A daughter who grows up in a good family environment is not bad in essence. For men, this must be considered when choosing marriage.
Marrying a woman with a good family style is the foundation of your own marriage happiness. Some men are unhappy in marriage and marry the wrong wife, mostly because they didn't see their wife's family style clearly before marriage.
When we choose a partner, we don't just mean material things. More importantly, our family styles are similar and our families are similar. Only when the three views are consistent can we come together.
The happiness of marriage is closely related to family of origin's family style, whether it is husband and wife. Good love depends on three views, and good marriage depends on family style. You can't marry a woman with a bad family background, no matter how much you love her. When a man chooses a spouse, it is best not to marry the daughter of this family, otherwise it will be difficult to get married.
The daughter of a family that loves the rich and the poor.
Since ancient times, everyone has it? Love money? Psychologically, but love the rich can't be too poor, too poor and love the rich, and marriage is doomed to be unhappy.
Parents have a deep-rooted influence on their children. Even if they escape, it will not change the chaotic relationship in the Origin Family. The daughter of the family who is too poor to love the rich has no true feelings in her eyes, and most of them only have interests. Whoever is kind to her will go with them. Such women and men must stay away.
Therefore, when a man chooses a spouse, it depends on what kind of parents a woman is and what kind of family relationship they have. If parents themselves are too poor, love wealth, and are vain and mercenary, you can't expect to teach any good daughters.
A mother-in-law who hates the poor and loves the rich is the happiest marriage? Black boy? ! They often instigate and brainwash their daughters, making them feel that this man is not so good and that their married life is not good at all.
Daughter of a powerful and overbearing family.
The stronger the mother, the more overbearing the daughter. A bad-tempered mother must have a bad-tempered daughter, and a mother will certainly pass on her bad temper to her daughter.
In a family with a strong mother, the daughter's subtle influence on her mother will gradually show her overbearing side in adulthood. Especially when a daughter is a wife and a mother, she will inherit her mother's overbearing character, which is undoubtedly revealed in family life.
Women who are too strong will impose their desire for control on their husbands. They always control men to death. Over time, men will feel that they lack freedom and it is difficult to feel the warmth of home.
Brother assistant? Daughter at home.
When choosing a spouse, men are most afraid of marrying some? Brother assistant? ,? Mother slave? Daughter at home.
Those families who always squeeze their daughters, even if they get married, will teach their daughters to help their parents and subsidize most of their money to their parents' younger brothers. Even if a man can make money, he can't stand the expenses of his daughter in this kind of family.
There are many such examples in life. When the woman got married, she asked the man for a bride price, and then turned around and gave the money to her brother for marriage.
Brother assistant? Daughters raised at home still can't forget their parents after marriage, and always give things at home. In their eyes, her family is the real family, and her elbow always turns to her family, which makes her family's burden heavier. Marrying the daughter of such a family is not good after marriage.
Women are the feng shui of the family, women's safety leads to family safety, family safety leads to family prosperity, and family prosperity leads to happiness. So, you must find a good woman to marry.
Zhou said: How far a man's dream can go, the woman around him is the most critical factor. ?
Keep your eyes open before marriage? Not just a slogan. Only by opening your eyes wide and polishing your eyes can you see not only a woman's true character, but also her family style and character, and the marriage can be stable. For the daughters of these families, it is best for men not to get married, otherwise it will be difficult to get married.
When you marry a wife, you marry virtue, not color. A good wife is not her appearance, but her mental outlook. When a man marries a wife, he should not only covet the beauty of appearance, but also see whether she is gentle, virtuous, kind and considerate, tolerant and generous.
Marrying a wife should be moral first. If it is influenced by looks, it will lose its original meaning and be doomed to be farther and farther away from happiness. Only by marrying a virtuous man can we be happy for a long time.