All young members of the * * * production party, the vast number of national civil servants take the lead! These people receive red envelopes for weddings and bride price for their daughters. If their sons get married, buy a house and buy a car, they will all be expelled from the party's public office and the leaders who formulate the general principles of civil law. Please take the lead.
To manage, let's manage the house price first.
First of all, correct one point. The Civil Code's description of the restriction of high-priced bride price from 202 1 1 is different from the reality, which is easy to mislead. Please correct it here.
Correctly understand that according to Article 1042 of the Civil Code, it is forbidden to arrange, buy or sell marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to ask for property through marriage.
When reading this regulation carefully, we should pay attention to the true meaning or key points of the regulation. The key point is the last sentence "It is forbidden to ask for property by marriage".
If the two sides are based on the principle of equality and voluntariness, then whether or not to give a bride price, or how much, does not violate the relevant regulations in theory.
This rule is actually a bit like being made for that kind of "cheating marriage". For example, when the two sides negotiate to get married, the woman asks for a certain amount of bride price, which is obviously beyond the man's ability, but in order to get married, the man makes a patchwork of bride price.
However, shortly after the marriage, the woman filed for divorce and refused to return the bride price, which violated the relevant provisions of the Civil Code on "bride price" and the court would relatively support the man's request to return the bride price.
To put it bluntly, the woman can't ask for property in disguise on the grounds of marriage, especially asking for a high bride price far beyond the man's economic ability. Actually, it's easy to understand. If you are really in a hurry to get married, the bride price will not be an obstacle. If you are not in a hurry to live, the bride price will definitely become an obstacle for both sides.
High bride price has become a social problem. The bride price has existed since ancient times and lasted for thousands of years. It must have its rationality. But now the bride price has been written into the law, which shows that the bride price has become a social problem and needs to be controlled by legislation.
In recent years, people's income has greatly increased, followed by a substantial increase in bride price, which even far exceeds the increase in income, resulting in many young people unable to get married because of bride price, and even some criminal cases have occurred.
The most fundamental reason for this phenomenon is that the trust between people has decreased.
The man showed distrust of the woman's request for a high bride price. It is generally believed that the woman is suspected of "extortion" and wants to earn more money for her family. Women generally think that the bride price will be lower, or lose its value, or have the idea of buying an "insurance" for themselves.
Indeed, due to various reasons, the divorce rate is very high now, and the woman is afraid that she will face divorce one day, so she wants to get a "guarantee" before marriage so that she can be prepared in the future. In fact, the man's reluctance to pay more bride price is also the same worry, fearing that he will end up with both money and people.
Obviously, this is a direct manifestation of mutual distrust and has become a vicious circle.
Marriage based on love is the best guarantee. In the final analysis, the bride price is only a kind of "contract" at the beginning of marriage, and it can also be regarded as the first real "confession" between the two sides, expressing their loyalty to the next marriage with real money and silver.
However, marriage is a lifelong matter, and the key factor to maintain marriage is always inseparable from love, and it is based on love. Those model couples who have been with each other all their lives have carried their love to the end because they love each other deeply.
Living needs a material foundation, and the conditions for love are also essential. Marriage without love is actually a simple life together. In this case, what's the difference between who you live with?
I have always believed that it is very important to be suitable for a suitable family, which is one of the basic conditions for maintaining a long-term marriage.
A man should know his own strength and see clearly whether a woman's character is for himself or for the bride price.
Women should also know their own strength, how much bride price they are "worth", and whether the man opposite came by himself or married for the sake of marriage.
A high bride price can buy back a "marriage certificate" in duplicate, which may not buy long-term happiness.
Low-cost bride price can also buy back a "marriage certificate", which may not necessarily lead to long-term happiness.
For the wedding bride price, our slogan is: not the highest, but the most suitable.
There is no need to control the bride price. If a man doesn't marry a wife, there will be no place for a bride price. The more a woman wants a bride price, the less a man marries to see who can survive.
There are many bachelors, and there are many leftover women. It's hard to be a bachelor, and the leftover women are worried. A bachelor is bitter, but a leftover woman is annoying. A bachelor has no home, and a leftover woman has no home. Bachelors drink a lot, while leftover women drink enough. Fake smile during the day and miss at night. Men and women who don't think about spring are dead in the bride price pit.
Want a bride price, want a bride price, and sell a keyword. What you want is the price, not the sale. Not selling people, but selling what? The ceremony of argument is not a ceremony. Who doesn't want to powder his face and ass? Someone knows! A gift is a gift, and a table is a heart. Melon seeds are not fried in people's hearts! No matter how much the bride price is, as long as people are good.
Civil code, legal person, no outsiders in trading occasions. You don't talk, he doesn't talk, and a finger sets the price. The horse market deals are good, but I don't know the method of bride price. What's the difference between this and buying and selling?
It makes sense that our country is not a rich country, and the general public is not rich. However, if you want to get married easily, you need180 thousand or even 200 thousand or 300 thousand. It is really a poor family, which also laid a curse for family instability in the future. For the man, I bought this wife with money; As far as the woman is concerned, my family has received a lot of money from others, so it is difficult to stand up straight when coming over. Everything depends on the mother-in-law's face. This kind of marriage has nothing to do with love at all, but a business relationship.
Unreasonable, willing to fight and willing to take things, really wide.
But this society does not allow men to suffer, and the direction of public opinion is also determined by men. So the policy has really come out, and the policy is also decided by men. Women will suffer if they don't flatter men, so I'm not surprised to launch this next year.
In short, I will be scolded, I tell the truth. I may be ignorant, feudal and selfish. I don't want a daughter.
The original intention of limiting the sky-high bride price is good! However, from the perspective of restrictions, is it equivalent to the national government giving a price? China's economic development level is unbalanced, that is, the economic situation of each family is different. Don't say that families in different regions or the same region have different positioning of the concept of sky-high price. So the so-called rejection of the sky-high bride price, I think as long as both sides can accept it. In addition, on the other hand, bride price and dowry are traditional folk rituals. It is not only money and goods, but also a kind of respect for both families, a blessing for newlyweds and a heritage of tradition. Therefore, the national laws restrict the sky-high bride price, which is also the recognition of the bride price! What is the sky-high price depends on the economic strength of each individual.
Without paying the bride price, will the state allocate the bride's house and car to accompany her?
You don't have to give a bride price, but you don't have to marry a wife. Civil weddings and funerals are not subject to institutional constraints. The government has always advocated not to make a mountain out of a molehill, but who has complied? In particular, the sky-high bride price in our county has reached about 200,000. You can't afford the bride price, but someone can. Therefore, young men go to work to earn money in order to marry a wife by their own labor. The sky-high bride price will not stop, but will get higher and higher.