are excellent in all aspects can't marry beautiful wives, while some men who are not so good have beautiful wives? This is the result of bullying. When a woman is hesitant about you, or you are about to catch up with her, some men lose confidence and give up on their own, while' overbearing' men deal with it decisively and bully the bully forcibly, and finally get what they want. Men and women, sometimes just a layer of enough paper, will break when poked, and will never break if not poked.
"Overbearing" men also have a gentle side. He is filial to the elderly, loves his wife and takes care of children. He will suffer regardless. In particular, he cares about his other half, is "overbearing" and "selfish" emotionally, and can't tolerate sharing love with a third party, and can't tolerate others' harm to the other half, otherwise "overbearing" men will dare to fight with each other. Such a man will give a woman a sense of security.
Finally, I want to give three suggestions to girls: 1. Don't blindly immerse yourself in the sense of security created by overbearing men, because the best sense of security comes not from others but from yourself! 2. We should know our past experience, which leads to some emotional loss or psychological stagnation, and meet our psychological needs by gaining spiritual growth; If you want to get a long-term and stable marriage, don't blindly pursue the so-called "feeling" when facing the pursuit of men.