First, for children who love reading novels, when parents discourage them, they should communicate more and understand more, guide them reasonably, and must not be rude! Addiction to novels is like playing games and chasing dramas! It's really itchy not to finish reading it. If I start, let him finish reading this book in his spare time, and stipulate that he will not read it in the future, so as to achieve mutual understanding and mutual supervision!
Second, go into the children's world and read with them. The best way to be friends is to share the same values and hobbies. You can try to read children's novels, and then share your opinions with your children, what the novels have brought you, gradually open the channels for communication between children and parents, and enhance mutual understanding and trust.
Third, it is necessary to find out what novels Chu is reading. If it is a novel that is helpful to learning, it should be strongly supported. Each of us came from our school days. Who didn't read a few novels when we were students? Of course, if it is a boring or even harmful novel, we must resolutely stop it. The first-year students like comic books and fantasy novels best. Both of these books are not good, and even contain unhealthy contents.
Four, students reading novels can not affect their study. Many students read novels in class, after class, after dinner and while sleeping. I dozed off in class and didn't finish my homework, which was too much. We read novels, one is to cultivate reading interest, and the other is to relax. If reading novels affects your study and even hurts your health, it's really not worth the candle. We should guide and stop it.
5. Parents should guide their children to read novels with healthy content, not novels with pornographic and violent content. Tell the children clearly which novels can't be read first, and then when the children go to buy books and borrow books, parents had better control them. Or parents help their children choose and choose healthy novels for their children to read.
Sixth, children like reading novels because novels can bring him spiritual pleasure and pleasure; What I hoped to get in real life didn't come true, so I turned to reading novels and other people's stories and had a good time. Especially in adolescence, when children don't want to tell their parents what they think (I don't know how your parent-child relationship is) or can't understand it, they will put their emotions into hobbies, find * * * songs in novels, and listen to their own voices, which is easy to immerse themselves in.
It's best to have a heart-to-heart talk with them at an appropriate time, understand their psychological thoughts in time, and make it clear that it is ok to read novels properly and relax in boring study. But at the same time, let them deeply realize the importance of learning, allocate their time reasonably, and don't be too addicted to novels.