Zhong Yi is happy to tell you that he spent 100 days and only spent 3,000 yuan, walked through 16 provinces and 3 1 towns, and met hundreds of netizens, ranging from 16 to 66 years old; He is pleased to tell you that there are 875 inviters from all over the world on his personal website "Studying in China in Zhong Yi", and he has sent him an invitation. Before going to bed every day, he saw the new trust of strangers and was too excited to sleep countless times. He is happy to tell you that his book A Journey of Mutual Assistance is very popular, but he is just a science student with poor writing style. Traveling around the country is a miracle in his life. He is 25 years old and graduated from college for two years. Everything is ordinary.
Like many people, Zhong Yi remembers a song "I'm going to Guilin"-time without money, money without time. And his slogan of promoting mutual travel is-we must fight against the idea that we have no money to travel and no time to travel for a long time.
There is not a dog behind the computer.
Clock surfing time is 1995. At that time, there was a popular saying on the Internet: "No one on the Internet knows that you are a dog." When Zhong Yi graduated from Nanjing Normal University, majoring in computer science, computers have deeply influenced our lives. The Internet has changed from the mode of "man-machine conversation" to the state of "everyone speaks".
"Don't treat me like a dog. I am a real person. You see, this is me. There are famous surnames and photos that record my real life, my circle of friends, my photo gallery, my voice and my simple travel ideas. " At first glance, on the wishing tree of this "mutual help tour" site, every leaf is a unique and interesting person, and every leaf has written down the desire to travel.
People can trust each other. Zhong Yi turned himself in first. He described himself almost narcissistically and completely on the website where he applied for mutual travel-Chinese name: Zhong Yi, English name: Vino, native place: Suzhou, height: l80cm, weight: 70kg, current education: undergraduate, major: network security ... He described himself in detail with pictures and words, and recorded that he had suffered six injuries while playing football in college. Pictures of his parents' family, childhood life and life fragments. He showed various media links to his reports on his website ... He tried his best to catch the man who opened the website for a second and told him that he was trustworthy.
Gain the trust of others
Zhong Yi remembers the first time he was invited to live in a girl's house. The girl is a freshman, and her parents are ordinary adults who are rushing around in the street, and they have ordinary vigilance and enthusiasm for people. Zhong Yi's challenge to himself is to gain people's trust in the shortest time. Three minutes to convince others that you are a good person, and he did it.
The girl's parents didn't fully understand the meaning of traveling with each other, but the kindness of ordinary people made them accept this younger generation.
Zhong Yi remembers a boring chat that night. He watches TV and eats grapes with the girl and her parents, which makes him feel very quiet and homely.
There is a turtle in the girl's house. After stocking for more than 20 years, the tortoise never left, sometimes disappeared for several months, but suddenly appeared again one day. For example, that day, the tortoise suddenly came out face to face, and everyone walked around talking and laughing. The scene is particularly beautiful. Beauty is bought with trust.
Many people like to ask Zhong Yi how to win the trust of others. He said that the most important thing is how to trust others from your own point of view. In order to confirm that the person behind the computer is a trustworthy person and a lovely person, Zhong is very cautious about the safety of mutual help tour-every time from telephone chat to video chat to the creation of the same topic, the loop detection is not lost.
"In many of my mutual aid experiences, 100% success is true, because 1% doubt is not good for me. So be sure to contact, communicate and communicate in advance. After discussion, others generally don't change their minds temporarily. As for the time of acquaintance, my experience is more than three months, the shortest month. Before accepting the invitation, I need to see, hear and understand this person. "
Everyone is a scenic spot.
During the trip, Zhong Yi remembered that a girl taught him a flower cultivation technique, dropping a drop of disinfectant in a vase to prolong the flowering period. The girl's mother is the head nurse During his travels, he often meets such a special person, which is the charm of "people" in mutual travel.
Every time he travels to a strange family, the other party provides him with a bicycle, a tour guide and convenient accommodation: in a strange family, the constraint and discomfort caused by strangeness can be imagined. Zhong Yi completely ignored this point. He thought that all the trips had no regrets and failures, only differences. This is a people-oriented trip.
During the trip, Zhong Yi didn't have any preconceived ideas and expectations about the city he was going to. He just let himself follow the eyes of this helper. Every time I walk into a friend's house in a different place, I begin to understand a strange city that I have been longing for for for a long time from the smallest cell.
He likes the trip to Fangchenggang, Guangxi very much. He was supposed to learn diving there, but in the end he learned nothing and stayed there for a week. The inviter fee is a senior manager of a local edible oil factory. When Fei sees it alone, tell him that I have prepared seven or eight houses for you. The 30-year-old Fei was born in the 1970s. He took a tour of the small town, fished and met the boatman who ran the transportation ... He told him all the fun of living in this small town, and every night Fei talked about all the problems faced by a 30-year-old man and a 20-year-old boy.
When I arrived in a strange city, I vaguely chose to give myself to that person and give it to a brand-new life. Every time, Zhong Yi was immersed in the joy of trust.
On his website, Zhong Yi clearly told others that in the process of helping him, he would get these rewards-you get a gift from the last netizen and give it back, and I will bring it to the next netizen; Zhong Yi shares with you the wonderful stories of the journey; Let more people know you through my website and make friends with people all over the country; Teach you how to set up a personal website and make friends and shop online; Have the opportunity to taste Zhong Yi's junior Jiangnan cuisine; Discussion on outdoor tourism knowledge; Oral English learning and communication; Computer anti-virus technology exchange; Golf and tennis exchange ideas.
Success = knowledge+contacts
Win-win, mutual benefit and common interests ... Zhong Yi clearly saw the hot elements of the present era in his travel style. Chen An, a successful researcher in Shenzhen, once told Zhong Yi that success is knowledge+relationship, and relationship accounts for 70%. This sentence is written in Zhong Yi's book. In the Internet age, Zhong Yi has been vague about the power of surfing the Internet, although he doesn't know what else he can do besides "traveling".
Zhong Yi never rashly completes a journey of mutual assistance with any inviter, and he regards the inviter as a friend. Through the mutual help network, Zhong Yi made friends with hundreds of invitees from all over the country. Among them, he said that hundreds of people are his friends, and these 100 people are in contact every day, whether they are traveling or helping in life. For a normal person, 100 friends can't be obtained by ordinary social interaction, which is a by-product behind Zhong Yi's mutual help tour.
Zhong Yi wrote a sentence in his blog: The world is a book, and people who don't travel read only one page. We can't expand the length of life, but we have every opportunity to expand the width and breadth of life. The breadth and breadth of those lives are established through "people". Zhong Yi likes those unique and interesting inviters, and likes to see a strange city and the real life behind the Internet in their eyes.