Kobe Bryant, like Fisher and Jackson, was rebellious, withdrawn and uneducated when he was young. In other words, he is arrogant and can't get along with others, which is completely different from being narrow-minded.
Narrow-minded should mean the same thing as petty, mainly saying
Small gas volume and low mode
A little thing can hang in my heart for many days!
Kobe is obviously not a low-key person.
At that time, in the Eagle County incident, Kobe Bryant ran at both ends of the court, but it did not affect his playing. As long as he is playing, he can put everything aside. People with low patterns can't do this. A little thing in life may make them complain for a long time, not to mention a case that may lead to jail!
If Kobe was narrow-minded, I think he would have fallen in Eagle County and never got up again.
The reason why some fans think Kobe is narrow-minded is that the educational environment from childhood is incompatible with Kobe's personality.
Many families in the previous generation used "being kind to others".
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There is nothing wrong with these slogans and values to educate children, such as "forbearance first" and "be a man, see you later". The key is to understand that there may be deviations.
For example, "be kind to others", I think it should be based on the premise that others will not infringe on my life and interests. Everyone laughed and looked amiable. I think the complete slogan should at least be
"People don't attack me, be kind to others."
You can't just say half a sentence! ! !
And we can see from Kobe's facts that even if his parents don't come to the wedding, they must marry Vanessa.
Don't attack me. If you attack me, I will get back at you.
The understanding of this article is extremely extreme, as long as others disagree with themselves, that is "
People are attacking me.
",so he often looks arrogant and won't" be kind to others "again. Of course, this is not the case now.
Actually, it's not petty, but as phil jackson, the "Zen master", said,
Not taught.
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He was doing it for "
How can people feel guilty about me?
There is a deviation in understanding ",but because no one teaches him and he doesn't listen to what others say, there is no shortcut for people like him, so they can only cook by themselves until they understand it, and everything will be solved;"
So I don't think it matters what others think of you. The most important thing is what you really want. Know yourself. Many misunderstandings under rules and regulations will become invisible and disappear into nothingness. After all, the winner is the king and the loser is the enemy, and the world is the first. All that remains is the details!