I analyzed the other person's psychology: "I think I am better than his wife, and I deserve him more."

Cheng Yu is an older woman, and the reason why she was left behind is that, as her brother said, she just has a high eye. But in the matter of getting married, it has always been that you can look at others and see if others can look at you.

Cheng Yu kissed one after another, so disdainful and disdainful. At the end of the day, everyone in the family was tired of her. Ignore her and marry whoever you want.

For a character like Cheng Yu, if you want to marry, you have to marry a very rich person, which makes her proud at once. But after all, she is not a girl. The older you get, the higher your vision. People around her say that she is unrealistic, but she just wants to hook up with a rich husband.

It is true that women want to live a good life. Every woman has the right to pursue a better life. But this means that you are struggling on your own, not relying on men to live a good life.

Cheng Yu met Zhao Bin at the age of 38. Zhao Bin's family are all businessmen, especially Gao Fushuai, but he has no skills. He is supported by the family business. Most importantly, Zhao Bin is married.

Zhao Bin's wife, Qinghe, is a very traditional and virtuous wife, which fully meets the requirements of Zhao Bin's parents. Zhao Bin's parents are very satisfied with Qinghe's daughter-in-law. But parents like gentle and kind Qinghe, while Zhao Bin likes overbearing Cheng Yu.

Zhao Bin began to pursue Cheng Yu, and Cheng Yu quickly agreed. Zhao Bin meets all her requirements for a man, except that she is married and can get a divorce. So, Cheng Yu rightfully with Zhao Bin. She thinks she is many times better than Zhao Bin's wife Qinghe.

That little woman obsessed with Nuo Nuo doesn't deserve Zhao Bin. Didn't she just give birth to a son to Zhao Bin's family? She can have children, so she is in.

So, a year later, Cheng Yu also gave birth to a boy for Zhao Bin. I have everything except Zhao Bin's divorce papers.

Cheng Yu asked Zhao Bin to have a showdown with his family, and Zhao Bin did file a divorce with Qinghe. To Zhao Bin's surprise, his parents resolutely opposed it, preferring not to have Zhao Bin as a son, but also to have Qinghe and Qinghe's children.

After a showdown with the family from Zhao Bin, Zhao Bin's parents cut off all expenses in Zhao Bin. Parents are very firm: "You either break up with that woman outside or leave this house. The business at home will belong to the children of Qinghe in the future, and you don't want to take anything away. "

Zhao Bin is a person who depends on his parents. Of course, he won't break up with his family for Cheng Yu. He can only break up with Cheng Yu and have no children.

Qinghe is a fierce person. How can she let go? So she began to go to Zhao Bin's house often. She also went to Zhao Bin's parents' shop to make trouble, leaving the children at the door to make everyone feel better.

Zhao Bin advised Cheng Yu: "Stop it, no matter what you do, I won't be with you. I am sorry for you. "

Cheng Yu gambled his whole life on Zhao Bin. How could she give up? She said to Zhao Bin, "If you don't divorce, I will come to your house every day, and no one will want to be better."

Zhao Bin's parents know that Cheng Yu is an unreasonable woman, so they call Cheng Yu's brother: "We can't have Cheng Yu in our family. You know what kind of person she is. We don't want her children either. If Zhao Bin is with her, we don't even want Zhao Bin. "

Cheng Yu's brother has always disdained his sister's ambition. However, my sister has become like this, she can't go to work by herself, and she has a child. It's really pathetic. Therefore, Cheng Yu's brother discussed with Zhao Bin's parents: "Cheng Yu really brought this on herself, but she really can't afford to raise a child herself. If you don't want it, you have to give Cheng Yu some money to raise her children. "

Finally, Cheng Yu's brother and his parents reached an agreement to give Cheng Yu 65,438+10,000 yuan in one lump sum, and Cheng no longer went to the Zhao family to make trouble. Cheng Yu's children have nothing to do with Zhao.

Cheng Yu wants to make trouble again. Cheng Yu's brother took Cheng Yu away: "You are shameless, and your parents and brother still want face. You are not right at all. You deserve it. " When I was young, blind date was so disdainful and disdainful. When you are old, find a married person and dare to have children. Do you want to live well in this life? "

This is the road that older women regret most. They don't want to settle for the rest, so they rob others.

Here, I want to declare that my following remarks are not aimed at women who plan to be single all their lives. I only target older women who blindly want to climb higher.

Remember, what kind of person you are, what kind of person you will meet. When you are not good enough, it is difficult for you to meet better people. If you are not good enough, you just want to climb those good people.

Remember a word, marriage is not a fairy tale, not poverty alleviation. No one owes you anything, and no one can save you and change your destiny. Only you can change your destiny.

When you want to rely on others to change your destiny, your destiny begins to stagnate or even go backwards. The laziness you stole will eventually become a stumbling block in your life.

More importantly, people can't make some mistakes in this life. It will accompany you all your life.

Just like Cheng Yu, she could have married someone similar to herself and lived steadily, but she was too ambitious and found Zhao Bin. In the end, she didn't say anything, even the most innocent children were involved.

Women must learn to be responsible for themselves in this life, because only if you are responsible for yourself will others be willing to be responsible for you.