Don't believe the story that Cui Yingying, the daughter of Xiangfu, rescued Zhang Sheng from poverty. The reality is that Chen Shimei, the top student in high school, wanted to kill Qin Xianglian and his son, mostly out of resentment and revenge. 1. Men with violent tendencies can't get married. Men with bad hobbies can't marry. 3. A man who doesn't love you, doesn't care about you and doesn't value you can't get married. A man weaker than himself can't get married. Women need to look up, worship and be led by men. Only in front of men who are stronger than themselves will naive girls willingly surrender; In front of such a woman, men can feel good and confident, which has nothing to do with love or not. This is human nature. In marriage, once a woman is stronger than a man, she will become tough, dissatisfied, nagging and lacking tenderness, which has nothing to do with morality, but the essence of human gender roles. In front of a strong wife, men will feel inferior, depressed and even resentful. This is also why many women who have worked hard to accompany their husbands to fight for the world are finally a successful husband who can't wait to abandon her and find another lover, as if all his struggles are to abandon her and get rid of her one day. This is really a cruel tragedy. Don't believe the story that Cui Yingying, the daughter of Xiangfu, rescued Zhang Sheng from poverty. The reality is that Chen Shimei, the top student in high school, wanted to kill Qin Xianglian and his son, mostly out of resentment and revenge. So, marry a man who is better than you and let nature take its course. A beautiful and long-lasting marriage must have a good start. I'm afraid things have been wrong from the beginning, and it's no use making up later. If the starting point is a drop in the bucket, it is inevitable that the journey of love will not go far. Test: Is he prone to violence? Psychological research is an important indicator to judge the tendency of violence, and it is a way for a person to deal with stress and anxiety. Female friends may wish to judge whether your couple is violent through the following questions, and then decide whether to continue their relationship with each other or book each other's life. 1. What does he do when he is angry? No matter how unreasonable your argument is, he will do things like throwing things, hitting walls, smashing things and hurting you. This is just a dangerous sign that he lacks self-control. 2. Is his mood polarized? An emotionally polarized person is a reflection of his immature personality. He is kind when he is in a good mood, but he is also quite violent and cruel at other times. Did he try to alienate you from your relatives and friends? Cutting off your contact with relatives and friends is an effective way to control you. Does he often do this? Does he often feel that you are responsible for his mistakes? For him, everything is someone else's fault. 5. Can he care about other people's feelings? If he has no ability to consider other people's feelings, it means that he may hurt others. 6. Did he hit you? No matter how he apologizes, once he hits you once, he has already broken the taboo of the relationship between men and women, which will make the next shot easier. 7. How did he react to your success? It is natural to show some jealousy, but if he shows threats, anger, anger and other emotions, it is a sign of danger. 8. Will he agree or identify with your personal pursuits and interests? The abuser's low self-esteem often makes him want to control the will and actions of others, so as to enhance his self-esteem. Therefore, he tends to be self-centered and ignores your opinions and independent choices. The abuser's low self-esteem is often threatened by your pursuit of personal ideals, so that he is unwilling to pursue his own interests, growth and development. 9. Does he look down on himself? The more you look down on yourself, the easier it is to cover up his insecurity with violence. 10. Did he try to control you? Does he seem to care, but in fact he interferes with your life and freedom too much? For example, no matter how you dress or live, you may even feel that you can't make a decision without him. 1 1. Are you afraid to break up for fear of retaliation? If you have already felt this fear, you should seek help immediately. 12. Is he very traditional about male and female roles and insists on "what men should do and what women should do"? Pay attention to whether he thinks that women should stay at home and take care of their husbands and follow their instructions.